Bonnie blue 1000 men and me

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I watched last night (don’t ask me why) I wish I didn’t. Woke up feeling dirty. Pure greed is where her motivation comes from. ‘Bonnie’ aka Tia boasted throughout she is a multi millionaire, where she started making £50k/month and went up to £2m/month before OF shut her account down. Now she’s back to making £600k/month on her new site, selling her body. The men queing up for her 1000 men stunt were just arriving from the street, no one had vetted them and the ones who were on show looked far too old for her and frankly, disgusting in old tracksuit bottoms and huge beer bellies. I’m so concerned by the internet. The young women on the show were ‘Only Fans creators’ and were 18-21, seemed nervous, shy and about to film a porn scene with Bonnie, completely for free but by Bonnie tagging them they would be earning money through new subscribers. These young girls, like Bonnie were stating it’s better than sitting behind a desk.

AIBU to wake up feeling anxious, disgusted, concerned with the damage and short cut to money Only Fans is creating for young women.

But swingers do it in private. They are probably not capitalising on it, or promoting it to young influential minds. Would you be ok with your daughter having sex with 1000 men in 24 hours? Would you be ok with your son being a participant?

The stud/whore analogy isn't quite the same here because male performers, who'd need fluffers between takes/viagra/self-control not to ejaculate, afaik don't do 40 second different-women gangbangs. You would not have women lining up to take part for 40 seconds of penetration or climb on top, in what would become a skanky, scuzzy, smelly room.
They wouldn't be high-fiving or bragging about taking part (although given the lack of interviews and the use of balaclavas, BB's punters were not publicly boasting either). Your Ron Jeremys are not selling themselves as young/clean/fresh faced either.
There isn't a BB equivalent but the nearest would be some kind of boyband member/groupie equivalent. You get some rock stars and Peter Stringfellow claiming to have bedded 1000 women but not as a stunt nor at the same time.
Do people judge them in the same way? Time judges them. Russell Brand is facing charges but even before then, many saw him as "grubby" rather than "shagger of the year." Many still glorify Bowie, true, but recognise in his younger years, he may have taken advantage. Same as Steven Tyler and the rest of them. Groupies were considered to be fodder as opposed to vulnerable.
If a young man/influencer had a sign saying "shag me and let me film it" he'd have to be a massive star, K-pop or something, for there to be any interest. I might be very naive but I cannot foresee any fenale fan, who would be up for a 40 second penetrative close-up on camera, as it is so short, emotionless and seedy. I might be wrong, given the mania you see in fandoms.
It is an interesting premise - only when you see young hysterical female fans (or drunk, lairy hen-do women) do you consider that it is possible in a group scenario that they might grope a performer/touch without consent/want to be up close to what is usually untouchable. That was the BB/Lily USP - that as a consumer where they'd be out of your league irl, you were being given an opportunity no other camgirl was offering.
The virgin-whore dynamic is an ancient one and the stud/whore paradox is what we've grown up with. Ask any woman who saw Grease as a child.
Shia Labeouf did the equivalent of Yoko Ono/Marina Abramovic in the performance art he did, where he did one-on-ones with a bag on his head and those queuing for the interaction could choose an object from a table to take with them.
He did claim one woman chose to sexually assault him and had to be removed by the gallery.

it may be not my cuppa but if they were happy to and society gave them the freedom to do such things then society needs better morals and laws to limit those activities

It's not 1000 people shagging one women - at the same 'gang bang' though IS it? 🙄 And it's not filmed and publicised FFS!

I can't believe I am having to explain it to you.

If you really think what Bonnie Blue did (with the 1000 men) is the same as someone having lots of sex partners over many years, (and some 'gang bangs,') you really need to give your head a wobble. (And even then I doubt that most 'swingers' would shag over 1000 people! Even in their lifetime)

I really cannot converse with you any more. Your posts are ludicrous! (IMO.)

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@Ihateboris There are always contrarians on here, who will deliberately attempt to goad posters by disagreeing with anything and everything. Presumably they lack attention in real life, or intelligence, or both.

Anyone who claims they see no problem with a woman having sex with 1000 men in 24 hours, particularly in the predatory context of BB where she targets young university students, is being obtuse or wilfully blind. A man doing the same stunt would be equally abhorrent, but I am pretty sure there would not be hoards of women queuing up for their ‘go’. BB is not only risking her own physical and psychological health (she already seems blunted and dissociated) but she’s contributing to the wider societal issue of the normalisation of porn and violence against women.

But the ancient Greeks had orgies so this is fine right?!

@Zov if you truly read all my posts you would see im anti bonnie. i think society needs better rules reguards to influencing the public that bonnie stunts is acceptable etc

even sex on tv should be limited because that also influences behaviours etc

100% agree @Plastictreees ^ I am not engaging with such posters anymore.

You still haven't answered my question?

it was this response as my answer "if they were happy to and society gave them the freedom to do such things then society needs better morals and laws to limit those activities"

My question was, as you think it's OK, would you be ok with your daughter being shagged by 1000 mem and would you be happy for your son/brother/father to be a participant? Yes or no?

i would love them either way.

what i would judge is a society that considers any stunts like bonnies acceptable in 2025.

society as a whole should be ashamed

People still need to take personal responsibility for their actions. Responsibility cannot be shoved entirely onto vague notions of ‘society’.

well if society encourages the debauchey that is shown on tv / films / magazines etc, and people think that's acceptable moral's to showcase and raise peopel in society on, then i weep for humanity.

I have many concerns about society; the role of social media, porn use, violence against women and girls etc etc.

However the likes of BB and Lily Philips are anomalies. The average young woman is not having anal sex with 500 men on film. The average person does not think this behaviour is okay. At some point people do need to take personal responsibility, as I stated above, and not just blame society.

simply put society and the media could of not broadcast any of Bonnies activates and yet how many now have heard of her ?

so yep society as a whole has influenced this behaviours

A man selling a story about having sex with a porn star, oh yeah, society would crucify him.

Wouldn't be much of a story..my 40second encounter 😁

Well BB is selling her body and story, and being crucified (quite rightly) as the money she receives makes it worth it. Pretty sure if the price was right, one of the participants would sell their story. But maybe, just maybe, there's no story to tell.

Be a bit dull. He got 34 seconds worth of sex. Thee end. Big whoop 🥱🙄

Yes,but at least there would then be proof that it actually happened.

Folks, she didn't do it. I000% she didn't do this 🙄
I predict that in the future she will admit it was not even 1/10th of this number and she did it to see how people will believe anything.

For anyone saying it was filmed, that will have been faked too.
It's the easiest thing in the world to fake - most of them were balaclava-up.

What i want to know is, did any men go round to the back of the queue again for a second or third go in which case the count is wrong.

what was so special about the even for all the hype ?

I was just thinking. If bonnie blue was in my city saying online that any men can go round and have sex with her, i think that a lot of men that I know would do it.

Sex is a powerful thing.