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To ask if those of us who enjoy a sandwich for lunch are a dying breed

284 replies

JaneBerlin · 24/05/2025 10:23

Lunchtime in the office, I'm the only one tucking into a sandwich. Everyone else seems to be jabbing away with their fork at something in a Tupperware container.

Are we butty lovers a rarity now?

OP posts:
catin8oot5 · 24/05/2025 16:13

Sandwiches are rotten. Can’t stand them

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 24/05/2025 16:16

Poonu · 24/05/2025 16:05

Industrial bread production means too many preservatives, additives and salt, making it unhealthy. Unless you're making your own.

Ingredients for the bread I'm currently buying:

Wholemeal Wheat Flour, Water, Mixed Seeds (14%) (Sunflower Seeds, Brown Linseed, Golden Linseed, Pumpkin Seeds, Poppy Seeds), Wheat Protein, Yeast, Fermented Wheat Flour, Cracked Wheat (1%), Malted Barley Flour, Salt, Vegetable Oils (Rapeseed, Sustainable Palm), Vinegar, Molasses Sugar, Sustainable Soya Flour, Flour Treatment Agent: Ascorbic Acid (Vitamin C), With 52% Wholegrain (Wholemeal Wheat Flour, Malted Barley Flour, Cracked Wheat)

I think it's OK. Not massively different from home-made. No preservatives or emulsifiers. Tastes good, especially toasted. We'll be carrying on eating bread, like the majority of the world's population.

Poonu · 24/05/2025 16:21

Don't take out of context what I wrote.
I wrote "most".
There's a cost of living crisis going on, not everyone can afford fancy bread.
Read the room.

OliviaBonas · 24/05/2025 16:27

I love sandwiches for work (meal deals) and picnics.

XWKD · 24/05/2025 16:40

Coconutter24 · 24/05/2025 10:38

I got instant goosebumps reading stainless steel lunchbox 🥶

I don't need to take lunch anywhere, but now I want to. 🤣

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 24/05/2025 16:42

Poonu · 24/05/2025 16:21

Don't take out of context what I wrote.
I wrote "most".
There's a cost of living crisis going on, not everyone can afford fancy bread.
Read the room.

I'm well aware of the CoL crisis, thank you. I feel that the people on this thread denouncing bread, which is a filling food eaten by most people in Europe, North Africa and much of Asia for millennia, are the ones not reading the room. Bread is cheap and filling. That matters for a lot of people. Yes, it would be good if mass manufactured bread didn't contain emulsifiers and so on. However, most people on a very tight budget are going to struggle to replace bread with other filling foods that are just as convenient and don't cost more.

This is the bread I mentioned, currently £1.60 on Ocado. I wouldn't count that as fancy bread. I can't justify spending a lot on sourdough and I'm not going to start making all our bread either. I have made bread in the past. It's gorgeous but I eat far more than I do of bought bread, so it's best for me not to make it often.

https://www.ocado.com/products/allinson-s-signature-seeded-361707011

Swearwolf · 24/05/2025 16:42

AllPlayedOut · 24/05/2025 14:25

Fair enough if you don’t like sandwiches though I’m not sure why they’re more effort to eat than other lunch options but, assuming that you’re in the UK, how have you managed to miss the plethora of sandwiches available in the meal deal section of supermarkets? Also you haven’t seen cafe and pub/restaurant lunch menus?! Or specialist sandwich shops? There’s plenty of sandwiches around so someone is eating them.

Yeah, I knew people ate them, I just guess it didn’t occur to me that it was an active choice, rather than just the easiest option. I hadn’t really given it much thought, just found myself surprised by the thread.

Blingismything · 24/05/2025 16:43

I’m not keen on sandwiches (never have been) and can’t abide leftovers. So usually have toast or baguette with cheese. Sometimes soup.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 24/05/2025 16:46

I’m not a big fan on sandwiches and never have been. I mean I can eat one but it would be about my last choice.

I don’t know why you’re calling eating normally with cutlery (or at least a fork) “jabbing away” - or repeating this rather irritating phrase for something so normal in your update?

Leftovers is so much nicer than a sandwich as for a start it can be warm!

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 24/05/2025 16:46

I love sandwiches. I also love soup and leftovers. I just love food, tbh. Some sandwiches are very dull, but there are plenty that aren't. A good amount of a tasty filling, reasonably good bread, Bob's your Uncle Bert, as people used to say (inexplicably) when I was growing up.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 24/05/2025 16:50

Swearwolf · 24/05/2025 16:42

Yeah, I knew people ate them, I just guess it didn’t occur to me that it was an active choice, rather than just the easiest option. I hadn’t really given it much thought, just found myself surprised by the thread.

I agree with you! I always thought it was what people had when there was nothing else available/ needed something easy and convenient etc Not a preference!

I do like bread - there was a thread the other day where I chose it as my favourite carb. But not in the form of a sandwich.

andtheworldrollson · 24/05/2025 16:51

The jabbing I would guess refers to the sound go the fork on the lunch box as people spear their pasta or tomatoes and people chasing salad leaves round the box - surprisingly noisy

CoubousAndTourmalet · 24/05/2025 16:53

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 24/05/2025 16:46

I’m not a big fan on sandwiches and never have been. I mean I can eat one but it would be about my last choice.

I don’t know why you’re calling eating normally with cutlery (or at least a fork) “jabbing away” - or repeating this rather irritating phrase for something so normal in your update?

Leftovers is so much nicer than a sandwich as for a start it can be warm!

But if you're eating cooked leftovers for lunch, what do you have as your evening meal? Two cooked meals a day is too heavy for a lot of people.

Bjorkdidit · 24/05/2025 16:55

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 24/05/2025 16:42

I'm well aware of the CoL crisis, thank you. I feel that the people on this thread denouncing bread, which is a filling food eaten by most people in Europe, North Africa and much of Asia for millennia, are the ones not reading the room. Bread is cheap and filling. That matters for a lot of people. Yes, it would be good if mass manufactured bread didn't contain emulsifiers and so on. However, most people on a very tight budget are going to struggle to replace bread with other filling foods that are just as convenient and don't cost more.

This is the bread I mentioned, currently £1.60 on Ocado. I wouldn't count that as fancy bread. I can't justify spending a lot on sourdough and I'm not going to start making all our bread either. I have made bread in the past. It's gorgeous but I eat far more than I do of bought bread, so it's best for me not to make it often.

https://www.ocado.com/products/allinson-s-signature-seeded-361707011

But the bread that people are eating in Europe, North Africa and much of Asia is a world away from what is generally bought in UK supermarkets and made into sad ham or cheese sandwiches.

I love a baguette or flatbread but don't use it to make a sandwich or eat it as part of a totally cold meal, more to mop up sauce or dip.

Bjorkdidit · 24/05/2025 16:57

CoubousAndTourmalet · 24/05/2025 16:53

But if you're eating cooked leftovers for lunch, what do you have as your evening meal? Two cooked meals a day is too heavy for a lot of people.

Nearly all my lunches are leftover dinner I just make enough to have leftovers.

But I don't understand what you mean by 'too heavy' as a meal made from meat, fish, pulses, vegetables etc is far less stodgy, healthier and less energy dense than a sandwich.

Natsku · 24/05/2025 16:57

CoubousAndTourmalet · 24/05/2025 16:53

But if you're eating cooked leftovers for lunch, what do you have as your evening meal? Two cooked meals a day is too heavy for a lot of people.

I love having two cooked meals a day. Sometimes its the same meal, like if I make pasta bake one evening for dinner there will be enough leftover for dinner the next day and my lunch the next day.

Fortean · 24/05/2025 16:58

I work from home and I still always have either a sandwich or soup (sometimes both) because I can’t really be bothered making any more complicated at that time of day.

I have something a bit more exciting for dinner.

Natsku · 24/05/2025 17:01

I was never keen on sandwiches as a child and used to throw mine in the bin at school and then I got diagnosed with coeliac disease and could kick my younger self for wasting all those sandwiches made with nice bread. Now sandwiches are either nice but made with ultra upf long life gluten free bread or not so nice made with less unhealthy gluten free bread (or nice made with homemade bread but only good on the day its baked really so no good for work lunches).

WinSomeandLoseSome · 24/05/2025 17:01

I guess the days of a sandwich, packet of crisps and a penguin are gone. I had this all through high school and looking back it was pretty unhealthy. No fruit. The nearest thing to a veg was the branston pickle. I think people are more health conscious now and with a pasta or rice dish in Tupperware you can incorporate some veg.

CoubousAndTourmalet · 24/05/2025 17:03

Bjorkdidit · 24/05/2025 16:57

Nearly all my lunches are leftover dinner I just make enough to have leftovers.

But I don't understand what you mean by 'too heavy' as a meal made from meat, fish, pulses, vegetables etc is far less stodgy, healthier and less energy dense than a sandwich.

I just can't envisage eating a cooked meal twice daily.

WaltzingWaters · 24/05/2025 17:07

I usually have a salad - because obviously healthier and I do absolutely love a salad.
I do really enjoy a sandwich but I always want a packet of crisps too when I have a sandwich, so it’s a rare occurrence or I’d start packing the weight on!
As a child a sandwich was a daily occurrence for lunch. My DS (3yo) doesn’t seem to be a big fan of them, will eat a little then be done. He does love a tuna melt toastie though!

ItsSoFoggy · 24/05/2025 17:07

I have a sandwich and a packet of crisps most days.

Bjorkdidit · 24/05/2025 17:07

Why not? What is 'heavier' about cooked meals?

I find it fascinating that some people seem to think cooked food is somehow 'too much' when there's nothing about it being hot or cooked that makes it too much/more/heavier than a sandwich and often it's not the case anyway.

faerietales · 24/05/2025 17:11

I love a sandwich but they have to be freshly made on decent bread - not sliced bread, cold with soggy fillings. Packed lunches in general give me the heebie jeebies though, I'd rather go hungry Grin

andtheworldrollson · 24/05/2025 17:12

If it’s a chicken sandwich I hope it was cooked