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AIBU to agree with Diane Abbott

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Elephantiner · 17/07/2025 14:18

I cannot stand Diane Abbott, she has a lazy, patronising manner which riles me, but she has said that people visiblybof a different race (e.g. black people) experience a different sort of racism than those who’s race is not visually obvious (travellers, Jewish people etc). She has a point, doesn’t she? Am I missing something here?

Obviously all types of racism are utterly abhorrent.

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EasternStandard · 17/07/2025 15:19

How would Diane Abbott know what it’s like? She hasn’t had the experience some Jewish people will have had.

zizza · 17/07/2025 15:21

She probably has a point but then she's also been pretty racist in her attitudes regarding white people, so I don't bother listening to anything she has to say these days

Bea372 · 17/07/2025 15:22

I think Diane Abbot is someone who has done a lot of good work but should probably stay well away from tv interviews and the media in general.

Rainonwednesday · 17/07/2025 15:24

What she said previously was that they don't experience racism but prejudice which seems to be a clear attempt to create some sort of hierarchy.

There is appalling racism experienced by Jews or Gypsies /Roma and others. And that racism seems to be accepted ( or even applauded by some in the case of Jews since October 7th especially. The recorded incidents of racial hatred against Jew is widely disproportionate to their very small numbers in the UK) in a way that overt racism against PoC is not, amongst the middle classes at least.

Sure, they may have different experiences from black people, (though remember some Jews are very identifiable as are many gypsy/ roma people) but that doesn't mean the racism they experience is less in frequency or impact.

Dangermoo · 17/07/2025 15:29

She said this years' ago. Straight out of the Whoopi Goldberg school of ignorance. Then again, this is the woman, who reckoned only black women would do anything for their kids.

ArticWillow · 17/07/2025 15:30

A classic race to the bottom thread.

There isn't a hirachy or better/ worse racism. It's a horrific experience for everyone who a subjected to it.

PurpleChrayn · 17/07/2025 15:39

My husband and I are visibly Jewish. We’ve received abuse for it on several occasions. He is also non-white and gets abuse for that too. Neither is worse or more/less serious.

ceaseanddesisttobailiffs · 17/07/2025 15:51

PurpleChrayn · 17/07/2025 15:39

My husband and I are visibly Jewish. We’ve received abuse for it on several occasions. He is also non-white and gets abuse for that too. Neither is worse or more/less serious.

It’s the visibly part.

You are visibly of a race/religion that is often discriminated against.
Just like black, Asians etc.

Some Muslims are visibly of colour or quite apparently of that religion. Whereas others appear white and so are not as readily subjected to racism.
Likewise Jewish people I know - some look Mediterranean, whereas others are easily identifiable as Jewish and have suffered more antisemitism than the former.

All types of racism/prejudice are abhorrent but it is quite easy to understand why some may be more readily targeted than others.
It’s undeniable.

HRTQueen · 17/07/2025 16:03

Yes Diane Abbott is right

Racism and prejudice always impacts people negatively but there are different forms of racism and prejudice and negative stereotypes that is often a form of racism/prejudice.

And she should absolutely not be silenced into discussing this

HRTQueen · 17/07/2025 16:05

Bea372 · 17/07/2025 15:22

I think Diane Abbot is someone who has done a lot of good work but should probably stay well away from tv interviews and the media in general.

Why ?

Because she wants to talk about issues that many are not wanting to talk about or to acknowledge

EasternStandard · 17/07/2025 16:07

HRTQueen · 17/07/2025 16:03

Yes Diane Abbott is right

Racism and prejudice always impacts people negatively but there are different forms of racism and prejudice and negative stereotypes that is often a form of racism/prejudice.

And she should absolutely not be silenced into discussing this

Are you speaking from your own experience? As a Jewish person that is

Changerj · 17/07/2025 16:09

She is right. You can’t hide your skin colour, you can’t blend in.

I see threads on here of mners saying that they’re telling their children not to say they are Jewish. You can’t do that if you’re a black person. You don’t get to hide

HRTQueen · 17/07/2025 16:10

EasternStandard · 17/07/2025 16:07

Are you speaking from your own experience? As a Jewish person that is

No

EasternStandard · 17/07/2025 16:11

HRTQueen · 17/07/2025 16:10

No

So how can you know?

LBFseBrom · 17/07/2025 16:12

LaurieFairyCake · 17/07/2025 14:23

She’s very obviously right, much more overt racism at people who’s skin is a different colour to the majority.

obviously all forms are bad.

I agree. In that she knows what she is talking about.

Strawberrri · 17/07/2025 16:12

I agree with her but in today’s wokey cokey world we’ve all got to pretend racism is by a very naughty minority and we others just have to carry on being kind and of course not even seeing black skin- sarcasm in case anyone is wondering

inamarina · 17/07/2025 16:13

AnonymousCatLady3 · 17/07/2025 14:27

She is right. She’s also stated that yes, those other groups do experience it, but it’s far more overt for people of colour / obviously other

Hasn’t stopped the party immediately accusing her of antisemitism though. Even when she quite clearly stated that Jews also experience racism. I won’t get started on Gaza, I won’t start on Gaza I won’t.

Why are you mentioning Gaza (despite claiming that you won’t) in the context of Jews experiencing racism/ antisemitism in the UK?

Dangermoo · 17/07/2025 16:16

HRTQueen · 17/07/2025 16:10

No

So then you don't know how different minorities are impacted.

Icanttakethisanymore · 17/07/2025 16:17

SteakBakesAndHotTakes · 17/07/2025 15:06

Some can 'hide' their ethnicity/identity, and some can't.

It's irrelevant anyway. A person can hide their sexuality - does that mean homophobia is less bad than other discrimination? It's just a weird stance to take.

Not less bad, but may have a less bad impact on someone's day to day life.

Dangermoo · 17/07/2025 16:17

inamarina · 17/07/2025 16:13

Why are you mentioning Gaza (despite claiming that you won’t) in the context of Jews experiencing racism/ antisemitism in the UK?

Yes, I wondered that too. Then again, I think we are so used to it being shoehorned in. Gotta have a bit of Israel hate on a thread, ironically, about discrimination.

myplace · 17/07/2025 16:18

So, I think she’s describing a very different experience.

I don’t think there is an acceptable face of racism against black people any more. There is ignorance, yes, and some diehard bigots lurking in backward corners. There’s inequality of outcome but not necessarily related to being black, so much as to poverty. Poor white boys have shocking outcomes as well.

Travellers, Jews and Muslims face severe criticism that’s not easy to distinguish from racism. There are conversations all the time about the appalling behaviour of some people in these groups, that must feel very challenging if you are also Jewish, or a Muslim, or a Traveller.

I take part in those conversations and it’s really hard to tread a line around the criticism that needs to be discussed, and that which is racism.

I wouldn’t like to be a Traveller- and equally I hate the behaviour of a significant chunk of travellers.

Those conversations aren't happening about black people. So you could argue it’s the other way round.

LlynTegid · 17/07/2025 16:18

I agree that the expressions and actions are different but it is not only skin colour that leads to racism.

HRTQueen · 17/07/2025 16:18

EasternStandard · 17/07/2025 16:11

So how can you know?

My family is Asian

I know the racism they experience and have experienced is different from what black people I know have experienced. I do not experience this (I have experienced othering confusing as a child and tedious at times)

I know my ex husbands experience being a Muslim Arab

I know that our prisons have a disproportionate number of young black men, I know a young black man is far far more likely to be stopped and searched, I know that our mh hospitals have a disproportionate number of young black people in

Dangermoo · 17/07/2025 16:20

HRTQueen · 17/07/2025 16:18

My family is Asian

I know the racism they experience and have experienced is different from what black people I know have experienced. I do not experience this (I have experienced othering confusing as a child and tedious at times)

I know my ex husbands experience being a Muslim Arab

I know that our prisons have a disproportionate number of young black men, I know a young black man is far far more likely to be stopped and searched, I know that our mh hospitals have a disproportionate number of young black people in

Yet none of this is relevant to other minorities. You're not comparing the POC experience to any other community, than the white one.

Neemie · 17/07/2025 16:23

I don’t think it is a particularly controversial opinion. I disagree with her politics but I have always quite admired Dianne Abbot. At least she isn’t scared to say what she thinks.