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Bonnie blue 1000 men and me

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tangerinemagic · 31/07/2025 09:05

I watched last night (don’t ask me why) I wish I didn’t. Woke up feeling dirty. Pure greed is where her motivation comes from. ‘Bonnie’ aka Tia boasted throughout she is a multi millionaire, where she started making £50k/month and went up to £2m/month before OF shut her account down. Now she’s back to making £600k/month on her new site, selling her body. The men queing up for her 1000 men stunt were just arriving from the street, no one had vetted them and the ones who were on show looked far too old for her and frankly, disgusting in old tracksuit bottoms and huge beer bellies. I’m so concerned by the internet. The young women on the show were ‘Only Fans creators’ and were 18-21, seemed nervous, shy and about to film a porn scene with Bonnie, completely for free but by Bonnie tagging them they would be earning money through new subscribers. These young girls, like Bonnie were stating it’s better than sitting behind a desk.

AIBU to wake up feeling anxious, disgusted, concerned with the damage and short cut to money Only Fans is creating for young women.

OP posts:
Ihateboris · 08/08/2025 13:27

LeaderBee · 08/08/2025 13:24

Saying that you expect her to be "very lonely" as you put it is a bit of a reach, I'm sure she will have friends but what I expect you really mean is that she won't be coupled up with a man because nobody will wan't to be with her if they know her history?

Having a partner would be nice but it isn't the end goal for everyone and she may well be very happy living the single life with her millions of pounds worth of cash.

Besides, as many have pointed out here on this thread, it seems that many men don't seem to care what her past is, so that's a load of horse shit.

Medically speaking, yes, she may indeed end up with fecal incontinence, I am however not a doctor and don't know how many times you have to take it up the arse for this to happen, there's also a good chance she wont, she is still relatively young.

While i wouldn't necessarily choose the path that she has taken, I find it abhorent that people are judging her so harshly for having chosen a career that will have given her financial security for life solely because it is sex work.

By her own admission, she says she doesn't have many friends. Seems to me she'll be living in a gilded cage.

Swirlythingy2025 · 08/08/2025 13:37

in terms of those thinking she wont get a partner, for those that know the actress riley reid has now settled and has a family

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 08/08/2025 13:49

Sosigrole · 08/08/2025 13:27

She has said in interviews she won't ever do anal

That was one of Lily Phillips stunts earlier this year .
In the USA

100 men by the backdoor

Bonnie Blue is going to run out of shock tactics so she might decide to do it ?

Goldenbear · 08/08/2025 14:35

Swirlythingy2025 · 08/08/2025 11:21

but the greeks and romans had orgys that were considered normal and moral for those societies at the time. then the 60's had swingers parties and today they still happen etc morals overall like with machivellis the prince book seems quite subjective

Why would modern day society reference the Greeks and Romans for moral guidance? Do you think there was a BB personality in the sixties, that era was about a sexual revolution not degradation.

Goldenbear · 08/08/2025 14:39

LeaderBee · 08/08/2025 13:24

Saying that you expect her to be "very lonely" as you put it is a bit of a reach, I'm sure she will have friends but what I expect you really mean is that she won't be coupled up with a man because nobody will wan't to be with her if they know her history?

Having a partner would be nice but it isn't the end goal for everyone and she may well be very happy living the single life with her millions of pounds worth of cash.

Besides, as many have pointed out here on this thread, it seems that many men don't seem to care what her past is, so that's a load of horse shit.

Medically speaking, yes, she may indeed end up with fecal incontinence, I am however not a doctor and don't know how many times you have to take it up the arse for this to happen, there's also a good chance she wont, she is still relatively young.

While i wouldn't necessarily choose the path that she has taken, I find it abhorent that people are judging her so harshly for having chosen a career that will have given her financial security for life solely because it is sex work.

Oh yes because we all know that millions of pounds worth of cash is the root to all happiness 😐

AutumnLover1989 · 08/08/2025 15:00

Swirlythingy2025 · 08/08/2025 13:37

in terms of those thinking she wont get a partner, for those that know the actress riley reid has now settled and has a family

But I certainly haven't heard of her. BB is infamous now so it's very different.

Ihateboris · 08/08/2025 15:08

Goldenbear · 08/08/2025 14:35

Why would modern day society reference the Greeks and Romans for moral guidance? Do you think there was a BB personality in the sixties, that era was about a sexual revolution not degradation.

Exactly. Ffsake, lots of things were normalised in the olden days. Sending kids down chimneys was the norm...would you say that was also ok if it was done today?

Ihateboris · 08/08/2025 15:11

For anyone who is interested, she's going to be on LBC from 4pm with Tom Swarbrick. I'll be listening because Tom is awesome at interviewing and will not go softly softly!

Thingsarechanging · 08/08/2025 15:17

I saw on YouTube yesterday she was interviewed by Julia HB on Talk tv, it was interesting

Thingsarechanging · 08/08/2025 15:19

She says the people complaining about her are fat, middle aged women sat on the sofa and on benefits and says they’re too lazy to even have a work ethic. She thinks getting shagged by 1000’s of men and being able to buy LV bags as having a work ethic

Kalista018 · 08/08/2025 15:27

Thingsarechanging · 08/08/2025 15:19

She says the people complaining about her are fat, middle aged women sat on the sofa and on benefits and says they’re too lazy to even have a work ethic. She thinks getting shagged by 1000’s of men and being able to buy LV bags as having a work ethic

I don’t understand why or how she came to believe that most women are dumb, lazy, selfish, and unwilling to do the work men deserve. She seems to think she is far superior to ordinary women who choose family and children. This mindset is absolutely vile and toxic for society.

IDontHateRainbows · 08/08/2025 15:34

Kalista018 · 08/08/2025 15:27

I don’t understand why or how she came to believe that most women are dumb, lazy, selfish, and unwilling to do the work men deserve. She seems to think she is far superior to ordinary women who choose family and children. This mindset is absolutely vile and toxic for society.

Internally, she needs to justify why she chose this path.
The mental gymnastics must be astounding

Franpie · 08/08/2025 15:45

Watched it last night and found it to be really disappointing. I was genuinely interested to learn how someone goes from working in NHS recruitment to sleeping with 1000 men in 12 hours on camera. What was the slippery slope? Did she upload a couple of pictures first? Then a video of her having sex with her DH? And what made her think that sleeping with a stranger was a good idea? And how did that progress to how she is now? She has made so many decisions along the way that your average woman wouldn’t, I am genuinely interested in her thought processes. But the documentary didn’t go there.

I kind of agreed with her arguments in the first half. Her body, her choice, she’s not harming anyone blah blah blah.

But then she fell out with OF and started exploiting young, vulnerable content creators to get around OF new rules and she completely lost me. I thought it was disgusting.

The end where she tries to defend and excuse Andrew Tate finished me off.

I don’t think she has suffered trauma. I don’t think she is troubled. But I do think she is a narcissistic psychopath who will trample over anyone and anything for her own gain.

Ihateboris · 08/08/2025 15:49

Franpie · 08/08/2025 15:45

Watched it last night and found it to be really disappointing. I was genuinely interested to learn how someone goes from working in NHS recruitment to sleeping with 1000 men in 12 hours on camera. What was the slippery slope? Did she upload a couple of pictures first? Then a video of her having sex with her DH? And what made her think that sleeping with a stranger was a good idea? And how did that progress to how she is now? She has made so many decisions along the way that your average woman wouldn’t, I am genuinely interested in her thought processes. But the documentary didn’t go there.

I kind of agreed with her arguments in the first half. Her body, her choice, she’s not harming anyone blah blah blah.

But then she fell out with OF and started exploiting young, vulnerable content creators to get around OF new rules and she completely lost me. I thought it was disgusting.

The end where she tries to defend and excuse Andrew Tate finished me off.

I don’t think she has suffered trauma. I don’t think she is troubled. But I do think she is a narcissistic psychopath who will trample over anyone and anything for her own gain.

Brilliant post and I completely agree with every word.

User14March · 08/08/2025 15:54

Franpie · 08/08/2025 15:45

Watched it last night and found it to be really disappointing. I was genuinely interested to learn how someone goes from working in NHS recruitment to sleeping with 1000 men in 12 hours on camera. What was the slippery slope? Did she upload a couple of pictures first? Then a video of her having sex with her DH? And what made her think that sleeping with a stranger was a good idea? And how did that progress to how she is now? She has made so many decisions along the way that your average woman wouldn’t, I am genuinely interested in her thought processes. But the documentary didn’t go there.

I kind of agreed with her arguments in the first half. Her body, her choice, she’s not harming anyone blah blah blah.

But then she fell out with OF and started exploiting young, vulnerable content creators to get around OF new rules and she completely lost me. I thought it was disgusting.

The end where she tries to defend and excuse Andrew Tate finished me off.

I don’t think she has suffered trauma. I don’t think she is troubled. But I do think she is a narcissistic psychopath who will trample over anyone and anything for her own gain.

££££ gain is huge as a motivation & for some fame at any price.

LeaderBee · 08/08/2025 16:15

Goldenbear · 08/08/2025 14:39

Oh yes because we all know that millions of pounds worth of cash is the root to all happiness 😐

I'd rather be rich and miserable than poor and miserable though.

Ihateboris · 08/08/2025 16:18

LeaderBee · 08/08/2025 16:15

I'd rather be rich and miserable than poor and miserable though.

Why don't YOU do it then?

nam3c4ang3 · 08/08/2025 16:20

Ihateboris · 08/08/2025 16:18

Why don't YOU do it then?

😂

Swirlythingy2025 · 08/08/2025 16:23

Ihateboris · 08/08/2025 16:18

Why don't YOU do it then?

because half of society will be omg how dare you.

Ihateboris · 08/08/2025 16:39

But you would be sooo rich why would you care what other people think?

LeaderBee · 08/08/2025 16:39

Swirlythingy2025 · 08/08/2025 16:23

because half of society will be omg how dare you.

That, and I don't have the face for earning good money in porn.

Ihateboris · 08/08/2025 17:56

LeaderBee · 08/08/2025 16:39

That, and I don't have the face for earning good money in porn.

Absolutely anyone can make good money in extreme porn. BB's success is nothing at all to do with looks, but everything to do with what she's prepared to do.

Swirlythingy2025 · 08/08/2025 18:11

Ihateboris · 08/08/2025 17:56

Absolutely anyone can make good money in extreme porn. BB's success is nothing at all to do with looks, but everything to do with what she's prepared to do.

on that one i disagree, rightly or wrongly looks do play a part.

Goldenbear · 08/08/2025 18:48

LeaderBee · 08/08/2025 16:15

I'd rather be rich and miserable than poor and miserable though.

Is that the only choice?

Goldenbear · 08/08/2025 18:49

Ihateboris · 08/08/2025 17:56

Absolutely anyone can make good money in extreme porn. BB's success is nothing at all to do with looks, but everything to do with what she's prepared to do.

Yes, I was thinking the same!

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