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I hate anti-vaxxers

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An89 · 04/07/2025 02:33

How can anyone in this day and age be an anti-vaxxer? London and West mids currently suffering from a meassls outbreak. DS is under 1 so cannot yet have vaccine, I know of someone whose 10momth old contracted measels as they were too young for vaccine.
Ridiculous that reckless and tardy parents are putting all our children at risk. Actually terrible.

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Fundayout2025 · 11/07/2025 23:11

adviceneeded1990 · 11/07/2025 22:47

Not for everyone. The healthy young people in their 20s who died of Astra Zeneca induced blood clots would more than likely have bounced back from covid like a cold. As a healthy young woman who turned 30 at the height of lockdown and worked in a school throughout, I caught covid once and it was mildly annoying. The vaccine ended their lives.

I’m not a covid denier whatsoever, covid can be very dangerous to some people and those people need to weigh up the risk and reward of vaccination. But for many, the vaccines caused more harm than covid would have.

And they may not have even caught covid in the first place. Not everyone has you know

sleepwouldbenice · 12/07/2025 00:00

And the last posts show again a lack of comprehension of statistics or even basic averages

adviceneeded1990 · 12/07/2025 00:24

Fundayout2025 · 11/07/2025 23:11

And they may not have even caught covid in the first place. Not everyone has you know

Very true! My Mum actually never has, she’s the only person I know who hasn’t despite living with my Dad when he had it mildly twice, and she was testing twice weekly for over a year longer than most people as my Nan was in a care home throughout.

sashh · 12/07/2025 06:29

Jumpingthruhoops · 11/07/2025 13:02

You've provided a great example here of taking something completely out of context - you can't just pick out the one line that you want to substantiate your argument!

The FULL quote that you've taken that from clearly states:
"While the smallpox vaccine, developed in the late 1700s, was instrumental in the global eradication of smallpox, it's important to acknowledge that the disease had already begun to decline naturally in some regions BEFORE widespread vaccination programs were implemented. This decline [so, BEFORE widespread vaccination programs were implemented] was likely due to a combination of factors, including increased immunity within populations and changes in disease transmission patterns."

I don't personally know what led to such increased immunity within populations but, whatever it was, was happening 'BEFORE widespread vaccination programs were implemented'.

I must admit, I'm finding this whole thread most bizarre. I made the simple comment that 'the disease had begun to decline naturally prior to widespread vaccination' and I've subsequently been questioned, challenged, asked to confirm my sources, even ridiculed by some, when surely the ONLY thing that matters is that the virus WAS already in decline. This is a good thing, no?
MN really is batshit sometimes!

OK so here is the full quote. But the question is the same. Where do you think the immunity came from?

Fundayout2025 · 12/07/2025 07:43

adviceneeded1990 · 12/07/2025 00:24

Very true! My Mum actually never has, she’s the only person I know who hasn’t despite living with my Dad when he had it mildly twice, and she was testing twice weekly for over a year longer than most people as my Nan was in a care home throughout.

I've not had it . Despite being in same house as teenager with it and working with the public throughout My mum never had it. Tested daily in a hospital at one point, even on the morning of her death ( almost as though they were determined to get her down as a " covid" death My OH didn't get it. DGS had no sign of it

DucklingSwimmingInstructress · 12/07/2025 09:18

https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/ce9x4yd27mro

"Emergency vaccination programmes – rolled out in response to outbreaks of five major diseases – are believed to have reduced deaths by around 60% over a period of 23 years, according to a new study.

A similar number of infections are also thought to have been prevented.
Researchers believe that vaccinations stopped much bigger outbreaks of illnesses like Ebola, cholera and yellow fever.

The study also points to the significant economic benefits of vaccination programmes, which run into billions of dollars.

Researchers say this is the first comprehensive study to assess the impact of emergency vaccination programmes in response to the outbreak of five infectious diseases – Ebola, measles, cholera, yellow fever and meningitis.

They studied 210 different incidents from 2000 to 2023, covering 49 different countries.

The vaccine roll-outs seem to have had an impressive impact, reducing deaths by nearly 60%.

The number of overall cases of theses infections were also reduced by nearly 60%.
The swift deployment of vaccines also appears to have halted wider outbreaks.
There were economic benefits too – worth an estimated $32 billion.

These benefits come mainly from averting deaths and years of life lost to disability.
But researchers believe this could be a significant underestimate of overall savings, as it doesn't take into account the costs of dealing with a wider outbreak, or the economic disruption caused by a more serious health emergency.

It's believed the 2014 Ebola outbreak, which occurred before the existence of an approved vaccine, is estimated to have cost West African countries alone more than $53 billion."

For anyone who doesn't have an agenda, when you read this and when you think of smallpox as well, the value of vaccines is overall a black - and - white issue.

Yes, there are some who will react badly to the vaccines and they have an entirely valid reason to not have them and rely on herd immunity.

But for the rest, it's a very clear case.

More and more I come to think that Western people who are anti-vaccinations on principle are plain spoiled, selfish, naive and cossetted idiots. There's no other way to put it.

A medic in full protective face mask and white clothing, standing outside, holding up a syringe with gloved hands

Vaccine roll outs cut deaths and infections by 60% says study

The study looked at vaccines deployed during outbreaks of five deadly diseases.

https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/ce9x4yd27mro

AnxiousOCDMum · 12/07/2025 19:16

DucklingSwimmingInstructress · 12/07/2025 09:18

https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/ce9x4yd27mro

"Emergency vaccination programmes – rolled out in response to outbreaks of five major diseases – are believed to have reduced deaths by around 60% over a period of 23 years, according to a new study.

A similar number of infections are also thought to have been prevented.
Researchers believe that vaccinations stopped much bigger outbreaks of illnesses like Ebola, cholera and yellow fever.

The study also points to the significant economic benefits of vaccination programmes, which run into billions of dollars.

Researchers say this is the first comprehensive study to assess the impact of emergency vaccination programmes in response to the outbreak of five infectious diseases – Ebola, measles, cholera, yellow fever and meningitis.

They studied 210 different incidents from 2000 to 2023, covering 49 different countries.

The vaccine roll-outs seem to have had an impressive impact, reducing deaths by nearly 60%.

The number of overall cases of theses infections were also reduced by nearly 60%.
The swift deployment of vaccines also appears to have halted wider outbreaks.
There were economic benefits too – worth an estimated $32 billion.

These benefits come mainly from averting deaths and years of life lost to disability.
But researchers believe this could be a significant underestimate of overall savings, as it doesn't take into account the costs of dealing with a wider outbreak, or the economic disruption caused by a more serious health emergency.

It's believed the 2014 Ebola outbreak, which occurred before the existence of an approved vaccine, is estimated to have cost West African countries alone more than $53 billion."

For anyone who doesn't have an agenda, when you read this and when you think of smallpox as well, the value of vaccines is overall a black - and - white issue.

Yes, there are some who will react badly to the vaccines and they have an entirely valid reason to not have them and rely on herd immunity.

But for the rest, it's a very clear case.

More and more I come to think that Western people who are anti-vaccinations on principle are plain spoiled, selfish, naive and cossetted idiots. There's no other way to put it.

Ah yes the BBC with all their non biased reporting

The author of the study also affiliated with Gavi - can’t be any vested interests then….

🤥

I hate anti-vaxxers
cardibach · 12/07/2025 20:14

@AnxiousOCDMum dont you believe anyone has any integrity? Anyone at all? (other than you and whoever you are ‘researching’ with).

AnxiousOCDMum · 12/07/2025 20:30

cardibach · 12/07/2025 20:14

@AnxiousOCDMum dont you believe anyone has any integrity? Anyone at all? (other than you and whoever you are ‘researching’ with).

No I don’t think Bill Gates has much integrity to be honest.

cardibach · 12/07/2025 20:34

AnxiousOCDMum · 12/07/2025 20:30

No I don’t think Bill Gates has much integrity to be honest.

What’s that got to do with scientists?
And actually, why not? Beyond general issues with being a billionaire he seems to be fairly philanthropic.

madaboutpurple · 12/07/2025 20:39

My best friend would not go for her covid jabs .She died last year as she got covid. To my way of thinking hers was a needless death and I still miss her very much.

Alltheyellowbirds · 12/07/2025 21:26

madaboutpurple · 12/07/2025 20:39

My best friend would not go for her covid jabs .She died last year as she got covid. To my way of thinking hers was a needless death and I still miss her very much.

I’m so very sorry for your loss. Can I ask if there was a particular health reason you felt she should have had a jab? Or is it the norm where you are? Because it isn’t where I am and I haven’t had one for years.

AnxiousOCDMum · 12/07/2025 22:19

cardibach · 12/07/2025 20:34

What’s that got to do with scientists?
And actually, why not? Beyond general issues with being a billionaire he seems to be fairly philanthropic.

😂 ok love, you believe that if you want. Have all his jabs and eat all his GMO lab grown meats and keep your rose tinted spectacles on. I’m sure you’ll be grand 👌🏽

cardibach · 12/07/2025 22:26

AnxiousOCDMum · 12/07/2025 22:19

😂 ok love, you believe that if you want. Have all his jabs and eat all his GMO lab grown meats and keep your rose tinted spectacles on. I’m sure you’ll be grand 👌🏽

I believe science. I don’t think that’s a radical position, or one requiring your hideous condescension. I’m not your love by the way.

AnxiousOCDMum · 12/07/2025 22:27

cardibach · 12/07/2025 22:26

I believe science. I don’t think that’s a radical position, or one requiring your hideous condescension. I’m not your love by the way.

You believe scientists who are paid and instructed by those who profit off of the “research”. You sound smart.

GonnaeNoDaeThatJustGonnaeNo · 12/07/2025 22:29

Uneducated and/or not very bright/sometimes just nuts

definitely antisocial and should be socially isolated due to their threat to public health and failure to be good citizens

CanadaNotAMum · 12/07/2025 22:31

DogCrew · 04/07/2025 03:23

What’s the alternative though, forcing people to have vaccinations? I don’t think that’s a road we want to go down.

We just need to keep educating people about the consequences of not having them and being honest about the risks so that conspiracy theories have less chance of spreading. I think we need to have the ‘frightening’ adverts on tv and social media showing what not vaccinating can do but I also believe people should be able to choose.

Our kids are vaccinated for everything except for flu or Covid and I want to keep that right to choose.

I know some people who don’t vaccinate with right wing and left wing views so it’s not just a political thing.

Education and transparency are key.

I think education may work for a subset of antivaxxers who have a poor understanding of science. But the core of the antivaxxer movement seems to be a combination of selfishness, lack of empathy, and anti-establishment rebellion.

Arguments appealing to their humanity, like herd immunity, makes no difference because they only care about themselves and their own families, too bad for the rest of us.

cardibach · 12/07/2025 22:32

AnxiousOCDMum · 12/07/2025 22:27

You believe scientists who are paid and instructed by those who profit off of the “research”. You sound smart.

Dear God. You’ve had this explained to you. Some science is funded by businesses, and yes, it’s worth knowing which ones and being mindful. Not all is amd anyway it’s peer reviewed. Not everyone is venal and corrupt either.
It’s a damn sight smarter to believe in science than to believe in…what? Who is giving you your information? Where are they from? What’s their qualification level? Who funds them? Are they peer reviewed?

Alltheyellowbirds · 12/07/2025 22:32

AnxiousOCDMum · 12/07/2025 22:19

😂 ok love, you believe that if you want. Have all his jabs and eat all his GMO lab grown meats and keep your rose tinted spectacles on. I’m sure you’ll be grand 👌🏽

I’ve always been a bit bemused about why the conspiracy theorists loathe Bill Gates so much. Have you any idea how much money he has donated over the years? Or all the work his foundation has done, for example trying to eradicate malaria? Surely your hatred should be directed at the billionaires sitting on their wealth not the ones giving it away.

ncduetooutingsituation · 12/07/2025 22:35

madaboutpurple · 12/07/2025 20:39

My best friend would not go for her covid jabs .She died last year as she got covid. To my way of thinking hers was a needless death and I still miss her very much.

My sister had her Covid jab, to ‘save the universe’, or similar. She had breast cancer, and a reasonable prognosis.
She died several weeks later from multiple organ failure.
Her oncologist stated that unfortunately the vaccine had many unexpected problems, and in retrospect it should not have been given to the vulnerable so readily.
I miss her too.
It’s not as straightforward as you are suggesting.

AnxiousOCDMum · 12/07/2025 22:47

Alltheyellowbirds · 12/07/2025 22:32

I’ve always been a bit bemused about why the conspiracy theorists loathe Bill Gates so much. Have you any idea how much money he has donated over the years? Or all the work his foundation has done, for example trying to eradicate malaria? Surely your hatred should be directed at the billionaires sitting on their wealth not the ones giving it away.

”Donated” 😂

AnxiousOCDMum · 12/07/2025 22:49

ncduetooutingsituation · 12/07/2025 22:35

My sister had her Covid jab, to ‘save the universe’, or similar. She had breast cancer, and a reasonable prognosis.
She died several weeks later from multiple organ failure.
Her oncologist stated that unfortunately the vaccine had many unexpected problems, and in retrospect it should not have been given to the vulnerable so readily.
I miss her too.
It’s not as straightforward as you are suggesting.

I’m so sorry for your loss. There are many doctors who are speaking out about the Covid vax and how dangerous it is. People will not understand the true extent of how terrible it os until years later down the line. Anyone willingly having it now really needs to reassess.

bluecurtains14 · 12/07/2025 22:53

Scottyme · 04/07/2025 08:16

Many doctors and nurses I know, refuse to get vaccinated or choose only have some vaccinations, for one reason or another. If you go to your GP surgery or Hospital, do you actively ask their vaccination status before they treat you?

You cannot say a medical consultant is ignorant or uneducated in this field. Quite the contrary.

btw I and my children have had all our vaccinations

Edited

Those doctors are largely social media grifters.

AnxiousOCDMum · 12/07/2025 22:54

cardibach · 12/07/2025 22:32

Dear God. You’ve had this explained to you. Some science is funded by businesses, and yes, it’s worth knowing which ones and being mindful. Not all is amd anyway it’s peer reviewed. Not everyone is venal and corrupt either.
It’s a damn sight smarter to believe in science than to believe in…what? Who is giving you your information? Where are they from? What’s their qualification level? Who funds them? Are they peer reviewed?

Had this explained to me? By who? All
you “scientists” and “experts”? Isn’t it only those who I should believe? Even if their studies are biased? Even if the whole pharmaceutical industry relies on people becoming sick? When will the penny drop?

AnxiousOCDMum · 12/07/2025 22:55

bluecurtains14 · 12/07/2025 22:53

Those doctors are largely social media grifters.

Ok 🤪

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