Last weekend unfortunately I suffered a miscarriage.
Un beknown to me, a close friend of mine has been having an affair for years apparently.
She knew of what happened, and her partner both sent us messages of support.
We thanked them and said we need time and will see them soon.
On Friday my close friends husband turned up at my house, screaming at me that did I know she was having an affair?
She had apparently said she had came over last weekend to be with me, but she was actually with him and he caught her lying by tracking her phone and she confessed she was not at my house supporting me.
I was so upset, after he left I passed out from the shock of it all, and that she had lied and said she was with me when she wasn't.
She has rang me several times since, they both have, and messaging, and last night I was rushed to a&e because I keep blacking out.
I am literally sobbing as I write this. I cannot believe she used my saddest earth shattering moment as a lie to go and be with the person she's having an affair. I'm also really angry he came to my house screaming at me, my other children hearing it all when our home is grieving.
My friend has even rang my daughters ipad to try and make contact. I literally feel like im going to have a heart attack from the stress, and I'm so upset I shake.
I'm so angry but I know I need to rest, but how dare both of them. They have no right to drag me into their mess, and harass me.
I haven't messaged either of them back, I just shake. My partner refuses to engage with either of them ever again, but I kind of want someone to stick up for me and tell them they have hurt us all so much, even my poor Dad in his old age has offered to speak to her.