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To think that white British/ American etcmen are just as much a threat to women as migrants?

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malificent7 · 08/08/2025 12:47

I am not excusing grooming, paedophile sex rings and unmonitored immigration at all but I hate all these protests.
I know that my white male ex teacher is a sex offender. Not to mention the Epstein scandal.
Aibu to think that ALL men are a danger to women...not just men of different ethnicities/ religions etc?

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MiloMinderbinder925 · 08/08/2025 19:45

JamesMacGill · 08/08/2025 19:44

I have no idea what you're talking about

You're like the robocop of the inane.

Somerford · 08/08/2025 19:47

MiloMinderbinder925 · 08/08/2025 19:38

So the Tories are left?

Boris was busy with the Boris Wave as Carrie was on a full blown trans women are women campaign. Massive borrowing, massive spending and the state locking their entire population in their homes. If you want to argue that THAT was a right wing government then crack on but don't expect any more replies on this specific subject, its a waste of your time. More importantly its a waste of mine.

JamesMacGill · 08/08/2025 19:50

ThatCyanCat · 08/08/2025 19:45

If you're not capable of following the conversation, then you clearly have nothing to contribute to it.

You do understand, though. This is just more evasive dishonesty to avoid giving answers. I'd say I'm disappointed but it's exactly what I expect these days. One reason why I'm politically homeless.

You don't want change. You want to shout at people and perform. You'll be doing that for a long time, so that should make you happy.

🙌

TooBigForMyBoots · 08/08/2025 19:51

Somerford · 08/08/2025 19:09

Of the people who did something worthy of being arrested, 2 in 5 were already known to be scum bags. Not particularly shocking, scum bags will behave like scum bags.

Lots of ordinary people are frequently participating in protests right now though, and this stat won't be used to dismiss their legitimate concerns. According to YouGov, which tends to skew left, 73% of people think immigration has been too high in the past 10 years. The left has well and truly lost this argument.

Most people in the country think immigration has been too high, including the left.🙄

VAWG is at epidemic proportions in NI and pretty shit across the rest of the UK. I wish people would spend as much energy tackling the cancer that is VAWG as they do co-opting the real plight of women and children into their culture wars.

FortheloveofCheesus · 08/08/2025 19:52

I think women in the UK are at a higher risk of violence from men who come from countries where there are higher rates of violence against women.

Sadly this is what i worry about. Men who are raised in countries where by law women have few rights, believing women are lesser and can be legally subjugated, are likely to have a different view on how its ok to treat women. Extending to:

  • thinking a woman wearing revealing clothing is automatically a prostitute/asking for it
  • thinking it is acceptable for a man to hit his wife
  • believing a woman must always give her husband sex if he demands it
  • not understanding the concept of enthusiastic consent
SpaceRaccoon · 08/08/2025 19:53

Boris was busy with the Boris Wave as Carrie was on a full blown trans women are women campaign.

Boris Johnson was also responsible for the massive increase in legal migration. I'm sure it was close to a million a year, or not far off it. Hardly a vote winner with his red wall, but there we are.

SummerIsNotOverYet · 08/08/2025 19:54

Mumofnarnia · 08/08/2025 19:37

I had come on here to say exactly this! 😂

Yay, let's shut down the debate of how "some" men from certain cultures are 16 or 11 times more likely to rape, and how they are coming to a hotel near you sometime soon.

Let's just brush it under the carpet and pretend it isn't real.

Mumofnarnia · 08/08/2025 20:00

SummerIsNotOverYet · 08/08/2025 19:54

Yay, let's shut down the debate of how "some" men from certain cultures are 16 or 11 times more likely to rape, and how they are coming to a hotel near you sometime soon.

Let's just brush it under the carpet and pretend it isn't real.

Haha says the very same type of person who shuts down conversations about crime rates of other nationalities…. So by the far left logic, mentioning anything about white British men + crime is racist and far left! Sorry your comment doesn’t wash with me 😂

Somerford · 08/08/2025 20:06

Mumofnarnia · 08/08/2025 20:00

Haha says the very same type of person who shuts down conversations about crime rates of other nationalities…. So by the far left logic, mentioning anything about white British men + crime is racist and far left! Sorry your comment doesn’t wash with me 😂

I suspect that you two actually agree with each other here to be honest.

TheNuthatch · 08/08/2025 20:13

Mumofnarnia · 08/08/2025 20:00

Haha says the very same type of person who shuts down conversations about crime rates of other nationalities…. So by the far left logic, mentioning anything about white British men + crime is racist and far left! Sorry your comment doesn’t wash with me 😂

I think you may have your wires crossed with the pp

Mumofnarnia · 08/08/2025 20:15

TheNuthatch · 08/08/2025 20:13

I think you may have your wires crossed with the pp

Ah yes, just read it back now. I do apologise @SummerIsNotOverYet

PorridgeOatsSuck · 08/08/2025 20:33

Why are we importing more sexual offenders? We have plenty of home grown.

Chiseltip · 08/08/2025 20:40

malificent7 · 08/08/2025 12:47

I am not excusing grooming, paedophile sex rings and unmonitored immigration at all but I hate all these protests.
I know that my white male ex teacher is a sex offender. Not to mention the Epstein scandal.
Aibu to think that ALL men are a danger to women...not just men of different ethnicities/ religions etc?

😂

You OK hun?

mathanxiety · 08/08/2025 20:42

FortheloveofCheesus · 08/08/2025 19:52

I think women in the UK are at a higher risk of violence from men who come from countries where there are higher rates of violence against women.

Sadly this is what i worry about. Men who are raised in countries where by law women have few rights, believing women are lesser and can be legally subjugated, are likely to have a different view on how its ok to treat women. Extending to:

  • thinking a woman wearing revealing clothing is automatically a prostitute/asking for it
  • thinking it is acceptable for a man to hit his wife
  • believing a woman must always give her husband sex if he demands it
  • not understanding the concept of enthusiastic consent

Are you claiming that white British/ American - western men in general - don't hold those views?

If so, you haven't seen much of the Anglo Manosphere on the internet lately. Have you ever heard of Andrew Tate?

KitTea3 · 08/08/2025 20:54

Speaking is statistics ( taken direct from here: https://www.gov.uk/government/statistics/offender-management-statistics-quarterly-january-to-march-2025 )

Interestingly in terms of ethnicity white males were still the most likely to be in prison followed by mainly European ones....

Will have to dig deeper to see if there is a breakdown of offences but either these men from misogynistic countries are getting away with it on a massive scale or they might not be the main problem and maybe we also need to look closer to home?

Offender management statistics quarterly: January to March 2025

Detailed quarterly statistics on offenders in custody (including offence groups, sentence lengths and nationalities), and quarterly statistics on prison receptions, prison releases, adjudications, licence recalls and offenders under probation supervisi...

https://www.gov.uk/government/statistics/offender-management-statistics-quarterly-january-to-march-2025

TooBigForMyBoots · 08/08/2025 20:55

JamesMacGill · 08/08/2025 19:20

Absolutely but as you know, it’s nothing but an excuse for them to be thugs. Same as Antifa - doesn’t mean the Gaza cause isn’t a worthy one, but yobbos always enjoy a riot and a chance to smash up public places.

Wow. Some people here really struggle talking about VAWG in the UK without turning it into a Culture War.

Stop it!

MiloMinderbinder925 · 08/08/2025 20:56

Somerford · 08/08/2025 19:47

Boris was busy with the Boris Wave as Carrie was on a full blown trans women are women campaign. Massive borrowing, massive spending and the state locking their entire population in their homes. If you want to argue that THAT was a right wing government then crack on but don't expect any more replies on this specific subject, its a waste of your time. More importantly its a waste of mine.

Boris wasn't the only Tory leader during the 14 years the government was in power. Immigration increased under the Tories and you're suggesting that because it did, they're not right wing. I agree that this line of argument is a waste of time.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 08/08/2025 21:00

ThatCyanCat · 08/08/2025 19:45

If you're not capable of following the conversation, then you clearly have nothing to contribute to it.

You do understand, though. This is just more evasive dishonesty to avoid giving answers. I'd say I'm disappointed but it's exactly what I expect these days. One reason why I'm politically homeless.

You don't want change. You want to shout at people and perform. You'll be doing that for a long time, so that should make you happy.

I'm perfectly capable of following a conversation. You appear to not only be incapable of speaking with clarity but incapable of engaging with an argument.

SpaceRaccoon · 08/08/2025 21:04

Interestingly in terms of ethnicity white males were still the most likely to be in prison followed by mainly European ones....

I don't have any stats to hand for per capita sexual offenses in the UK by nationality - I do suspect it would differ from eg Germany or Sweden as, in particular Germany took massive amounts of asylum seekers, in a very chaotic and unvetted way at one point.

The majority of non-British UK residents will be here on visas still.

ThatCyanCat · 08/08/2025 21:07

MiloMinderbinder925 · 08/08/2025 21:00

I'm perfectly capable of following a conversation. You appear to not only be incapable of speaking with clarity but incapable of engaging with an argument.

Shout and perform, mate. It makes you happy as people increasingly leave the theatre.

UsernameMcUsername · 08/08/2025 21:09

JamesMacGill · 08/08/2025 17:57

Because we vet Indians arriving here?

Yes - I doubt the Indian men able to come here legally are representative of India as a whole. But you're evading my point - no one seriously thinks that all cultures treat women equally well or badly. Look at the wide variations in the age of consent for starters.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 08/08/2025 21:10

ThatCyanCat · 08/08/2025 21:07

Shout and perform, mate. It makes you happy as people increasingly leave the theatre.

Again, not making any sense.

ThatCyanCat · 08/08/2025 21:16

MiloMinderbinder925 · 08/08/2025 21:10

Again, not making any sense.

Ironically, that should mean it's right up your alley.

Come back when you actually want to effect change.

JamesMacGill · 08/08/2025 21:21

UsernameMcUsername · 08/08/2025 21:09

Yes - I doubt the Indian men able to come here legally are representative of India as a whole. But you're evading my point - no one seriously thinks that all cultures treat women equally well or badly. Look at the wide variations in the age of consent for starters.

You’re talking far too much sense so certain posters will say they have no idea what you are on about.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 08/08/2025 21:21

ThatCyanCat · 08/08/2025 21:16

Ironically, that should mean it's right up your alley.

Come back when you actually want to effect change.

Again you're refusing to engage in the discussion because you don't have anything of worth to contribute.

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