Bonnie blue 1000 men and me

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I watched last night (don’t ask me why) I wish I didn’t. Woke up feeling dirty. Pure greed is where her motivation comes from. ‘Bonnie’ aka Tia boasted throughout she is a multi millionaire, where she started making £50k/month and went up to £2m/month before OF shut her account down. Now she’s back to making £600k/month on her new site, selling her body. The men queing up for her 1000 men stunt were just arriving from the street, no one had vetted them and the ones who were on show looked far too old for her and frankly, disgusting in old tracksuit bottoms and huge beer bellies. I’m so concerned by the internet. The young women on the show were ‘Only Fans creators’ and were 18-21, seemed nervous, shy and about to film a porn scene with Bonnie, completely for free but by Bonnie tagging them they would be earning money through new subscribers. These young girls, like Bonnie were stating it’s better than sitting behind a desk.

AIBU to wake up feeling anxious, disgusted, concerned with the damage and short cut to money Only Fans is creating for young women.

Did you type that out with a straight face?

This. ^ Well said! I don't respond to demands - and I won't be engaging with, or responding to that demanding and over-invested poster!

A lot of this comes down to the values and grounding a young person grows up with. If you raise children with self-worth, critical thinking, and a strong sense of their own value beyond looks or money, they’re much less likely to see something like this as appealing.

I do think there is a double standard in our society of:.

Man has sex with 1000 women. He is either called a super stud at best. Or the worse response he would get is that no one would care enough to comment.

A woman does it, and she is called trash, scum of the earth, evil itself, disgusting, a slut etc

Look at the two twinnies who keep backing each other up, and quoting each other over and over, writing "well said" to each other over and over.

Stupid.

You are acting like I want to engage with you more and I will cry when you stop engaging with me.

I don't want to engage with you anymore either.

There are plenty of other posters on here who are able to get into a discussuon without throwing a tantrum

which is true to an extent but then when your slaving away doing a basic retail job earning pittance. after a while due to eg marketing or desires or want to be paid better etc and then society as a whole offers suggar daddies or bonnie blue style activites as a get rich quick or even when society has only fans etc then morals can alter

i think its not the numbers as such but the way it was done

Oh yeah for sure. Most women aren't dense enough to think that what Bonnie Blue is doing is smart or savvy or empowering. Every woman I have spoken to about it - thinks it's as grim as fuck. And many men think the same. Utterly repugnant!

This. ^ The Bonnie Blue '1000 men and me' event was done with much publicity, and filmed too. I don't understand how she has made so much money though, as most platforms are refusing to show it. (Unless she means she made the money before OnlyFans banned her.)

Imagine doing all that 'hard work,' being fucked by over 1000 men, and then she has nowhere to show it/nowhere to make money from it. Shame. 😆

Also, saying 'some men have had sex with 1000 women' is a straw man argument, because not only is it not all filmed and publicised, but also, it's very unlikely. Unless a man is a porn star, it's almost certainly a lie that he has shagged 1000 women.

It's a well documented fact that men exaggerate how many women they have had sex with.

Women do the opposite. They will play down the numbers, and say the number of men they've had sex with is less than it actually is.

If I met a man who claimed he had shagged 1000 women, I would run for the hills, jump in the shower, and cover myself with disinfectant. Fuck knows what he has picked up! I mean it's probably not 1000 women anyway, but he is clearly a dirty bastard with fuck-all respect for women..

the point i would pick up on is why would it be bad for a high number especially one if they didnt want to settle down hence the high numbers or swingers and two what if the women were happy as part of the agreement etc ?

All that is done behind closed doors. BB has brought all this disgusting stuff into the public eye and making a grotesque living from it,along with her vile husband and family.

I don’t agree with her from a social responsibility angle, but I don’t think she’s suffering trauma or from past abuse (she could be though, who knows). I just think she’s possesses that CEO-type sociopathy, and the sex industry is where she can be most successful.

I don’t think she feels much about sex. I don’t think she feels much about anything. And that’s sociopathy for you.

Exactly. I can't believe a few posters here are not seeing the difference! Beggars belief, honestly!

What the hell are you talking about. Been on this planet a while and never met a man in real life who’s slept with 1000 women. You’re talking nonsense,

If you can’t understand why it’s vile you really should see a therapist and/or get some new friends.

100% yes to the 2 posts above by @Beetlebumz 👏

Is there actual evidence that she has shagged 1000 revolting desperate men in 24 hours, or is it just a publicity stunt to get more subscribers?I just don't see that it's possible. Unless she's taking cocaine to give her the energy to keep going!

In any case, she's a revolting human being for normalising such dangerous behaviour, and she should definitely not be promoting it to young girls as a way of making a living. If she wants to do it, crack on, but do it in private.

I agree @Ihateboris with everything you say. Not sure where the actual 'evidence' is, as I don't know anyone who has seen the footage (which I imagine would go on for a while!) 😖

Exactly. Reading some of the posts where people are defending what she does, I feel like I'm living in a parallel universe...what's the world coming to??

Exactly! Also, wouldn't you think at least one of the participants would be tempted to sell their story???

Yeah, several posters have been doing that haven't they? Batshit! How can ANYONE say what she has done/is doing is OK? It's fucking grim and disgusting.

And as for 'it's OK because some men have shagged 1000 women...' (as one poster said,) first of all, no they haven't, unless they are PORN stars, and secondly, even if certain men HAVE shagged 100s of women, it's not remotely the same as what Bonnie Blue has done. And comparing a 'gang bang' and 'swinging' (with maybe 5-15 people,) is not anywhere near the same either. Daft and ludicrous analogies!

Good point!

i think to answer the point of "ANYONE say what she has done/is doing is OK? It's fucking grim and disgusting."

i think its the people want freedom to do x and society says heres that freedom.

as for the " And comparing a 'gang bang' and 'swinging' (with maybe 5-15 people,)"
if you are a regular swinger and add up the numbers over say 5 years etc the numbers vary

That would mean going public. Hopefully they all feel so ashamed and embarrassed to.