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To wonder what it’s like to be with a man like this…

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Alltheminicerealsgoneinoneday · 20/06/2025 18:49

One who looks after you, cooks you dinner or even makes you a drink. One who takes the mental load off you, sorts the bills etc. A man who takes care of you when you’re ill, tells you to go to bed and have a rest when you’re tired/overwhelmed. A man who you can sit and have interesting and intelligent conversations and debates with, a man who teaches you something.
To wonder what it’s like to have a man who spontaneously cuddles you and who you still love properly kissing with, to be with a man who takes the initiative and plans/books something for you both or as a family. A fun man with a positive outlook and a lust for life, a guy who doesn’t smoke or drink excessively or take drugs, a man who plays sports and has a great friendship circle. A man who makes you laugh and is witty and sharp, a kind man who loves dogs
To wonder what it’s like to be with a man who listens to you, cares and offers advice, a man who has always got your back and defends you.

To wonder what it’s like to be with a man like this..it must be like winning the lottery to be this cared for and loved

OP posts:
Hedgesgalore · 21/06/2025 12:01

Mine doesn't cook unless bbq'ing 😏 other than that he pretty much ticks that list.

While reading the op, dh was getting ddog's lead to take him out for a walk 😂

My dd often remarks how lucky we are to have him, that he's just a really good person to everyone not just us. I agree and add I wouldn't have married him if he wasn't so great.

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