Date last night - he’s only just left!!

[Tiredsaturday]

I don’t know why I’m writing this really except that I’m wired and don’t know what else to do having texted a couple of my friends!

Had a date last night. Lovely man who I’d been chatting to for a few weeks by text and phone. Had a coffee with him earlier in the week. This was ‘out out’.

He’s only just left!!! Hehe! What a night! I am happy, excited, very tired indeed (!) and ever so slightly not really but a bit comically ashamed.

Dunno what the AIBU is apart from maybe ‘AIBU to suggest to the kids later that we all go to bed at 6?’

Good grief. She’s not 15. Even if the OP hadn’t already mentioned it, what on earth makes you think a grown woman would need advice on birth control and STD protection from you?

I hope you mean the person I was replying to, and not me!

I get plenty of good shags, although to be fair I’m always up for another one. You can’t have too many, I say. 😁

Yes. I know what to do. I shall name the child ‘Chastity’ as a constant reminder of my sin, and dedicate the few remaining years of my life to her wellbeing before my death from syphilis.

Frankly OP if you’re as straightforward and funny IRL, I’m not surprised the night ended as you intended. I’m wildly jealous and shall live vicariously through your post shag glow.

ps keep us posted

15 years ago I did pretty much the same thing with my DH, been together since and married 12 years, you never know where this may lead too!!

Good for you OP, I'm glad you had fun! I hope you get round two exactly when you want and how you want it and bugger anyone's cats bum mouth over it.

I always thought Prudence is a good name too 😆

I did :)

Who are the one in 5 people voting YABU?! Honestly 🙄. Miserable bastards 😂

Hooray for you OP!

I'm delighted to say I still get those feelings with my DH. I genuinely have no criticism about OPs encounter,nor anyone who enjoys this tyoe of sex,its just never been something I'm interested in. I need that know you inside out feeling & I believe it's what makes for far better sex 😁

You sound happy @Tiredsaturday 😁

Nah, it’s the deep inside feeling, not the inside out feeling 🤭.

Well, I can bet OP will see Mr Shagger again, so the sex will get even better!!

😅🤣😂

I'm surprised at the amount of slut shaming on this thread, I would have hoped by 2025 that we have moved on.

OP how are you doing?

Fine thanks 😃

Work in the morning. Not sure how my colleagues at the convent are going to take the news, but that’s tomorrow’s problem.

I am very late to this but regarding having a bit of fandango soreness, I just wanted to say that if you are late 30’s + then the absolutely best thing you can do for your sex life and general vaginal health is OESTROGENISE YOUR VAGINA. You can buy Estriol cream at the pharmacy and your lady parts will be delighted (and ready for anything).

Round of applause for that capitalisation. For some reason I imagined you screaming it in the street, and it made me laugh out loud.

Thank you for the tip. If I have further troubles I shall investigate. But Hairy Mary has calmed down again now, thankfully.

I can well imagine she was like ‘What the fuck?!’ on Friday night. ‘Alright, can we stop now? Oh hang on, no, carry on…’

She and I have been in a fairly needy but pleasant co-dependent relationship for about 25 years now so I’ll forgive her.

Soz @Tiredsaturday it’s off to the magdalene laundry for you! God forbid a woman enjoy a good casual seeing to, we’ll be wanting to vote next!

I’m one of the posters who shagged my OH on date 2 - prior to that, I also had lots of excellent sex with lovely chaps who I had absolutely no intention of seeing in any other capacity…not that it stopped them asking. If anything, it’s men who can’t separate sex from emotions in my experience! OH didn’t meet DC until we’d been together a year, it’s not like I or the OP were shutting our toddlers in the next room with a takeaway menu so we could carry on with our harlotry in peace 🙄 i don’t deny that there are risks - physical and emotional - to dating (whatever your timeline for getting physical is) but at almost 40 I think I’m capable of assessing risk and it sounds like she is too.

@Tiredsaturday did you pee immediately after each session? it’s the fanny equivalent of cooling down after exercise, helps keep cystitis etc away! pro tip for next time you slip away from the convent and go a-whoring 😁

Good luck with the Mother Superior, OP

No.. are you the forum police?
If you don't have anything to say, then don't post

You can talk
Your original post was so awful in the first place

Lucky you. You go girl 😜

Reminds me of when I met my lovely feller …2 years on engaged and arranging wedding…wishing you as much happiness as I now have ..x

It's risky to bring a stranger home overnight

Naive to pretend otherwise