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Angry about lenient sentence for murder of elderly man in park

214 replies

Thomasina79 · 05/06/2025 18:38

7 years for the boy and three for the girl. This country is pathetic sometimes. A man lost his life while innocently walking his dog. Too sad

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NoBiscuitsLeftInMyTin · 07/06/2025 11:44

MintChocCat · 07/06/2025 11:37

Yeah, I feel like there is something in this.
children will reflect their environments and upbringing I.e. parenting, siblings, wider family network, friendship groups, school, social media. Dread to think what their parents and families are like.

The kids' behaviour/mannerisms etc will 99% be reflective of their upbringing/parents close family friends etc so it doesn't say much for the rest of the clan. If so they didn't have much of a chance really - sad really.

sprinklesandshines · 07/06/2025 13:29

Dangermoo · 07/06/2025 08:13

I admire your faith.

Thanks…I feel like you have to have it sometimes in these sorts of situations when it’s children. Mary bell, Robert Thompson have managed to keep their noses clean. While it might go the other way for these two there’s no reason they can’t use this chance in custody to clean their lives up. There has to be hope.

IfYouPutASausageInItItsNotAViennetta · 07/06/2025 13:38

NoBiscuitsLeftInMyTin · 07/06/2025 10:58

Whilst I agree with the potential (non-)parenting issues here - I struggle to believe that anyone can think its OK to attack a vulnerable person, kill them as if its a normal day like going to the shops - maybe I'm naive about how some people live. If so then I'm glad to be like that and that we live in the sticks where its all a bit more peaceful. If that happened here the police wouldn't know what to do first - probably check the closest cars for bald tyres

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I agree - I cannot believe how many people, including youngsters, think absolutely nothing of going out determined/willing to kill anybody for any trivial reason.

There's always been random violence from a certain kind of person who metes it out for somebody just looking at them; but - bad as it is - that involves bruises and pain that can usually last a day or two and then go away. What makes somebody actually quite happy to KILL somebody for a silly arbitrary reason? Mr Kohli appears to have been targeted for being Asian, being old and for berating them with common sense that their parents should have done long ago... and for that, they believed he should actually DIE.

I don't know their parents, but it may not 'just' have been negligence. There are a lot of terrible, criminally and anti-socially-minded parents out there who actively coach their kids to do this kind of stuff. Some of them who have lots of kids will teach the eldest to commit crime and then get them and the next kids to pass it down in a chain to their younger siblings - often conveniently exploiting the window of time between when the child physically and mentally can learn to do it and when they reach the age of criminal responsibility.

eastegg · 07/06/2025 13:59

HornyHornersPinkyWinky · 05/06/2025 19:02

I find it strange that the offenders are given mitigation due to their young ages, but there isn’t the same acknowledgement of the victim’s elderly age/ frailty and corresponding vulnerability.
Surely that should be an aggravating factor.

What makes you think that it wasn’t?

Judges have to balance both aggravating and mitigating factors. I haven’t read the sentencing remarks, but there’s no way the victim’s age wouldn’t have been taken into account as an aggravating factor here.

Have you read or heard something to show that it wasn’t?

You may think the final sentence arrived at is low, but that’s another matter.

eastegg · 07/06/2025 14:09

MolkosTeenageAngst · 05/06/2025 19:11

Are you saying an elderly persons life is worth more than a younger persons? If anything surely it’s worth less, the man was 80 so probably didn’t have many years left anyway. I’m not saying that makes it okay or less horrific, but are you really saying they should have got longer because the man was elderly than they would have if they’d killed a 20 year old, 40 year old, 60 year old?

Now we’re getting philosophical. Your utilitarian approach is interesting.

But it’s not an approach the criminal law and sentencing principles follow.

Going for an easy target less able to defend themselves is and to my mind will always be a strong aggravating factor.

Dangermoo · 07/06/2025 14:12

sprinklesandshines · 07/06/2025 13:29

Thanks…I feel like you have to have it sometimes in these sorts of situations when it’s children. Mary bell, Robert Thompson have managed to keep their noses clean. While it might go the other way for these two there’s no reason they can’t use this chance in custody to clean their lives up. There has to be hope.

Fair enough 👌

MolkosTeenageAngst · 07/06/2025 15:39

eastegg · 07/06/2025 14:09

Now we’re getting philosophical. Your utilitarian approach is interesting.

But it’s not an approach the criminal law and sentencing principles follow.

Going for an easy target less able to defend themselves is and to my mind will always be a strong aggravating factor.

True, they might not have killed a younger person, but they may have left them with a permanent brain injury, lifelong disability from injury, PTSD or other lifelong mental health issues. I don’t really agree it would be better to attack a younger person over an older one just because the likelihood of death is lower, again arguably it could be better to end the life of an 80 year old vs leaving a 30 year old with a lifelong of disability, care needs and trauma. After my parent suffered a catastrophic brain injury I admit it was a relief when they passed, had they lived it would have been with 24/7 care needs and significant disability. I don’t believe death is always the worst outcome in a situation like this, although obviously the ideal would be that the assault had never happened. I’m obviously not saying I think that anything about this was okay, just that again I don’t think just because the person was elderly it is worse than if he had been young and I don’t think that death is necessarilly always the worst outcome.

FullOfLemons · 07/06/2025 17:32

sprinklesandshines · 06/06/2025 22:51

What about Robert Thompson who killed James Bulger. Is he not proof of someone who has come through the system and punishment has worked for him.

I don’t think we (the general public) know

All we know is that he has not been recalled to prison - yet.

If you think that proves he has been rehabilitated then that answers your question.

sprinklesandshines · 07/06/2025 17:36

FullOfLemons · 07/06/2025 17:32

I don’t think we (the general public) know

All we know is that he has not been recalled to prison - yet.

If you think that proves he has been rehabilitated then that answers your question.

Nobody knows for sure if he is truly “fixed” or means his apology he made but as long as he/mary bell have not been recalled to prison (and they do get monitored carefully for obvious reasons) and have now allegedly both moved on with partners/ children then i think we can all agree the young people / children's / teenage justice then I think it can be presumed the system does work to an extent. So hopefully justice can help these two people.

PennyInATizzyAgain · 07/06/2025 17:44

I think a lack of empathy is part of the issue here. How do we get them to learn empathy for victims of violence or human beings in general? I suspect if kids aren't taught to put themselves in other peoples shoes as children it's to late for them to learn it as teenagers.

I'm sure we are seeing this more often because of hate for minorities being incited on social media. racism seems to be increasing.

what on earth was their motive if it was not racially motivated? they just wanted to beat someone to pulp for the fun of it? I wish there was a screening for this kind of personality type at a young age, then they could be sent somewhere to re-programme their brains.

Rispa42 · 07/06/2025 21:43

I wonder what the response would have been if a couple of Asian kids had killed a white elderly man? No doubt the Daily Mail et al would have been whipping the Reform lot into a frenzy…

Lindajonesjustcantlivemylife · 07/06/2025 21:49

Rispa42 · 07/06/2025 21:43

I wonder what the response would have been if a couple of Asian kids had killed a white elderly man? No doubt the Daily Mail et al would have been whipping the Reform lot into a frenzy…

It doesn't take much to whip the Reform lot into a frenzy or the Daily mail for that matter.

OldSparky · 07/06/2025 23:10

Apologies my MS riddled fingers accidentally clicked on YABU. Which was obviously a mistake

OonaStubbs · 08/06/2025 00:29

They should have got life sentences or close to it. Maybe 50 years.

sprinklesandshines · 08/06/2025 00:39

OonaStubbs · 08/06/2025 00:29

They should have got life sentences or close to it. Maybe 50 years.

That was never going to happen for two kids so young. Bear in mind Ian Huntley got min 40 years for a double child murder.

OonaStubbs · 08/06/2025 00:40

sprinklesandshines · 08/06/2025 00:39

That was never going to happen for two kids so young. Bear in mind Ian Huntley got min 40 years for a double child murder.

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He should have got longer as well. All criminals should get longer sentences.

sprinklesandshines · 08/06/2025 00:41

OonaStubbs · 08/06/2025 00:40

He should have got longer as well. All criminals should get longer sentences.

Yup well the prisons are full.

OonaStubbs · 08/06/2025 00:42

Build more prisons.

KenAdams · 08/06/2025 01:52

Just as an update, our local MP (also MP for the area where the murder took place) has appealed to the AG for a sentencing review of an unduly lenient sentence due to the judge not deeming this to be a racially motivated attack.

ButterCrackers · 08/06/2025 06:24

sprinklesandshines · 08/06/2025 00:39

That was never going to happen for two kids so young. Bear in mind Ian Huntley got min 40 years for a double child murder.

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An absolute disgrace. This scum needs putting away for life.

ButterCrackers · 08/06/2025 06:27

sprinklesandshines · 08/06/2025 00:41

Yup well the prisons are full.

That’s no excuse. Anyone who thinks evil scum should be living amongst everyday people should offer to have this scum living in their own home.

notedbiscuits · 08/06/2025 06:31

I think it’s dreadful that the sentences are too short.

I don’t care how old the children are. If they are able to murder someone and laugh about filming the attack, they should have got at least 25 years for the lad. If adults did that, he would have got 25 years.

I do hate racism.

sprinklesandshines · 08/06/2025 08:45

notedbiscuits · 08/06/2025 06:31

I think it’s dreadful that the sentences are too short.

I don’t care how old the children are. If they are able to murder someone and laugh about filming the attack, they should have got at least 25 years for the lad. If adults did that, he would have got 25 years.

I do hate racism.

they said it wasn’t racially motivated whatever that means, doesn’t make it any better

deeahgwitch · 08/06/2025 09:01

KenAdams · 08/06/2025 01:52

Just as an update, our local MP (also MP for the area where the murder took place) has appealed to the AG for a sentencing review of an unduly lenient sentence due to the judge not deeming this to be a racially motivated attack.

Here’s hoping the undue leniency of the sentence will be appealed and will be successful.

Please don’t tell me those 2 don’t know right from wrong.
I despair at what’s happening in the world. 🥲

sprinklesandshines · 08/06/2025 13:25

OonaStubbs · 08/06/2025 00:42

Build more prisons.

There are so many reasons why they can’t do this, not just funding but most people probably including yourself not wanting to live next to prisons/ worried about safety.

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