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‘Adult baby’ dumping their soiled nappies at nurseries

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Peony1897 · 15/04/2025 15:17

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14609809/Adult-baby-diaper-lover-dumping-soiled-nappies-nurseries.html?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR4isT17l9DRFfhCfuCOID-LPbqIS-vsae81UTcA9SxXomJlcyVrfS1ZVg-lVQ_aem_ijbhBrMir7K5T02tpTJNPA#

And guess what..

Is this individual safe to be in public and around children ever again? Willing to bet this comes from the same mental place as paedophilia?! Any psychologists here who can comment? It’s one of the sickest and most bizarre things I’ve ever read!

'Adult baby diaper lover' admits dumping soiled nappies at nurseries

An 'adult diaper lover' terrorised nurseries in Newcastle by dumping soiled nappies outside the gates. Abbi Taylor, 46, also known as Martin Tarling, identities as a woman and sleeps in bins for comfort.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14609809/Adult-baby-diaper-lover-dumping-soiled-nappies-nurseries.html?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR4isT17l9DRFfhCfuCOID-LPbqIS-vsae81UTcA9SxXomJlcyVrfS1ZVg-lVQ_aem_ijbhBrMir7K5T02tpTJNPA#

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IDontHateRainbows · 15/04/2025 19:43

Peony1897 · 15/04/2025 15:27

Yes I know I just didn’t want the thread deleted for misgendering or whatever! I knew you’d all draw your own conclusions!

If misgendering him is wrong, I don't want to be right.

Peony1897 · 15/04/2025 19:45

Does this fall under a sexual crime? Because I think only if it does, he can be put on the sex offenders register? Or is it being dealt with as a criminal damage type thing?

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MrsOvertonsWindow · 15/04/2025 19:46

Daleksatemyshed · 15/04/2025 19:38

To me the trans identity is a smokescreen, people like this weirdo have worked out that they can hide behind the trans rights agenda, then when they're arrested for their excesses they can say they're fragile and only trying to be their authentic self. The trans activists have painted them all into a corner, if saying they're female is enough then they have to accept all the people who say their authentic self is a furry, a child abuser or someone obsessed with nappies.
Some small, very small, part of me feels sorry for this strange little man whose not capable of seeing past their own sexual hangups but I'm much, much more sorry for the people who have to deal with him.
I'm sure there are trans identifying people out there reading the DM who are upset and disgusted that this man is suggesting he's just like them

And I'm sure that the majority of women are upset and disgusted that this man is suggesting he's a woman. And the courts and police go along with his claims to the extent that his lawyers will demand special exemptions for his crimes which will be recorded as a woman's crime.

Take a look at the Sullivan Review's expose of the massive harm that's happened in society because of the corruption of data for crime, health, national stats etc since institutions stopped collecting accurate sex based data:

https://sex-matters.org/posts/updates/why-the-government-must-act-on-the-sullivan-review/

Why the government must act on the Sullivan Review and fix the sex data problem urgently - Sex Matters

Healthcare  Policing Organisations do not understand the law Key recommendations Sex and the Data Bill  The long-awaited report of a review of data, statistics and research on sex and gender commissioned by the government has been published. The 226-pa...

https://sex-matters.org/posts/updates/why-the-government-must-act-on-the-sullivan-review/

BelfastBard · 15/04/2025 19:47

Peony1897 · 15/04/2025 19:45

Does this fall under a sexual crime? Because I think only if it does, he can be put on the sex offenders register? Or is it being dealt with as a criminal damage type thing?

I don’t know that it does fall under a sexual offence. Despite the fact that every one of us knows that it was sexually motivated.

ShockedandStunnedRepeatedly · 15/04/2025 19:47

heathspeedwell · 15/04/2025 19:19

Here's the link to the article. To be clear, this is the official government figures - it's not just a study or an opinion - it's unequivocal fact about the men who identify as women in our prisons.

More than 70 per cent of transgender prisoners are in for sex offences or violent crimes

And this is what needs pushing out into the public awareness.

TheWorminLabyrinth · 15/04/2025 19:48

DaphneduMaureen · 15/04/2025 18:35

RTFT. That’s what the thread is about. It’s the same tedious, boring commentary about women’s prisons, changing rooms and “female spaces”. The OP intended it that way and none of you disappointed.

I have read the entire thread, thank you.

I find it bizarre that you could read about the disgusting acts this man has committed, particularly given that they seem to centre around a place where very vulnerable young children are, and jump on to seemingly defend him.

NC28 · 15/04/2025 19:51

Fucking freak. I can’t say what I wish would happen when it’s relaxing and finding comfort inside one of the industrial bins, MN will ban me if I do.

Depraved cretin that it is. Can’t stand this bullshit society that allows things like that to feel it’s acceptable to behave in this way. Creep.

viques · 15/04/2025 20:03

Screamingabdabz · 15/04/2025 19:37

See I totally disagree. There is no such thing as gender. It is a social construct with no clear definition so I think we should use it interchangeably with biological sex. We need to reclaim it from this fantasyland of ‘gender identity’ and double down that gender and sex relate to the same thing. The binary - male and female.

I agree to an extent. That is how gender/ sex used to be understood, but suddenly the understanding that gender could change was confused by people shouting very loudly “Well , if I change my gender, and my pronouns, that means I can I can change my sex too”, and other people believing them. So I think until that ridiculous idea is pushed out of the window I think it is best to keep them separate.

Daleksatemyshed · 15/04/2025 20:03

It's OK @MrsOvertonsWindow , you'll get no argument from me about the corruption of crime statistics, it's nonsense that so many sexual crimes are being recorded as women's crimes, especially rape. As I said, I don't believe this man is trans, he's using that as a way to try and make his weird behaviour acceptable

BundleBoogie · 15/04/2025 20:12

Dramatic · 15/04/2025 15:38

Yes I think you're right, if he kept this fetish behind closed doors then it wouldn't be akin to paedophilia, still weird AF but I suppose it isn't hurting anyone. But in his case he's actively going near children.

I don’t think it’s as clean as that. According to psychologists, paraphilias tend to cluster, hence his trans identification as well as nappy fetish. If he isn’t an active paedophile atm, I would bet that he is at least fuelling the market for child sex abuse images.

The huge mistake of society and government is to stop us shaming and excluding these men. The number of active participants in ‘LGBTQ’ (and I’m not referring to gay people) activities who have been caught for sex crimes against children is worryingly high.

TheKeatingFive · 15/04/2025 20:13

Daleksatemyshed · 15/04/2025 20:03

It's OK @MrsOvertonsWindow , you'll get no argument from me about the corruption of crime statistics, it's nonsense that so many sexual crimes are being recorded as women's crimes, especially rape. As I said, I don't believe this man is trans, he's using that as a way to try and make his weird behaviour acceptable

But according to the TRA position anyone is trans if they say they are. It would be transphobic to deny this person's identity.

So what would you say makes someone genuinely trans and how can we tell the difference?

theothersideofmidnight · 15/04/2025 20:13

MinistryofThyme · 15/04/2025 15:21

Oh ‘identifies as a woman’. What a fucking surprise.

This. A million times, this.

ArabellaScott · 15/04/2025 20:15

TheIceBear · 15/04/2025 18:14

Definitely shouldn’t be in a women’s prison. Imagine subjecting women in prison to this. Sends a shiver down my spine thinking about it.

He hasn't, as far as we know, committed a violent crime against a woman.

Therefore he may be put in the women's estate if jailed.

BundleBoogie · 15/04/2025 20:15

alloutofcareunits · 15/04/2025 15:49

I posted about this on the feminist board yesterday, it happened really close to where I live. Sentencing will be interesting as apparently they’re too ‘vulnerable’ to be in a male prison 🙄

In this unbelievably mad world he could potentially be placed in a women’s prison that has a mother and baby unit, like at least one male paedophile was and a worrying number of male rapists.

CrazyOldMe · 15/04/2025 20:15

I cannot believe that on a parenting website, there are posters defending a MAN who smeared feces on babies’ milk bottles.

If this is you then please stay away from children. Please.

TheKeatingFive · 15/04/2025 20:18

CrazyOldMe · 15/04/2025 20:15

I cannot believe that on a parenting website, there are posters defending a MAN who smeared feces on babies’ milk bottles.

If this is you then please stay away from children. Please.

I know right.

What the hell? What are people thinking? 🫠

GCAcademic · 15/04/2025 20:26

TheKeatingFive · 15/04/2025 20:18

I know right.

What the hell? What are people thinking? 🫠

It’s not that surprising. They’ve been backed into a corner by their performative professed belief that men are women if they say they are, and don’t like being confronted with the logical consequences of that.

TheKeatingFive · 15/04/2025 20:29

GCAcademic · 15/04/2025 20:26

It’s not that surprising. They’ve been backed into a corner by their performative professed belief that men are women if they say they are, and don’t like being confronted with the logical consequences of that.

Well I hope the progressive cool girl points were worth it

GCAcademic · 15/04/2025 20:35

TheKeatingFive · 15/04/2025 20:29

Well I hope the progressive cool girl points were worth it

Oh, I sense some people get a real high from them, yes.

ChkChkBoom · 15/04/2025 20:43

That's an impressive 5 o'clock shadow she's got, eh.

BundleBoogie · 15/04/2025 20:43

Peony1897 · 15/04/2025 19:45

Does this fall under a sexual crime? Because I think only if it does, he can be put on the sex offenders register? Or is it being dealt with as a criminal damage type thing?

Judges often get quite squeamish about punishing men when a trans identity is involved so he may get the lightest sentence the judge can manage.

There are a number of examples of this happening, confirmed by the judges themselves.

JustSawJohnny · 15/04/2025 20:46

This is why I struggle to get with the 'No kink-shaming' movement.

Where do you draw the line?

Seems like a slippery slop to acceptance of things that are genuinely unacceptable.

NC28 · 15/04/2025 20:46

Agree with other posters that the issue is that we’ve been railroaded (as a society) into accepting these weirdos because “inclusion over everything”.

They should be shunned, ridiculed and shamed by all decent members of society. Zero tolerance for this sort of depraved bullshit.

If you’re a bigot for wanting people like him gone, then I’m happy to be a bigot.

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 15/04/2025 20:49

GCAcademic · 15/04/2025 20:26

It’s not that surprising. They’ve been backed into a corner by their performative professed belief that men are women if they say they are, and don’t like being confronted with the logical consequences of that.

Over on the ‘What threads do you hide’ thread, a few put FWR, because you know it’s full of transphobes who hate trans people (and not women who just don’t want men in spaces and sports where they shouldn’t be, so a male issue not a trans issue), someone actually put as a reason they don’t look/post there - ‘people who are incapable of following the logic of a discussion do my head in’.

LOGIC!! 😂 I would LOVE someone who thinks FWR is just full of trans haters to explain their workings as to why biological males should be allowed to compete in women’s sports, how humans can change sex and why they should be able to be placed in women’s prisons and attend female only rape crisis groups. Logic has been presented as why they shouldn’t, I’m waiting to hear someone explain why they should. I’ve asked often enough. I’ve yet to get any intelligent response apart from ‘you’re anti-trans’.

If logic escapes anyone it’s the ones that believe men can become women.

cramptramp · 15/04/2025 20:49

ArabellaScott · 15/04/2025 20:15

He hasn't, as far as we know, committed a violent crime against a woman.

Therefore he may be put in the women's estate if jailed.

Bloody hell, he’d better not be in a women’s prison. I’d hope that he gets a warm welcome from the inmates of a male prison when they find out what he did.

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