Pregnancy announcement before brothers wedding

[Kittycat02]

I’ve just found out we are expecting, and have had an early scan (8weeks). My brother gets married in 2 weeks time, so I want to announce it now so that I don’t have to pretend to drink at the wedding. It’s only a small wedding with parents and siblings so I was going to announce it to the people who will be at the wedding as they are my close family and I know how excited they are going to be!
AIBU to announce it before his wedding or should I wait until afterwards?

Their wedding day is going to be their day. Why do they need the 2 weeks before as well?

Make sure you’ve always got a GnT in hand, nobody will notice

Wait. Drink water and pretend it's gin. Drink orange juice and pretend it's gin and orange. Do not steal the limelight.

I would tell anyone you would tell pre 12 weeks as normal (for me that would be my best friend and parents (I don’t have siblings)). But save any wider announcement for after the wedding.

Depends how precious they are about weddings - I'd have been delighted for my sister, personally, and overjoyed at her news.

Keep quiet life isn’t all about you.

Just wait.
Wait a couple of weeks. Then ALL your family can enjoy your news-brother and SIL included. Don't steal their day from them.

Don't-the bride will feel obligated to say it's ok, even if she really doesn't think it is.

Announcing a pregnancy 2 weeks before a wedding day isn't stealing their day which is a whole 2 weeks away from them.