Dumped for kissing someone else….do I contact?

[Lolololalaura]

So I am a horrible person and have made a massive mistake.

Ive been with my boyfriend 3 years. We’ve never lived together but live close by to each other. I kissed someone else and yesterday I admitted it to him by text (I’m away and that’s where it happened)

He replied “It’s over. You have no integrity. Don’t contact me again”

i haven’t been able to explain myself am I being unreasonable to want to message him today or do I literally just not contact him as requested. When people in break ups say don’t contact do they actually mean it!?

What are you going to explain? Did you kiss someone or not? if you did, no explanation needed, you’re a cheat and he doesn’t want to know!
im not sure what you think you can say to ‘explain’. It strikes me you want to make excuses and he doesn’t want to hear them.

Why did you even tell him unless it was something he was going to find out. A stupid mistake to make, but if it was one isolated kiss which won’t ever happen again, if you’re drunk or something I don’t really understand why you did. And by text??!! That’s the most difficult to understand. Wait until you get back and have a conversation. Were you drunk when it happened and when you told him? That’s the only thing I can think that would have made anyone handle a situation like you did.