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Trans protest- sharing for balance

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Tandora · 20/04/2025 11:47

There’s a thread sharing some really awful images from the protest, so I wanted to share some positive ones for the sake of some perspective/ balance.
A lot of people are really understandably incredibly angry and overwhelmed by the events of the last few days. But most people who support trans rights absolutely don’t condone fighting oppression and injustice with misogyny.

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ViolasandViolets · 20/04/2025 16:07

Minuethippo · 20/04/2025 15:38

the ONS and prison Service do not directly publish crime rates in the way presented here. So unless the author did extra calculations, the numbers may be based on assumptions or selective interpretations.

have you looked at the sample size? It’s so tiny making it statistically unstable. The category “men who identify as women” isn’t a standard reporting category in most official stats — this suggests manual reclassification, which is subjective and biased!

please send me the direct link from ONS or ministry of justice. I’d love to see the report cos this wasn’t published by them.

You’re most welcome

Edited

It wasn’t based on a sample. It is based on the whole population - the census. The ‘trans’ question was agreed/pushed by trans lobbyists. However the ONS has had to put a caution on the outcome because it was misunderstood by other groups and OVER estimated the number of trans people (this was pointed out to them in advance but ignored in favour of trans activists). Of course, as this number is now recognised as an overestimate of the trans population this means the risk of men who identify as trans being sex offenders is even greater than was first indicated at over four times greater than other men.

Minuethippo · 20/04/2025 16:07

MarieDeGournay · 20/04/2025 16:00

Where it's relevant, e.g. in women's sport, sex can be verified with a simple cheek swab, nothing grotesque about it at all, and no genitals need be inspected at all.

Outside of contexts where testing would be required, women rely on the good will of men not to use women's single sex spaces such as toilets. I hereby declare, hand on heart, that I will respect men's single sex spaces such as toilets.

It doesn't have to be complicated, Minuethippo - sticking to provable scientific fact and showing respect would go a long way to sort things out.

Ah yes, the ‘simple cheek swab’—because nothing says ‘women’s rights’ like mandatory DNA testing to access basic public spaces.

  1. Chromosomal tests are scientifically useless here.
- Intersex people (1.7% of the population) exist. XXY, XXX, and other variations mean chromosomes don’t fit your binary. - Even XX women can have naturally high testosterone (common in Black/POC athletes). Should we ban them too?
  1. Your ‘goodwill argument is laughable.
- Predatory men don’t follow ‘declarations’—they break laws. Meanwhile, trans women (who’ve lived as women for years) are harassed over a 1% edge case. - If safety were the goal, we’d focus on actual threats (cis male violence), not policing minorities.
  1. Provable scientific fact’?
- Science shows trans women’s hormone levels match cis women’s post-transition. Brain studies confirm gender identity is biological. - Your ‘facts’ cherry-pick biology while ignoring its complexity.

Stop pretending this is about safety. It’s about excluding trans people—and your ‘solutions’ would harm far more cis women (especially minorities) than they’d ever ‘protect.’

Moveanymountain · 20/04/2025 16:08

Tandora · 20/04/2025 14:44

Spaces that are designated for a specific gender

Given that there’s 50+ “genders”, how’s that gonna work @Tandora Public loos gonna be massive!

You agree that medical services are one area where TW need to seek out sex-specific treatments - try telling that to Dr Victor Acharian - a gynaecologist struck off for refusing to treat a TW/man. This is why people are cautious about the agendas of many TW and their supporters. Deliberately setting out to cause drama and damage to others.

Where do you stand on this @Tandora ?

https://www.euronews.com/2023/09/15/a-cavity-is-not-a-vagina-trans-woman-refused-healthcare-in-france

'A cavity is not a vagina': Trans woman refused healthcare in France

'A cavity is not a vagina': Trans Woman refused healthcare in France

The French doctor admitted he didn't have the training or knowledge to treat trans patients - as experts say there's no need for a trans woman to visit a gynaecologist at all.

https://www.euronews.com/2023/09/15/a-cavity-is-not-a-vagina-trans-woman-refused-healthcare-in-france

Alondra · 20/04/2025 16:08

The judgement has been widely interpreted (on both sides) as effectively banning trans women from all spaces designated for women, and declaring that instead they must used those associated with their biological sex . This is what has incited these protests.

This is the ruling of the Supreme Court regarding safe spaces for biological women under the Equaliy Act

Transgenders have the right to protest but it'll be more effective to protest for safe transgender spaces like toilets (opening unisex ones is an idea) than trying to keep accessing female ones.

VickyEadieofThigh · 20/04/2025 16:08

anyolddinosaur · 20/04/2025 16:06

The other thread is page 30 for anyone who doesnt know what this is all about. Entirely predictable violent threats.

Yes, the irony is that the argument is "We're not a danger to you and if you don't agree with us, we'll assault/kill you!"

KateShugakIsALegend · 20/04/2025 16:08

Minuethippo · 20/04/2025 15:38

the ONS and prison Service do not directly publish crime rates in the way presented here. So unless the author did extra calculations, the numbers may be based on assumptions or selective interpretations.

have you looked at the sample size? It’s so tiny making it statistically unstable. The category “men who identify as women” isn’t a standard reporting category in most official stats — this suggests manual reclassification, which is subjective and biased!

please send me the direct link from ONS or ministry of justice. I’d love to see the report cos this wasn’t published by them.

You’re most welcome

Edited

I love science, and facts, and appreciate your challenge.

I followed the links in the graph I posted, and agree that I couldn't make the link from those alone.

This is what I did find. I don't think either help your position, but I remain open to a discussion:

committees.parliament.uk/writtenevidence/18973/pdf/

www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2024/02/24/government-figures-70-per-cent-of-transgender-prisoners-are/

TheWombatleague · 20/04/2025 16:08

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/04/2025 15:41

I’m going to ask again, why would one group of men who identify as the opposite sex have a different rate of sexual offending than another group of men who don’t? Please show your working. Thanks in advance.

Maybe, because people with any sort of paraphalia have a greater risk of sexual offending (particularly cross-dressing in thisccase) and that often cited figures from prison include men who have chosen to identify as women to benefit from the system rather than because of gender dysphoria. It may also be because transwomen are less likely to commit other crimes than cismen.

The evidence for transwomen's rate of sexual offending is pretty thin, there simply aren't enough studies with enough data to come to a definitive conclusion. From 14% greater in US prisons to double here. For men in general however, it's pretty clear.

If it were actually the case that transwomen were as likely to commit sexual offences as is often suggested on here, then it isn't just women's spaces they should be kept out of, it should be any spaces where women are.

AnSolas · 20/04/2025 16:09

Tandora · 20/04/2025 13:47

The type of fascism that is taking hold has nothing to do with science.

I have explained the science over and over again on anti-trans threads on mumsnet , very few people are interested in reading or engaging with it.

Can you link to what you posted?

If not why are you referring to or attempting to rely on something which may or may not exist?

aylis · 20/04/2025 16:09

Minuethippo · 20/04/2025 16:07

Ah yes, the ‘simple cheek swab’—because nothing says ‘women’s rights’ like mandatory DNA testing to access basic public spaces.

  1. Chromosomal tests are scientifically useless here.
- Intersex people (1.7% of the population) exist. XXY, XXX, and other variations mean chromosomes don’t fit your binary. - Even XX women can have naturally high testosterone (common in Black/POC athletes). Should we ban them too?
  1. Your ‘goodwill argument is laughable.
- Predatory men don’t follow ‘declarations’—they break laws. Meanwhile, trans women (who’ve lived as women for years) are harassed over a 1% edge case. - If safety were the goal, we’d focus on actual threats (cis male violence), not policing minorities.
  1. Provable scientific fact’?
- Science shows trans women’s hormone levels match cis women’s post-transition. Brain studies confirm gender identity is biological. - Your ‘facts’ cherry-pick biology while ignoring its complexity.

Stop pretending this is about safety. It’s about excluding trans people—and your ‘solutions’ would harm far more cis women (especially minorities) than they’d ever ‘protect.’

Verifying sex is about sport, not public spaces. Protecting the integrity of physical competition by verifying the boundaries around it is reasonable.

literallyarabbit · 20/04/2025 16:09

Tandora · 20/04/2025 15:54

Let me try again,

There is the judgement itself.

Then there is the way the judgement is being used and interpreted.

Despite certain posters on here pretending that they already know and understand what this judgement is all about, having fully read it. The fact is that even major legal organisations have not been confident to put out full statements/ interpretations yet. They have all said we need time to go through and analyse/ digest.

The media have already been widely reporting on this judgement in a way which which is misleading . Institutions have already come out and made statements to the effect that they will be responding based on these interpretations.

The judgement has been widely interpreted (on both sides) as effectively banning trans women from all spaces designated for women, and declaring that instead they must used those associated with their biological sex . This is what has incited these protests.

And again for the cheap seats at the back -

Even before the ruling, TW are not allowed in women's single-sex spaces, something many, including India Willoughby, Robin Moira White and others always ignored. The protests are because biological sex has been enshrined in law, not gender.

It's really not that difficult to grasp. Maybe read this

The supreme court has carefully ringfenced protections for women. That’s all we wanted | Sonia Sodha

Last week’s ruling clarified the legal safeguards of the Equality Act. However, it was a travesty that the battle needed to be fought at all

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2025/apr/20/the-supreme-court-has-carefully-ringfenced-protections-for-women-thats-all-we-wanted

PastIsAnotherCountry · 20/04/2025 16:10

Tandora · 20/04/2025 16:06

I’ve read enough of it to know that many of the headlines have been entirely misleading.

I do not yet have a detailed understanding of its full implications. Nor do you despite your bad faith posturing and pretensions on this thread.

The judgement has been widely interpreted by both sides as effectively mandating the exclusion of trans women from all spaces designated for women: I do not believe it actually does this, based on what I have read , however I cannot say for certain as I do not have a detailed understanding of all the legal implications at this moment in time. Nor do you.

Edited

Judging by your performance so far, you could simplify your second sentence to, “I do not have [any] understanding [of the issues]”.

Pleaseshutthefuckup · 20/04/2025 16:10

The life of a trans person matters.
The well being of a trans person matters.
I want trans people, like all people to be free to be as they wish without fear, harassment or distress.

I don't want biological males in female spaces
I don't want the rights and achievements of women in multiple spheres trampled to nothing by men who want to be women
I don't want people losing their jobs or having lives threatened for stating biological facts

Waving stupid placards like trans lives matters is an extension of the insidious collective gaslighting.

The actual real issues we have with accomodating trans women as if they are biological women is nothing to do with our views regarding rights of trans people to exist or just ' be' in peace.

aylis · 20/04/2025 16:11

Minuethippo · 20/04/2025 16:07

Ah yes, the ‘simple cheek swab’—because nothing says ‘women’s rights’ like mandatory DNA testing to access basic public spaces.

  1. Chromosomal tests are scientifically useless here.
- Intersex people (1.7% of the population) exist. XXY, XXX, and other variations mean chromosomes don’t fit your binary. - Even XX women can have naturally high testosterone (common in Black/POC athletes). Should we ban them too?
  1. Your ‘goodwill argument is laughable.
- Predatory men don’t follow ‘declarations’—they break laws. Meanwhile, trans women (who’ve lived as women for years) are harassed over a 1% edge case. - If safety were the goal, we’d focus on actual threats (cis male violence), not policing minorities.
  1. Provable scientific fact’?
- Science shows trans women’s hormone levels match cis women’s post-transition. Brain studies confirm gender identity is biological. - Your ‘facts’ cherry-pick biology while ignoring its complexity.

Stop pretending this is about safety. It’s about excluding trans people—and your ‘solutions’ would harm far more cis women (especially minorities) than they’d ever ‘protect.’

Oh hang on, I missed this part - are we now saying that gender identity IS about female brains? Because earlier we were assured nobody is saying that.

Riaanna · 20/04/2025 16:11

Tandora · 20/04/2025 16:06

I’ve read enough of it to know that many of the headlines have been entirely misleading.

I do not yet have a detailed understanding of its full implications. Nor do you despite your bad faith posturing and pretensions on this thread.

The judgement has been widely interpreted by both sides as effectively mandating the exclusion of trans women from all spaces designated for women: I do not believe it actually does this, based on what I have read , however I cannot say for certain as I do not have a detailed understanding of all the legal implications at this moment in time. Nor do you.

Edited

Can you say for certain the commonality between women and trans women?

Futurehappiness · 20/04/2025 16:11

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 20/04/2025 15:43

Is it apartheid to have separate toilets for men and women?

Wouldn't that mean that most of the world is currently living under apartheid?

I was actually horrified by @Tandora 's reference to 'apartheid'.

The purpose of apartheid/segregation was to ensure the continuing disadvantage of an underprivileged group and deny them full citizenship or participation in society, thereby upholding privilege. That has absolutely nothing in common with the provision a facility or space dedicated exclusively to a vulnerable and underprivileged group - such as women's safe spaces. To call the latter 'apartheid' is so deeply offensive, and not even only to women.

ZebraPyjamas · 20/04/2025 16:11

Tandora · 20/04/2025 14:38

If you insist that transwomen are men , you are denying, erasing their existence as trans people. If you organise society on the basis of that belief , and enforce it, you make it impossible for trans people to live as trans people.

By that logic, calling biological women cis women denies and erases women.

I thought your argument was that trans people want to live as men/women but here you say the goal is for them to live as trans people - nobody is stopping them from doing that.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 20/04/2025 16:12

Tandora · 20/04/2025 15:58

It’s an entirely appropriate label.

Just like when people call Trump a fascist.

What does the politically independent Supreme Court upholding women's sex based rights in the equality legislation enacted by the last Labour government have to do with fascism, or Trump, @Tandora?

KateShugakIsALegend · 20/04/2025 16:12

Minuethippo · 20/04/2025 16:07

Ah yes, the ‘simple cheek swab’—because nothing says ‘women’s rights’ like mandatory DNA testing to access basic public spaces.

  1. Chromosomal tests are scientifically useless here.
- Intersex people (1.7% of the population) exist. XXY, XXX, and other variations mean chromosomes don’t fit your binary. - Even XX women can have naturally high testosterone (common in Black/POC athletes). Should we ban them too?
  1. Your ‘goodwill argument is laughable.
- Predatory men don’t follow ‘declarations’—they break laws. Meanwhile, trans women (who’ve lived as women for years) are harassed over a 1% edge case. - If safety were the goal, we’d focus on actual threats (cis male violence), not policing minorities.
  1. Provable scientific fact’?
- Science shows trans women’s hormone levels match cis women’s post-transition. Brain studies confirm gender identity is biological. - Your ‘facts’ cherry-pick biology while ignoring its complexity.

Stop pretending this is about safety. It’s about excluding trans people—and your ‘solutions’ would harm far more cis women (especially minorities) than they’d ever ‘protect.’

Can you share the link to these studies, please?

As I posted before (but @Tandora chose not to reply), I can't see how my body (periods, pregnancy, birth, hysterectomy, menopause etc) is the same as a transwoman's, and one of the transwomen posters on here agrees with me.

It all feels very Alice in Wonderland to insist that two clearly different things are the same.

GoldenGail · 20/04/2025 16:12

Tandora · 20/04/2025 11:54

The point is that you are completely wrong about that and it is deeply oppressive to try to enforce policies that say so.

Well millions of us and the judges disagree with you

pirateshirt · 20/04/2025 16:13

Minuethippo · 20/04/2025 16:00

cheek swab? So now we’re DNA-testing every woman who doesn’t fit a narrow stereotype? That’s not the win you think it is.

  1. Chromosomes aren’t binary. Intersex people exist (1.7% of the population—same as redheads), and even XX/XY doesn’t always match phenotype. Should we bar XXY women from bathrooms too?
  2. This still targets women of color. Testosterone levels vary naturally by race—Black women average higher T than white women. Your ‘solution’ would flag ciswomen as ‘suspicious.’
  3. Logistically absurd. Are we swabbing schoolgirls? Rape survivors? Grandmas at the public pool?

Stop pretending this is about ‘science.’ It’s about policing women’s bodies—and the ‘tests’ you push would hurt far more cis women than trans ones

Intersex people exist (1.7% of the population—same as redheads),

0.018%

How common is intersex? a response to Anne Fausto-Sterling - PubMed

KateShugakIsALegend · 20/04/2025 16:13

Pleaseshutthefuckup · 20/04/2025 16:10

The life of a trans person matters.
The well being of a trans person matters.
I want trans people, like all people to be free to be as they wish without fear, harassment or distress.

I don't want biological males in female spaces
I don't want the rights and achievements of women in multiple spheres trampled to nothing by men who want to be women
I don't want people losing their jobs or having lives threatened for stating biological facts

Waving stupid placards like trans lives matters is an extension of the insidious collective gaslighting.

The actual real issues we have with accomodating trans women as if they are biological women is nothing to do with our views regarding rights of trans people to exist or just ' be' in peace.

Just this

aylis · 20/04/2025 16:13

Futurehappiness · 20/04/2025 16:11

I was actually horrified by @Tandora 's reference to 'apartheid'.

The purpose of apartheid/segregation was to ensure the continuing disadvantage of an underprivileged group and deny them full citizenship or participation in society, thereby upholding privilege. That has absolutely nothing in common with the provision a facility or space dedicated exclusively to a vulnerable and underprivileged group - such as women's safe spaces. To call the latter 'apartheid' is so deeply offensive, and not even only to women.

It also tries to make women analogous to white people and therefore the group that holds systemic power. Absolutely batshit.

ViolasandViolets · 20/04/2025 16:13

Chromosomal tests are scientifically useless here.
- Intersex people (1.7% of the population) exist. XXY, XXX, and other variations mean chromosomes don’t fit your binary. - Even XX women can have naturally high testosterone (common in Black/POC athletes). Should we ban them too?

Genes on chromosomes determine sex in humans, they don’t define it. Sex is defined across all species by the presence of large immobile gametes and small motile gametes. There are no other gametes so sex is binary. ’Intersex’ or more correctly disorders of sexual development, are sex specific. XXY are male, XXX are female. Cheek swabs don’t need to just test karyotype, they can test genotype too identifying DSDs. Women with high testosterone (ignoring your racis5 comment for now) still do not have testosterone levels anywhere near those of men.

Alondra · 20/04/2025 16:14

Riaanna · 20/04/2025 16:11

Can you say for certain the commonality between women and trans women?

tandora writes many posts but never answers difficult questions.

LookingAtMyBhunas · 20/04/2025 16:14

MyNameIsX · 20/04/2025 14:43

Because they are not women.

I wanted the OP to answer.

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