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Bonnie blue 1000 men and me

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tangerinemagic · 31/07/2025 09:05

I watched last night (don’t ask me why) I wish I didn’t. Woke up feeling dirty. Pure greed is where her motivation comes from. ‘Bonnie’ aka Tia boasted throughout she is a multi millionaire, where she started making £50k/month and went up to £2m/month before OF shut her account down. Now she’s back to making £600k/month on her new site, selling her body. The men queing up for her 1000 men stunt were just arriving from the street, no one had vetted them and the ones who were on show looked far too old for her and frankly, disgusting in old tracksuit bottoms and huge beer bellies. I’m so concerned by the internet. The young women on the show were ‘Only Fans creators’ and were 18-21, seemed nervous, shy and about to film a porn scene with Bonnie, completely for free but by Bonnie tagging them they would be earning money through new subscribers. These young girls, like Bonnie were stating it’s better than sitting behind a desk.

AIBU to wake up feeling anxious, disgusted, concerned with the damage and short cut to money Only Fans is creating for young women.

OP posts:
Zov · 09/08/2025 20:14

No3392 · 08/08/2025 10:21

Would you rather:
Have a man defecate in your mouth for 30 grand
Or
Shag over 1000 for several million

👀

That's like choosing death by fire or death by stoning. Shock

Is that really true about the 'shitting in the mouths?' Surely this is an urban myth?

Brendahollowayreconsider · 09/08/2025 20:20

Zov · 09/08/2025 20:14

That's like choosing death by fire or death by stoning. Shock

Is that really true about the 'shitting in the mouths?' Surely this is an urban myth?

True unfortunately,I don't know how anyone could debase themselves to do this.. just vile and putrid behaviour.

pamelanoon · 09/08/2025 20:21

Zov · 09/08/2025 20:14

That's like choosing death by fire or death by stoning. Shock

Is that really true about the 'shitting in the mouths?' Surely this is an urban myth?

I saw a woman online on instagram say that men pay her a lot of money to shit on them. There is a fetish

Zov · 09/08/2025 20:22

pamelanoon · 09/08/2025 20:21

I saw a woman online on instagram say that men pay her a lot of money to shit on them. There is a fetish

URGH! 😖

pamelanoon · 09/08/2025 20:23

Zov · 09/08/2025 20:22

URGH! 😖

Are you surprised about what men get up to?

Im not. A lot of them are like amimals. They do everything and anything

Zov · 09/08/2025 20:23

Brendahollowayreconsider · 09/08/2025 20:20

True unfortunately,I don't know how anyone could debase themselves to do this.. just vile and putrid behaviour.

Yes it is. Like Bonnie Blue. Everything she does is vile. It's not 'empowering' to fuck loads of men, it's grim and nasty. And yes I would say the same about men!

Zov · 09/08/2025 20:25

pamelanoon · 09/08/2025 20:23

Are you surprised about what men get up to?

Im not. A lot of them are like amimals. They do everything and anything

Oh no, I am not surprised about the men. Most men are perverted when push comes to shove. Surprised at any woman taking part. No amount of money is worth THAT.

pamelanoon · 09/08/2025 20:25

Zov · 09/08/2025 20:23

Yes it is. Like Bonnie Blue. Everything she does is vile. It's not 'empowering' to fuck loads of men, it's grim and nasty. And yes I would say the same about men!

What is vile about it exactly in your opinion. She says she uses condoms.

I know several men who told me they have had sex with over 1000 women. Not in one night. But the number is the same.

Why is sex with a lot of people, bad?

Zov · 09/08/2025 20:26

pamelanoon · 09/08/2025 20:25

What is vile about it exactly in your opinion. She says she uses condoms.

I know several men who told me they have had sex with over 1000 women. Not in one night. But the number is the same.

Why is sex with a lot of people, bad?

Edited

If you have to ask what's vile about it, (what Bonnie Blue has done,) I cannot help you I'm afraid.

pamelanoon · 09/08/2025 20:28

Zov · 09/08/2025 20:26

If you have to ask what's vile about it, (what Bonnie Blue has done,) I cannot help you I'm afraid.

Edited

I am not saying it is right or wrong.

I asked you to clarify what's vile about it in your opinion. Im interested. Can you clarify please?

As i know several men who have had sex with over a thousand women, and no one calls them bad people. It is seen as a good thing.

Stephanie2018 · 09/08/2025 20:32

She is a text book psychopath. Intelligent , genius level really, has no sense no fear, and loves to wind people up!!!

Plastictreees · 09/08/2025 20:35

@pamelanoon Why not read through the thread and see myriad responses which clearly and articulately answer your question.

pamelanoon · 09/08/2025 20:36

Plastictreees · 09/08/2025 20:35

@pamelanoon Why not read through the thread and see myriad responses which clearly and articulately answer your question.

No. I asked a particular poster and i want her thoughts on it. Thanks.

Stephanie2018 · 09/08/2025 20:36

And I don’t think she will ever regret her choices or look back and think what I have done? Because she is a psychopath and simply does not care

Plastictreees · 09/08/2025 20:38

@pamelanoon ’I want’ doesn’t necessarily get. Your post reeks of pseudo naivety. It has been covered at length why what BB does is so damaging on many levels. But you can’t seem to be bothered to engage with that.

pamelanoon · 09/08/2025 20:40

Plastictreees · 09/08/2025 20:38

@pamelanoon ’I want’ doesn’t necessarily get. Your post reeks of pseudo naivety. It has been covered at length why what BB does is so damaging on many levels. But you can’t seem to be bothered to engage with that.

Who even are you? Why are you getting involved in something that was absolutely nothing to do with you.

Nagginthenag · 09/08/2025 20:55

pamelanoon · 09/08/2025 20:25

What is vile about it exactly in your opinion. She says she uses condoms.

I know several men who told me they have had sex with over 1000 women. Not in one night. But the number is the same.

Why is sex with a lot of people, bad?

Edited

Hope it's OK to respond. Firstly, how do you know these blokes are telling the truth? And what are their 'relationships' like. I mean their permanent relationships, not the shagging about ones.

What I think is vile about what BB is doing:
Appears to be encouraging other young women to do what she's doing.
Giving men the notion that what she does is what sex is all about, so men using a woman like some kind of sex toy for a 40 second fuck. Giving young women (our daughters and granddaughters) the idea that they have to accept this behaviour from men.
The dialogue, the language BB uses when she's talking about the way men are using her body - smash etc.
Other posters have introduced discussion on the disgusting fetishes around faeces. Where does it end? People like BB are pushing and pushing boundaries. Women are already being hurt and killed by men making fetishistic sexual demands which many young people now see as mainstream thanks to online porn and the likes of BB.

Zov · 09/08/2025 21:07

Plastictreees · 09/08/2025 20:38

@pamelanoon ’I want’ doesn’t necessarily get. Your post reeks of pseudo naivety. It has been covered at length why what BB does is so damaging on many levels. But you can’t seem to be bothered to engage with that.

100% this. That poster asking 'who even are you?' (to you) seems to be hugely invested in defending Bonnie Blue and her disgusting and vile actions. The faux, wide-eyed innocence, and saying 'I am only curious WHY you think this Zov' is farcical ...

As you say, the reasons why she (Bonnie) and her behaviour is vile and nasty have been listed multiple times, on this - and many other threads about Bonnie Blue. And as you say, (regarding that poster saying 'I want to hear what Zov has to say,') 'I want' doesn't 'necessarily get!'

pamelanoon · 09/08/2025 21:20

Zov · 09/08/2025 21:07

100% this. That poster asking 'who even are you?' (to you) seems to be hugely invested in defending Bonnie Blue and her disgusting and vile actions. The faux, wide-eyed innocence, and saying 'I am only curious WHY you think this Zov' is farcical ...

As you say, the reasons why she (Bonnie) and her behaviour is vile and nasty have been listed multiple times, on this - and many other threads about Bonnie Blue. And as you say, (regarding that poster saying 'I want to hear what Zov has to say,') 'I want' doesn't 'necessarily get!'

Its very strange that you are getting that angry and agressive about it.

If you read back through my posts i havent DEFENDED Bonnie Blue in any post, so I have absolutely no idea why you wrote that.

I asked you to clarify why you think what she is doing is vile. Is it the amount of men she is having sex with that you think is vile? Or is it another reason

Im interested because i know men that have had sex with over a thousand women and no one cares at all.

So i am wondering is it a double standard?

pamelanoon · 09/08/2025 21:24

Ponoka7 · 31/07/2025 09:48

There's always a level of an abusive background, mental health issues etc. Katie Price is a complex situation, fuelled by her wanting a family, but not being able to get it, for a variety of reasons. If you object to what they are doing, don't add to their audience. As for young women seeking fame and fortune, Henry viii wouldn't have had a further seven wives and lots of mistresses, if it hasn't always been that way.

She said that she had a really good childhood, and that she was working in a normal job in financial recruitment in the nhs before she started doing this.

Ukkake · 09/08/2025 22:03

If BB is happy with what she’s doing, who is anyone to say otherwise. I agree it’s not the norm but is a woman at a swingers event or similar having sex with 4-5 men fine but Bonnie isn’t?

I don’t believe it encourages others to do the same. There have been porn records set going back many years, it doesn’t mean everyone is going do the same.

Thingsarechanging · 09/08/2025 22:11

Watching with Tom swarbrick on YouTube
he took a different approach to the interview, trying to get to the softer side.,.if there is one?

Plastictreees · 09/08/2025 22:12

@pamelanoon What an odd response. Are you aware this is a public forum, open to responses? The only person I can see being aggressive here is you. You seem to be personally invested. So why not contribute something worthwhile to the thread rather than attempting to police and control who contributes? All you’ve done thus far is ask inane questions, all of which could be answered if you RTFH.

All you want to do is argue and defend someone who shags 1000 men in 24 hours, claiming with pseudo naivety that you cannot imagine what is possibly wrong with that.

Educate yourself - read the thread. I shan’t be engaging with you further. It’s mind numbing.

Nagginthenag · 09/08/2025 22:14

'I don’t believe it encourages others to do the same.'

Did you watch the programme?

Swirlythingy2025 · 09/08/2025 22:17

Ukkake · 09/08/2025 22:03

If BB is happy with what she’s doing, who is anyone to say otherwise. I agree it’s not the norm but is a woman at a swingers event or similar having sex with 4-5 men fine but Bonnie isn’t?

I don’t believe it encourages others to do the same. There have been porn records set going back many years, it doesn’t mean everyone is going do the same.

thats like saying tv does not influence people yet millions is spent on marketing ads etc

if we want to create a better society then we need to elimate or certainly not broadcast anyone that does eg bonnie blue activites etc because just as some did before bonnie some will copy bonnie especialy now with only fans etc