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‘Adult baby’ dumping their soiled nappies at nurseries

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Peony1897 · 15/04/2025 15:17

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14609809/Adult-baby-diaper-lover-dumping-soiled-nappies-nurseries.html?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR4isT17l9DRFfhCfuCOID-LPbqIS-vsae81UTcA9SxXomJlcyVrfS1ZVg-lVQ_aem_ijbhBrMir7K5T02tpTJNPA#

And guess what..

Is this individual safe to be in public and around children ever again? Willing to bet this comes from the same mental place as paedophilia?! Any psychologists here who can comment? It’s one of the sickest and most bizarre things I’ve ever read!

'Adult baby diaper lover' admits dumping soiled nappies at nurseries

An 'adult diaper lover' terrorised nurseries in Newcastle by dumping soiled nappies outside the gates. Abbi Taylor, 46, also known as Martin Tarling, identities as a woman and sleeps in bins for comfort.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14609809/Adult-baby-diaper-lover-dumping-soiled-nappies-nurseries.html?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR4isT17l9DRFfhCfuCOID-LPbqIS-vsae81UTcA9SxXomJlcyVrfS1ZVg-lVQ_aem_ijbhBrMir7K5T02tpTJNPA#

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Hoppinggreen · 15/04/2025 17:37

No, this type of thing never happens
Transfolk just want the freedom to be their authentic selves and not have to put up with LITERAL VIOLENCE (aka facts)
None of them are doing it for the pervy feels, oh no, absoulutely not

TheKeatingFive · 15/04/2025 17:37

I do not know how we have ended up pandering to perverts like this person. What happened to society?

alloutofcareunits · 15/04/2025 17:38

consistentlyinconsistent · 15/04/2025 17:16

You can't actually take Daily Mail stories seriously can you?

The link I posted is from our local newspaper not the Daily Mail, I live in the area where this happened

TheKeatingFive · 15/04/2025 17:39

Hoppinggreen · 15/04/2025 17:37

No, this type of thing never happens
Transfolk just want the freedom to be their authentic selves and not have to put up with LITERAL VIOLENCE (aka facts)
None of them are doing it for the pervy feels, oh no, absoulutely not

I'm sure are genuinely confused and mixed up individuals. But some are much more sinister.

DaphneduMaureen · 15/04/2025 17:40

ShockedandStunnedRepeatedly · 15/04/2025 17:36

The person above going to speak to children ? The rapists and sex offenders in women’s prisons simply because they claim to be women? The list goes on.

There are lots and lots of things that are “unacceptable”. You’re saying that because trans people exist, it is now “acceptable” for a depraved man to throw his soiled nappies in a nursery’s bin. Your post is nonsense.

TheKeatingFive · 15/04/2025 17:41

I'm am so fucking through with a pervert like him being called a 'woman'. I knew long before I saw the picture this isn't a woman.

Iamnotalemming · 15/04/2025 17:42

If this man ends up in a female prison I will be furious.

TheKeatingFive · 15/04/2025 17:43

DaphneduMaureen · 15/04/2025 17:40

There are lots and lots of things that are “unacceptable”. You’re saying that because trans people exist, it is now “acceptable” for a depraved man to throw his soiled nappies in a nursery’s bin. Your post is nonsense.

Not entirely nonsense. Male sex offenders are being incarcerated in women's prisons because they 'identify as women'.

alloutofcareunits · 15/04/2025 17:43

Iamnotalemming · 15/04/2025 17:42

If this man ends up in a female prison I will be furious.

I think there will be some way of him avoiding custody 😡 it’ll be interesting to follow.

Shetlands · 15/04/2025 17:46

If he identifies as a baby then he needs to be looked after 24/7 somewhere secure...

AllrightNowBaby · 15/04/2025 17:49

Fucking weirdo wants locking up ….

ShockedandStunnedRepeatedly · 15/04/2025 17:50

DaphneduMaureen · 15/04/2025 17:40

There are lots and lots of things that are “unacceptable”. You’re saying that because trans people exist, it is now “acceptable” for a depraved man to throw his soiled nappies in a nursery’s bin. Your post is nonsense.

That’s is not what I am saying AT ALL and you know it.

thedancingclown · 15/04/2025 17:53

Are we really helping these men, who claim to women, by going along with their delusions? Really needs help with this fetish behaviour.

DaphneduMaureen · 15/04/2025 17:54

TheKeatingFive · 15/04/2025 17:43

Not entirely nonsense. Male sex offenders are being incarcerated in women's prisons because they 'identify as women'.

Yes but that is nothing to do with this man’s depraved activities. I object to the person saying “this is what happens when you let trans people exist!” because it is a completely separate issue.

TheKeatingFive · 15/04/2025 17:56

DaphneduMaureen · 15/04/2025 17:54

Yes but that is nothing to do with this man’s depraved activities. I object to the person saying “this is what happens when you let trans people exist!” because it is a completely separate issue.

None of this is about letting people 'exist' it is about affirming men when they say they're 'actually women'

ShockedandStunnedRepeatedly · 15/04/2025 17:56

The Poster made a comment about boundaries being eroded and I gave a couple of example. You‘re misrepresenting other people. Your generalising is harmful and disingenuous.

Musclewoman · 15/04/2025 18:02

Dear God....just take me back to the 90s 😭

TheWorminLabyrinth · 15/04/2025 18:02

DaphneduMaureen · 15/04/2025 17:54

Yes but that is nothing to do with this man’s depraved activities. I object to the person saying “this is what happens when you let trans people exist!” because it is a completely separate issue.

Nobody has said that. It's very easy to read back one page.

TheIceBear · 15/04/2025 18:14

Whatifitallgoesright · 15/04/2025 15:55

He absolutely should be in a mens prison. He knew what he was doing and was getting off on it. There is no way he should be in with vulnerable women, put him in with the sex offenders.

Definitely shouldn’t be in a women’s prison. Imagine subjecting women in prison to this. Sends a shiver down my spine thinking about it.

maudlinbrassmonkey · 15/04/2025 18:17

Total pervert. Time for vigilante justice.

ScruffMuffin · 15/04/2025 18:19

That's absolutely disgusting and dangerous for the kids and adults alike, as well as being one of the most disturbing things I've ever read on here. He needs to be locked up for a long time - preferably in a psychiatric hospital.

And I'm not anti-trans. I have encountered a handful of trans individuals through my work and through my teenagers' social circles, and really feel for those than feel confused about their gender. I really don't think this is one of these cases though. He quite obviously presents as a man! Bet he hoped if he was sentenced as a female he would get a lighter sentence or a women's prison.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 15/04/2025 18:20

DaphneduMaureen · 15/04/2025 17:40

There are lots and lots of things that are “unacceptable”. You’re saying that because trans people exist, it is now “acceptable” for a depraved man to throw his soiled nappies in a nursery’s bin. Your post is nonsense.

This man's lawyer calls him a woman. I'd put money on it that his crime has been recorded as being committed by a woman (as the police are so in thrall to transgenderism they've lost all sense). And the sainted NHS will place him on a women's ward.

This is where we are since too many in society lost the ability to say no to men with a fetish and started celebrating them rather than ignoring them.

AgnesX · 15/04/2025 18:24

Ablondiebutagoody · 15/04/2025 15:35

If they identify as a baby, then they are a baby.

Eh?

Dramatic · 15/04/2025 18:28

spannasaurus · 15/04/2025 17:10

Has this been recorded as a crime committed by a woman?

I hadn't thought of that but I bet it has!

SporadicMincePieMuncher · 15/04/2025 18:29

From the Chronicle live link:

"Mr Lane said Taylor is in a relationship with a woman who she helps to live independently."

This bothers me because it makes it sound like this person is a carer, and I strongly doubt their suitability for this role.

"Mr Lane said Taylor was born male but identified as female [...] "The first recorded reference to this within the medical records goes back to 1993." He said identifying as a woman would increase Taylor's vulnerability if she was jailed."

They're angling that Taylor (Tarling) will be too vulnerable to go to prison, and/or needed by somebody who is dependent on them.

To summarise, this person:

  • Dumped soiled adult nappies at Tyneside nurseries (plural), presumably at least three times, since they "pleaded guilty to three counts of depositing controlled waste at the nurseries." Not just one or two, but 50 or 100 at a time.
  • Admitted stealing clinical waste bags from one of the businesses
  • Admitted breaching a criminal behaviour order previously imposed by a Magistrates' Court which banned them from going near nurseries
  • Admitted climbing into bins to "sleep and find comfort"
  • They also smeared excrement on milk bottles and on a fire escape of one of the nurseries

"Myself and staff were coming in finding hundreds of nappies scattered in different coloured bags. It was really unsettling, we never knew what we were going to find."

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