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To absolutely not want closer ties to Europe

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Viviennemary · 19/05/2025 14:07

What is the matter with Stammer toadying up to the EU. We voted Out. Has he forgotten. I switched the TV off when I heard the word contribution and free movement. Here we go again. Shafted and ripped off at every turn and following their dumb rules. It's groundhog day. I'm furious.

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PhilippaGeorgiou · 19/05/2025 14:37

Oh yes and there's Ireland next door. Enormous market.

I feel it's important to point out to the OP, Ireland is in the EU....

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 19/05/2025 14:37

Viviennemary · 19/05/2025 14:36

The EU started off as a trade deal only. The EEC. Most folk forget that.

How is this relevant?

WestwardHo1 · 19/05/2025 14:37

thepariscrimefiles · 19/05/2025 14:35

No, the infuriating bit was when the ballot paper included no information about the type of Brexit that was on offer but due to the idiots who were doing the negotatiations, we got the hardest of Brexits that politicians championing Brexit during the run up to the vote certainly didn't make clear.

Absolutely this.

The Referendum was a shambles.

Remember the Good Friday Agreement when the people of Northern Ireland were all presented with the consequences of a vote either way BEFORE voting?

(actually no you probably don't)

WestwardHo1 · 19/05/2025 14:39

How do you envisage the future, @Viviennemary ? Who do you think we should be trading with and on what terms?

RedToothBrush · 19/05/2025 14:39

Viviennemary · 19/05/2025 14:36

The EU started off as a trade deal only. The EEC. Most folk forget that.

Sorry but if you want to stand at an airport for six hours in October when they bring in the Visa Waiver system and require all Brits to be finger printed on entry then crack on.

Meanwhile the same amongst us, welcome a deal which means we are likely to be exempted from this utter chaos.

GinnyCat · 19/05/2025 14:40

Viviennemary · 19/05/2025 14:07

What is the matter with Stammer toadying up to the EU. We voted Out. Has he forgotten. I switched the TV off when I heard the word contribution and free movement. Here we go again. Shafted and ripped off at every turn and following their dumb rules. It's groundhog day. I'm furious.

We voted Out.
I didn't vote out.

devildeepbluesea · 19/05/2025 14:40

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FilthyforFirth · 19/05/2025 14:41

Yatuway · 19/05/2025 14:35

This is hilariously incoherent.

That all brexiteers have. Incoherent, right wing mumblings about 'taking back control'. It has been a shitshow from start to finish. I can only hope this is the start towards rejoining but I wont hold my breath.

Yatuway · 19/05/2025 14:41

RedToothBrush · 19/05/2025 14:39

Sorry but if you want to stand at an airport for six hours in October when they bring in the Visa Waiver system and require all Brits to be finger printed on entry then crack on.

Meanwhile the same amongst us, welcome a deal which means we are likely to be exempted from this utter chaos.

Maybe we should offer that as a parallel option, for particularly committed Leavers like OP.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 19/05/2025 14:42

thepariscrimefiles · 19/05/2025 14:35

No, the infuriating bit was when the ballot paper included no information about the type of Brexit that was on offer but due to the idiots who were doing the negotatiations, we got the hardest of Brexits that politicians championing Brexit during the run up to the vote certainly didn't make clear.

The even more infuriating bit is the fact that if it had been a binding referendum the result would have been declared null and void due to the fact that voters were clearly misled, but because it was only an advisory referendum the Electoral Commission had no power because parliament could have just said "no we're not doing it".

RedToothBrush · 19/05/2025 14:42

GinnyCat · 19/05/2025 14:40

We voted Out.
I didn't vote out.

We didn't vote 'out'. We voted 'yes' or 'no'....

FilthyforFirth · 19/05/2025 14:42

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Me too, not sure why I've bitten to be honest.

Seamond · 19/05/2025 14:42

nightmarepickle2025 · 19/05/2025 14:21

I don't want to live in a country in permanent irreversible economic decline, so we'll have to agree to differ.

Unfortunately we seem to have got that anyway

OneNewLeader · 19/05/2025 14:43

I think your worries are a little premature. Trade agreements rarely affect the whole legislative and judicial system of a country. We have agreements with China but we’re still allowed to vote.

BlueTitShark · 19/05/2025 14:43

Viviennemary · 19/05/2025 14:13

I just object to being governed by EU laws and the fact they could overturn decisions made in our courts. I don't want that.

Fgs, it’s basically similar to a free trade deal.
Just like India.
No one is asking anyone to be ‘governed by EU laws’

KimberleyClark · 19/05/2025 14:43

GinnyCat · 19/05/2025 14:40

We voted Out.
I didn't vote out.

Neither did I.

RedToothBrush · 19/05/2025 14:44

Yatuway · 19/05/2025 14:41

Maybe we should offer that as a parallel option, for particularly committed Leavers like OP.

Yes. The blue passport, finger print slow queue with a grumpy border guard

Or a red passport through the eGate in ten minutes tops option.

Then we can grin and wave from the other side.

BlueTitShark · 19/05/2025 14:44

Viviennemary · 19/05/2025 14:36

The EU started off as a trade deal only. The EEC. Most folk forget that.

And?

Are you saying that soon well become the 51st state of the US?

ExpressCheckout · 19/05/2025 14:44

@Viviennemary You are entitled to your opinion. Just don't come back here when, after voting Reform, you then have to live with the knowledge of being lied to, gaslit and financially shafted.

Reform know whose buttons to press, including yours it seems. Being in the EU wasn't perfect, but - if you have kids or grandkids - then voting leave has thoroughly disadvantaged them in multiple ways.

Most responsible people would want their children to prosper and do better than they ever did in life. Reform are now recruiting the very losers Brexit created, and only a complete fool would trust them.

WestwardHo1 · 19/05/2025 14:44

ilovesooty · 19/05/2025 14:31

It's not moving towards rejoining.

Like we could just "rejoin" without you or anyone else noticing 🙄

We'd have a referendum wouldn't we? With (hopefully after the last shitshow) the pros and cons of joining laid out before the vote so that you could read and understand them - though with the levels of understanding and critical thinking so often displayed in this country, maybe not. And then you would be free to vote whichever way you chose.

And if you didn't like the results of the vote, well you lost get over it. Etc.

IpsyUpsyDaisyDoos · 19/05/2025 14:45

Viviennemary · 19/05/2025 14:13

I just object to being governed by EU laws and the fact they could overturn decisions made in our courts. I don't want that.

And what about good trade deals and free movement suggests they'll be allowed to do this?

When did this happen while we were in the EU?

What would stop the UN getting involved if they wanted to anyway?

RedToothBrush · 19/05/2025 14:45

OneNewLeader · 19/05/2025 14:43

I think your worries are a little premature. Trade agreements rarely affect the whole legislative and judicial system of a country. We have agreements with China but we’re still allowed to vote.

I don't know. We will be required to learn Mandarin at school before we know it thanks to a trade deals with China.

LarkspurLane · 19/05/2025 14:45

Sadcafe · 19/05/2025 14:27

The infuriating bit is we had a referendum to decide if we wanted to stay or leave, regardless of personal views on the outcome, the vote was to leave, apparently it is perfectly acceptable though for the government to decide to move towards rejoining without asking the people, maybe call another election if Labour is so certain this is what people want

We had a referendum, we left the EU.
We are still not in the EU. Nothing else was promised in that referendum.

I guess if we were to actually rejoin, there might be calls for another referendum.
A lot of leavers were against that at the time though.

373849595d · 19/05/2025 14:47

Viviennemary · 19/05/2025 14:36

The EU started off as a trade deal only. The EEC. Most folk forget that.

So to be clear are you suggesting we should have no trading relationship with the EU at all? Is that what Brexit means to you?

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