To think of they want to bath together then it’s not a problem?

[LondonLady1980]

I have two boys; the eldest is 11.5 years old and the youngest has just turned 8.

They adore each other and are pretty much inseparable which also includes bath time.

I have never had a problem with them bathing together as that’s what they choose to do, but some of my friends who have children of a similar age have started making comments that it isn’t appropriate.

They have expressed concern for my eldest son and say that at “his age” (puberty implications I imagine) he shouldn’t have to share a bath.

But I’m not making them share….they want to share. I give them to option to bathe alone if that’s what they’d prefer, but they don’t want to.

When I explain this to my friends I just get eye rolls in my direction.

What do other parents do in this situation?

Should I be enforcing separate baths?

I went to school. I don't have memory issues. You are rude!

I have plenty to do with children of all ages.

I really don’t understand why others should be bothered by this. Family bathing is common in many cultures. For instance, the Japanese and the Finns (sauna culture!).

Please don’t feel you have to pressure your children to change. Very soon your children will be grown and things were change on their own. The closeness they have developed as children will help them throughout their lives.

Absolutely this! I think you’ll find this will sort itself out organically as your eldest son moves a bit further on into secondary school. Personally I would embrace the fact that they are so close as that’s not always the case with siblings. Your boys sound lovely!