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Inappropriate behaviour towards my 15 year old daughter

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Jemski39 · 17/04/2025 00:07

Sorry, this probably isn't the correct chat to post but seems to get a lot of traffic and really need advice. My 15 year old daughter has a job as a waitress in a local restaurant. My exh partner knows the owner and got her the job. She told me tonight that she wants to quit, which I am fine with. When she messaged her dad, he was annoyed that she was quitting her job without giving a reason. She became very upset and told me that an older male member of staff there makes her feel really uncomfortable. He asks her questions about her boyfriend and has said things like "don't forget I'm your number one". He has also touched her waist and shoulder numerous times without her consent. She will obviously never be going back there again. But what can I do, if anything? Can I go to the police? I am so upset for her and feel like I've let her down for letting her work there in the first place. I'm going to speak to her dad about it tomorrow.

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Lizahartiga · 26/04/2025 20:34

Really I once was that 15 year old who shouted no extremely loudly and ended up abused on more than one occasion 1 in 2 women have been the victim of assault in this country you must be one of the lucky ones.

Saltandvinegarchipstick · 26/04/2025 21:26

Second thoughts on how SHE reacted? Are you for real?

Timetochillnow · 28/04/2025 11:12

QueefQueen80s · 17/04/2025 17:14

It’s sad how common this is.. teenage boys don’t have to put up with this shit from older women.

I’m afraid they do

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