To want to know what you're sick of about men !

[GingerPussInBoots]

OK, OK its not all men

But this comment on another thread ade me laugh so much and I seriously related, anything else you'd like to add?

I hate the fact I have to run on a treadmill in a gym indoors as if I run outside, there will be men that shout comments like milf etc from cars and van
i mean why on earth do they do that ? They can’t surely think you’ll end up getting with them
they must surely do it to intimidate

also hate the way if I was attacked
there would be questions
why did I have the audacity to be out in the evening alone etc
what was I wearing
did I drink alcohol

none does that to victims that have been robbed or burgled

also some men seem very keen to label some women as gold diggers

yet there’s not really a term to sum up men that exploit women for their youth beauty and fertility and labour

Yeah what the heck is that all about?

can only assume it’s there own insecurity
?

The way they fail to see women as people but see us for our utility. If you don't serve a purpose for them then you don't exist.

For them narcissism is the norm rather than the exception.

I'm actually jealous of their self esteem at times (obviously not all).

My gripe is the glancing...."seen my keys?" as he casts a quick eye over the room. "No, have you looked for them?", "no, that's why I'm asking you". 🙄

Thinking that you remotely give one single fuck about them. Trust me, random man, I am not interested in engaging with you in any way shape or form.

I'm heartily sick of men in the workplace being promoted to roles that are over and above their level of competence and expertise because they're likeable and have the gift of the gab, then being completely reliant on their female colleagues to problem-solve, make decisions and manage difficult conversations.

Men (and when I say men, I mean, my boyfriend 🤣) always being late, making me late for events as he’s so slow getting ready and has no sense of urgency, but then when I’m chivvying him along and getting flustered, frustrated etc that we’re late, he turns it on me and I’M the one nagging and causing a problem.

Preformative parenting when there are witnesses and minimum when there isn’t.

weaponised incompetence

“I forgot”

hiw they always get sick when the kids are sick and need caring for but when you come down with it they don’t help

I get called a MILF and beeped at from vans while out WITH my baby?! I'm not adding that though, that's not men that's effing twats.

Show me where I said that. 🧐

Are you me? 🤣 this is exactly what happens in our house. Makes me so angry.

I am sick of the aggression, sexual and physical violence, constant porn use, lack of respect for women and girls, arrogance and immaturity that so many men display.

It is such as shame that we still live in a world where too many men think women are sub-humans who are put on earth for their sexual needs.

There is a reason why the likes the Tate brothers are so popular. Many men unfortunately agree with their views of women.

''@ItsBouqeeeet
So it's okay to women to have a good bitch but not vice versa...''

Really? you know perfectly well that men are the ones who commit the majority of rapes, sexual assaults and are responsible for most domestic violence instances. We also have a history of centuries of women being controlled by men through the law.

There are specific historical and social issues that are purely to be blamed on men.

But don't let facts get in your way...

0 initiative - if I want housework done on his day off I have to write him a list

Because he works full time he can't possibly shoulder any mental load/read school messages etc. The fact I work full time as well doesn't matter

Constantly on his phone 'looking at reels' so doing sweet FA - bloody phone is going to end up down the toilet eventually

Argh!

The way they* walk into a room expecting me to instantly stop doing whatever I’m doing to pay attention to their communication. The huffy sigh when I don’t. Or the huffy sigh when they realise I have my headphones on. The grump when I glare.

• DH

What’s wrong with men brandishing women as ‘gold diggers’, surely this is just the female version of a ‘cocklodger’

Aahaha glad to hear I’m not alone! It’s every single time we go out, so fed up of being late…and being accused of the one causing problems 🤣

I was only joking- you seem to have had a sense of humour failure... said to me soooo many times. Including the time when I objected the day after to one of my colleagues who drunk at a function had asked me (infront of more junior male staff) if it was true that my Indian vagina went horizontal rather than vertical. Banter can be used really toxically.

Pretty much everything about them, really. Been single for the last 16 years. I can honestly say that I've not spent a single second of that time wishing I was in another relationship and would never go back to being 'partnered up'!

cocklodger Isn’t really a known turn in real life tho is it ?

Wtf?!!!!!!!

Terms like intersectionality give me the heebie-jeebies, but I think this may be appropriate in this case. Awful awful awful.

What, all of them?
Bloody hell that’s a sweeping generalisation.

My husband was like that except he didn't turn it on me or accuse of nagging but he just didn't see it as being a problem. I hate being late, its rude and disrespectful and it'd mean I was in bad humour before we even got to whatever we were attending while it didnt bother him. He'd never ever be late for his hobby which ironically is entirely time sensitive (motorsport). I decided a few years ago when we were going to a first communion that I was not going to be late, nor was I going to 'nag', encourage him to hurry, make sure everything he needed was sorted the night before etc, I got up in time, got ready and asked if he was ready because it was time to leave, we'd a two hour drive ahead so needed to go, he wasn't even out of bed so I just said 'see you later' and left. I went to the communion and anyone who asked where he was got told the last place I seen him was bed a few hours earlier. There was no argument when I got home because he knew I'd reached the limit of what I'd accept, he's improved considerably since then but I have left him behind twice since, one cinema trip and one dinner.

Ages on the toilet every day, like clockwork. If I need to poo, I do my business, wash my hands and leave the bathroom in under 5 mins. With men it's a special event. All other tasks must be forsaken and may only be resumed after Dave has been to the toilet.

How all men are exactly the same in the world where this thread makes sense.

They always just want sex all of the time.