My boyfriend is going back and forth with his ex fling.

[Jakielove]

My man of 6 months is going back and forth with his ex fling of a year ago. I found these messages on his phone because my gut was telling me to check. Messages were of him telling his ex how he doesn’t like how she acts, how she wasn’t special to him etc. Basically texts of them hitting low blows with each other. Keep In mind this relationship lasted on 3 months and ended a year ago. He was the first man she ever slept with, he claims that he doesn’t care for her. Yet why respond when she sends a text ? She sent her number over to him and told him to call her, and I seen the call log and he ended up calling her smh ……. I don’t know what do do ? He claims no feeling are involved

Come on… this has to be a troll. Honestly. No one is THIS stupid!

Serious question. Are you actually a teenager posing as someone older?

OP - this guy is not good partner material, for anyone.

I presume he has some cash and is a little good-looking. Don't be shallow. He's thrown a little attention your way and you were prepared to be treated really badly in return.

Most of us went through this in our teens.

When you meet the right person you won't be asking yourself any of these questions. It will be simple.

Stop. Just stop. You’re going to drive yourself crazy over this. I don’t know what’s happened in your life to make you so insecure and have so little confidence, but please for your own sake just stop. Get some therapy. Try to explore why you are so hung up on this awful guy who treats you like shit and gaslights you all the time. You’ve done well to get rid of him, but as long as you keep thinking about him you cannot get over him. Please get some help in real life.

He said he wants to spend time with her. That should answer your question. However you won't leave him, will you.

I have been following this thread and can't believe that you can't see that all he wants is his ego massaging.

He doesn't like her or you.

He just wants a booty call with whoever is free at the time.

Is he your first boyfriend? You seem very naive and gullible about his intentions.

You need to get rid and block.

She doesn't want to see it.