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Husband caught telling lies.

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MerryTiger · 12/05/2025 21:02

I have been married for about 6 years and my husband told his ex girlfriend’s sister that he doesn’t love me & hides all his money from me. I found this out through a mutual friend.
His ex girlfriend is getting married and I don’t understand why he is acting jealous.
He chose me over her - but I can’t help thinking that he regrets his decision. She was younger & prettier than me - only 22 , whilst I was 32 & was ready to settle & have a baby. We now have 2 children - 4 & 1.
I feel betrayed and like my life is a lie.
Why goes he care if she’s getting married ? Why would he disrespect me ?
I’m so confused. Thanks for your help.
We are generally very happy and he is a good dad. We have been together for almost 8 years now.

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MerryTiger · 02/01/2026 15:57

liamharha · 02/01/2026 14:22

Indeed ,
You will be much happier without him on e all the messy bits of a split are completed .
Wishing you luck

Thank you so much x

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