2nd Date, he embarrassed me in a restaurant

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Am I over reacting here? I suspect I might be.

1st date went well, 2nd date today. We went for for late/early dinner. nice restaurant. We got talking about Austria, Switzerland etc and he said “I can yodel”. I just laughed so he said “I can show you?” So I laughed again and said “in the middle of a restaurant?”

He then started yodelling loudly. I swear everyone turned around and looked at us. I’m normally pretty passive and would usually just quietly die inside but on this occasion I was beyond embarrassed, absolutely mortified and snapped “Shush!”

He laughed and said “what?” So I said “seriously? We’re in the middle of a restaurant”. He said sorry (whilst still laughing) and tried to change the subject but I couldn’t get past it. Who does that?

I don’t like being centre of attention and yes I embarrass easy. I ended up going home early as I just couldn’t stop thinking about it. He’s messaged me since asking if everything is ok, I don’t think he’s actually associating my change in mood to the yodelling incident!! Making me think maybe I’m over reacting??

Granted it’s a bit crowded down here, but we do know we aren’t in the Swiss Alps.

Interesting that the OP has not come back after starting the thread. Possibly a phantom yodeller.

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Thing is, whether you find it funny or not on a date, would anyone want to hear someone in a restaurant yodelling? I wouldn’t (unless I’d gone to a Swiss theme night). I’d be asking staff to shut him up.

I’ve actually lived in Switzerland and no one was yodelling in restaurants.

That’s what I was thinking. I can’t stand people who broadcast themselves everywhere.

I mean… now that I know it’s an option…

Those saying he sounds like a laugh are not thinking about the other diners, who are not on a date with him. They are most likely going to be irritated. I still think if he was otherwise fine then he deserves a second chance, but only a second one, no third chances. One more strike and he’s out otherwise OP will find herself lumbered with one of those tedious ‘I’m mad me’ characters.

Ditto. They’re do ‘look at meeeee I’m so crazy’ when in reality they’re usually self obsessed tedious dullard one trick ponies.

Yeah I don't think I could move past that. Someone with such low social inhibitions is bound to repeatedly do wacky shit which will embarrass you. Somewhere out there will be some equally odd girl who finds things like that endearing or funny but you're completely reasonable to accept that isn't you.

LOL. I remember a joke from childhood.

Knock knock who's there, little old lady, little old lady who, i didnt know you could yodel.

I would laugh tbh however it would give me the Ick 🤮. I wouldn’t be attracted to them after that. It feels like he’s been waiting for his moment to do this yodelling 🤣

nah.. it’s called decorum and it doesn’t sound like he has any imo

This is hilarious and would fit right in to the 'ick' threads that often pop up on here!

Dear me

How embarassing. Obviously he really fanncies himself and lackss social awareness. Who dies he think he is? William Tell

Sorry. But that is the sort of thing Males on night outs and stag parties dowhen they are well oiled. Usually, wfter about 6 pints of strong lager

I think l would have been very near to walking out of the restaurant. What a knob!!

Look further a field for a more mature man. My dear

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