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My half-brother has invited my sister to his wedding but not me

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DarkestOfBirds · 01/05/2025 16:21

My half-brother is getting married later this year. I haven't been invited but my sister has. I am incredibly hurt and feel that not inviting me feels very pointed.
He and I have never had any kind of falling out or any animosity but aren't very close. When my Dad remarried by step-mother wanted a very clear separation between my Dad's old life and family and hers. Dad has often made me feel like the B-Team to his new family. I am the only family member who hasn't been invited (we are a very small family, not lots of cousins etc).
I am trying to brush it off but keep returning to how hurt I feel at being left out.
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Zanina · 06/05/2025 12:27

HowToBuy · 03/05/2025 22:35

Jesus Christ OP, I don’t know why you’re in contact with any of them?

Your father is a filthy cheat who made it clear to you that you were second best to his new family. He didn’t attend your sisters wedding because his bitch of a wife didn’t go, despite being invited. Sounds like he abandoned care of his parents and left it to you because of his wife’s nerves and anxiety issues.

His horrible wife wrecked the home of 2 students in her school by fucking their father and then tried her best to exclude you and your sister from her new stolen family.

Your half brother is an absolute dickhead who for some reason has absolutely no qualms about making it very clear to all the family that you were not deemed ‘good enough’ to attend his stupid wedding.

You sound lovely and you would be doing yourself a service to cut these people out of your life. And for gods sake… don’t send a bloody card!!! Why oh why would you do that? Fuck him, fuck the lot of them, they all sound vile.

This is buckets.

Fuck all of them. Your kids are watching you on how to be a doormat.

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