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To be pissed off that my DH is not going to McDonalds now and now I have to cook?

271 replies

Sophiehoney · 13/07/2025 16:25

DH was going out at 4pm to rake DS12's friend home. He suggested he get McD's on the way back for himself and the kids (he knows I have a salad prepared for myself and that I don't like McDs) I said great, I wont have to cook.
I was in the shower when he left so I rang him to check he knows what DD7 wants from MCDs. He said he doesn't want McDs any more, he's going to go to the new local chippy instead. I said but the kids don't like the chunky chips you get from the chippies and he said well he's not going to two different places.
I said great, I suppose I'll just have to cook them something.
He said he doesn't understand why I'm so bothered, I would have had to cook anyway icfhe hadn't suggested getting something and I said, because I wasn't expecting to, I'd written it off in my mind, I haven't thought of what to cook and it's now 16:20 on a school night.
He thinks I'm just being argumentative and that I should just cook or we shpuld just tell the kids to just eat the damn chips.

Who's right?

OP posts:
Cherrytree86 · 14/07/2025 20:40

Rabbitsockpeony · 13/07/2025 23:30

Cor, the bar is low. Heating up shite pizzas.

@Rabbitsockpeony

what should he have cooked for them do you think?

Blablibladirladada · 14/07/2025 20:42

If he said to the kids he was getting the food…I would let him manage that.

👌

Cherrytree86 · 14/07/2025 20:42

MTPF · 14/07/2025 20:04

MC Donald's isn't proper nutritious food. Neither of you should have decided that , that was good enough for tea. It's nothing more than snack food and definitely no substitute for a proper meal.

@MTPF

and what exactly does constitute a meal in your book?

MTPF · 14/07/2025 20:55

Some vegetables, meat/fish. Rice or pasta

Cherrytree86 · 14/07/2025 20:59

MTPF · 14/07/2025 20:55

Some vegetables, meat/fish. Rice or pasta

@MTPF

its one meal. Do you think kids are gonna spontaneously combust if they don’t get the perfect balance of protein, carbs and veg for one meal?

Crackanut · 14/07/2025 23:33

MTPF · 14/07/2025 20:04

MC Donald's isn't proper nutritious food. Neither of you should have decided that , that was good enough for tea. It's nothing more than snack food and definitely no substitute for a proper meal.

Address your issues instead of taking them out on other people.

CorbyTrouserPress · 14/07/2025 23:46

MTPF · 14/07/2025 20:04

MC Donald's isn't proper nutritious food. Neither of you should have decided that , that was good enough for tea. It's nothing more than snack food and definitely no substitute for a proper meal.

Blah blah blah

Catladywithoutacat · 14/07/2025 23:52

Just order uber eats then everyone can get what they want

SunflowersInRain · 15/07/2025 00:02

MTPF · 14/07/2025 20:55

Some vegetables, meat/fish. Rice or pasta

Ah but you see, pizza has vegetables (at the very least, there are tomatoes involved!) and can have fish/meat so I'm not seeing your issue with pizza 🤔.

SunflowersInRain · 15/07/2025 00:05

thinklagoon · 14/07/2025 16:11

Burger King burgers are better but McDonald’s fries are better. Ideally the outlets are side by side so you can mix and match both without compromising on time or hotness of food. The milkshake can be from whichever.

This used to be true but IME, the fries are now much better at BK! I often get cold, soggy McDonald's fries and that's just sad all round 😂.

I agree with the milkshake though because chances are they won't have the machines running so you won't get it from either of them.

louderthan · 15/07/2025 00:46

This one of the best threads I’ve read for a while. It has everything. ‘Sunday is a school night!!’ is the new ‘cancel the cheque!!’

Ladybyrd · 15/07/2025 01:55

Sophiehoney · 13/07/2025 16:31

OK so scrap all that, be came home armed with co-op pizzas for the kids and he's cooking them.
All is forgiven 😂

I do like a story with a happy ending.

savagedaughter · 15/07/2025 03:18

He can cook for them. Problem solved.

Ah, just saw your update. Sorry you had to make a fuss for him to do what he promised to do, but glad he did.

CalmBalonz · 15/07/2025 07:52

Is there something wrong with his hands? Make him cook!

x2boys · 15/07/2025 08:03

SunflowersInRain · 15/07/2025 00:02

Ah but you see, pizza has vegetables (at the very least, there are tomatoes involved!) and can have fish/meat so I'm not seeing your issue with pizza 🤔.

They often also contain meat and fish.

x2boys · 15/07/2025 08:03

x2boys · 15/07/2025 08:03

They often also contain meat and fish.

Oops sorry I see you have already covered that 🤣

MTPF · 15/07/2025 08:17

🤣 Get real

Laurmolonlabe · 15/07/2025 08:47

Your DH has children, he should stop being so selfish- you have to buckle down, why not him? Also why is he so indecisive? That would drive me mad.

Isittimeformynapyet · 15/07/2025 10:12

CalmBalonz · 15/07/2025 07:52

Is there something wrong with his hands? Make him cook!

Do you have no concept of time passing?

T1Dmama · 15/07/2025 15:23

Idontjetwashthefucker · 13/07/2025 16:31

I dont have kids but why is Sunday a school night?

Surely no one is this ignorant!!

You never attended school as a child? Or were you never a child either?

A school night means they can’t stay up late because they have to be up early the NEXT day for school

Isittimeformynapyet · 15/07/2025 23:16

T1Dmama · 15/07/2025 15:23

Surely no one is this ignorant!!

You never attended school as a child? Or were you never a child either?

A school night means they can’t stay up late because they have to be up early the NEXT day for school

Interesting that while you were delighted to point out that poster's shocking ignorance over what a school night is, you apparently assumed you'd be the only one capable of telling her.

Edited to clarify: You're about the 100th person. It's been over 24 hours.

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