Bonnie blue 1000 men and me

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I watched last night (don’t ask me why) I wish I didn’t. Woke up feeling dirty. Pure greed is where her motivation comes from. ‘Bonnie’ aka Tia boasted throughout she is a multi millionaire, where she started making £50k/month and went up to £2m/month before OF shut her account down. Now she’s back to making £600k/month on her new site, selling her body. The men queing up for her 1000 men stunt were just arriving from the street, no one had vetted them and the ones who were on show looked far too old for her and frankly, disgusting in old tracksuit bottoms and huge beer bellies. I’m so concerned by the internet. The young women on the show were ‘Only Fans creators’ and were 18-21, seemed nervous, shy and about to film a porn scene with Bonnie, completely for free but by Bonnie tagging them they would be earning money through new subscribers. These young girls, like Bonnie were stating it’s better than sitting behind a desk.

AIBU to wake up feeling anxious, disgusted, concerned with the damage and short cut to money Only Fans is creating for young women.

From watching the documentary (which was revolting), I felt that it was all about her getting attention, being the centre of attention and the bonus was being paid a lot of money for that attention.

She said that she had found her 'niche'. Working in an office won't get her this attention but being sexually scandalous will certainly do that. She is good at working the PR machine and knows what to say and do to get talked about, get money in and... GET ATTENTION. It is not about the sex. It is her easy way to get the spotlight on her and nobody else.

I got the impression she was indulged as a child and her mother is continuing to indulge her even though what she is doing is repugnant to most people.

I wonder if the designer brands she favours feel cheapened/ tarnished by her patronage.
She’s beyond grim, I’ve read about her but won’t be watching the doc

It won’t end well. These things never do.

Why is everyone hating on Bonnie Blue, who is just earning a living, when if it wasn’t for all those dodgy blokes she wouldn’t even be able to make mega bucks from it? Sex is the oldest trade in the world. I’d never choose it and would never recommend it, but I do hate the way we shame and pour hate on women that can cope with it as a career while forgetting all about the disgusting men who make this possible. So she’s arrogant, good for her- you need a thick skin to do what she’s doing. Different strokes for different folks. Quite literally!

Literally no one is forgetting about the disgusting men. How could they? Have you seen anything as revolting as hundreds of men queueing to have sex with a porn star for 40 seconds surrounded by other naked men in a sweaty, putrid-smelling room? They’re sub-human. I don’t know anyone who would think otherwise.

I’ve seen more ‘her body, her choice’ comments about BB than shaming comments. Haven’t seen one single positive thing said about the men.

Edit: also, when a man gets involved in this kind of freak show, no one jumps to attribute his behaviour to poor mental health / past trauma / having been exposed to sex too young. No. Men are fully responsible for their actions, no matter how grim. Only women can be ‘victims’.

I always just assumed she was a psychopath like hit men or Wall Street brokers. That she doesn’t feel things like shame or guilt or sadness about what she does. She just feels satisfied that she’s getting rich and famous.

I get the hit man analogy but wall street brokers???

Yes they have an extremely high rate of psychopaths. Experts have estimated as high as 1 in 10 are clinical level psychopaths. One psychotherapist who claims this says they have an unparalleled capacity for lying and manipulation.

I find the whole thing totally revolting - Bonnie Blue’s actions and those of the male ‘participants.’

I also read a disturbing article yesterday regarding influencers who have been travelling to the Middle East to go and eat wealthy men’s shit - yes, these men shit directly in these women’s mouths. They are paid around £30,000 for this, and one woman apparently didn’t eat enough shit and was only paid £10,000 as a result. They are also often given designers handbags and other high value items. Sometimes it will involve one man, other times there will be several men. I’m presuming this is some kind of warped male sexual-based fantasy, but it left me questioning a lot. Some of these questions are: I wonder if the men queue for this like for Bonnie Blue, or if they watch their friends defecate in these women’s mouths and then they have their turn? Are photos taken? Do the men stand around laughing and saying vulgar and humiliating things - although of course the act in itself is deeply unfitting and disturbing in my opinion? If one of these women started choking or fell ill during this act, what would the men in these conservative religious countries do - would they seek urgent medical help, and how on earth would they explain what had happened?

I cannot stomach the double standards that so many men have regarding women/sex/porn/virginity etc. It’s like they always expect to have a batch of someone’s else’s Daughters/Sisters/Granddaughters to shag, watch, do depraved things to, wank over. Why is this acceptable to them to do this to other people’s women, and for them to expect a virgin to marry or someone with low numbers of sexual partners, and their female family members to be chaste? And these are regular men not a minority of extreme perverts. I just can’t understand it.

<puts down Nutella toast>

Your comment made me laugh and spit out my cappuccino! I think I’ll also be swerving the Nutella 🤣

Would you rather:
Have a man defecate in your mouth for 30 grand
Or
Shag over 1000 for several million

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Yep. The Dubai girls are called porta potties for that reason 🤮🤮🤮

Add this to the list why Dubai sounds like a hellhole.

I am not convinced she can do it without being a bit damaged emotionally by it. She did look dead behind the eyes by the end of it.

Oh come on, everyone understands that on the likert scale of responses to immorality, certain actions are deemed to be worse than others e.g. drink driving is not in the same category as getting drunk and for many drinking to the point of being drunk is not considered immoral at all! When it comes to the morality of actions it is not a level playing field and across society there is usually a general consensus on that.

but the greeks and romans had orgys that were considered normal and moral for those societies at the time. then the 60's had swingers parties and today they still happen etc morals overall like with machivellis the prince book seems quite subjective

Good on her, she's sorted out her retirement and is set for life.

Might not be a healthy retirement with what she is putting her body through at the moment.

Really? The way she's carrying on,I very much doubt she'll reach retirement age.

She’s not getting a happy retirement.

Don't go giving this daft bat ideas ....she already wants to wallow in a bath full of "product" ( ie sperm)
Are her slavering fans going to line up to give their sample/s ?

If she makes retirement, I doubt it will be a happy one. She'll most probably have fecal incontinence as well as mental health issues, not to mention being very lonely. Do you still say "good on her "?

Saying that you expect her to be "very lonely" as you put it is a bit of a reach, I'm sure she will have friends but what I expect you really mean is that she won't be coupled up with a man because nobody will wan't to be with her if they know her history?

Having a partner would be nice but it isn't the end goal for everyone and she may well be very happy living the single life with her millions of pounds worth of cash.

Besides, as many have pointed out here on this thread, it seems that many men don't seem to care what her past is, so that's a load of horse shit.

Medically speaking, yes, she may indeed end up with fecal incontinence, I am however not a doctor and don't know how many times you have to take it up the arse for this to happen, there's also a good chance she wont, she is still relatively young.

While i wouldn't necessarily choose the path that she has taken, I find it abhorent that people are judging her so harshly for having chosen a career that will have given her financial security for life solely because it is sex work.

She has said in interviews she won't ever do anal