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‘Adult baby’ dumping their soiled nappies at nurseries

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Peony1897 · 15/04/2025 15:17

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14609809/Adult-baby-diaper-lover-dumping-soiled-nappies-nurseries.html?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR4isT17l9DRFfhCfuCOID-LPbqIS-vsae81UTcA9SxXomJlcyVrfS1ZVg-lVQ_aem_ijbhBrMir7K5T02tpTJNPA#

And guess what..

Is this individual safe to be in public and around children ever again? Willing to bet this comes from the same mental place as paedophilia?! Any psychologists here who can comment? It’s one of the sickest and most bizarre things I’ve ever read!

'Adult baby diaper lover' admits dumping soiled nappies at nurseries

An 'adult diaper lover' terrorised nurseries in Newcastle by dumping soiled nappies outside the gates. Abbi Taylor, 46, also known as Martin Tarling, identities as a woman and sleeps in bins for comfort.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14609809/Adult-baby-diaper-lover-dumping-soiled-nappies-nurseries.html?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR4isT17l9DRFfhCfuCOID-LPbqIS-vsae81UTcA9SxXomJlcyVrfS1ZVg-lVQ_aem_ijbhBrMir7K5T02tpTJNPA#

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ShockedandStunnedRepeatedly · 15/04/2025 16:51

I am also concerned about the woman he is “helping”. Disabled woman can be so vulnerable...

VexedofVirginiaWater · 15/04/2025 16:54

BBT213 · 15/04/2025 15:57

How can he identify as a woman when NO self-respecting woman would do this?

Evidently he doesn't identify as a self-respecting woman.😉

VickyEadieofThigh · 15/04/2025 16:59

nomoremsniceperson · 15/04/2025 16:08

This is the sort of story that makes you realise that things like shame and taboos and boundaries and limits are quite good actually

Absolutely right.

Bring back boundaries and taboos.

TimeForATerf · 15/04/2025 16:59

Saw this on X, sometimes (like every couple of weeks) I have to take a break from all this shit because I don’t think my blood pressure and heart can take it. I’m currently on another break until after the FWS and the Supreme Court ruling tomorrow. My nerves are in tatters.

How I long to go back to a simpler time, where sex was exciting just the way it was, and the only way of getting hold of pornography was the top shelf at the newsagents.

Seventree · 15/04/2025 17:03

He sounds incredibly unwell and too potentially dangerous to be out in the community. He has already caused members of the public harm by scaring them and leaving his bodily fluids for them to deal with 🤢. Surely he meets the criteria to be sectioned?

BMW6 · 15/04/2025 17:05

Peony1897 · 15/04/2025 16:07

I wonder if that’s where he got the nappies? Acting in some kind of caring role?

You can get adult nappies from Boots, supermarkets, chemists........

Leafstamp · 15/04/2025 17:06

VickyEadieofThigh · 15/04/2025 16:59

Absolutely right.

Bring back boundaries and taboos.

Speaking of taboos, I hope we soon reach the day when it is not taboo to openly state all the very obvious links between a so called trans identity and other issues, whether that is being a troubled ASD child or a being depraved and disgusting, likely porn addled middle aged bloke like this nasty individual.

spannasaurus · 15/04/2025 17:10

Has this been recorded as a crime committed by a woman?

SwanOfThoseThings · 15/04/2025 17:12

This individual was in court in January 2024 for the same thing - I remember the thread, which is here - www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/4989262-woman-in-court-for-dumping-soiled-adult-nappies-at-nurseries**

consistentlyinconsistent · 15/04/2025 17:16

You can't actually take Daily Mail stories seriously can you?

hotpotlover · 15/04/2025 17:18

Sick.

He doesn't gain comfort from it.

He gains sexual gratification from it.

And he's not a woman.

This is a very male crime.

ShockedandStunnedRepeatedly · 15/04/2025 17:20

consistentlyinconsistent · 15/04/2025 17:16

You can't actually take Daily Mail stories seriously can you?

Don’t be so naive. It’s gone way beyond that.

myplace · 15/04/2025 17:20

consistentlyinconsistent · 15/04/2025 17:16

You can't actually take Daily Mail stories seriously can you?

In what way? Can you explain what you mean?

nauticant · 15/04/2025 17:22

It's like when the Daily Mail led the campaign for delayed justice for Stephen Lawrence. We should have all ignored that apparently.

Peony1897 · 15/04/2025 17:23

TimeForATerf · 15/04/2025 16:59

Saw this on X, sometimes (like every couple of weeks) I have to take a break from all this shit because I don’t think my blood pressure and heart can take it. I’m currently on another break until after the FWS and the Supreme Court ruling tomorrow. My nerves are in tatters.

How I long to go back to a simpler time, where sex was exciting just the way it was, and the only way of getting hold of pornography was the top shelf at the newsagents.

I don’t blame you at all, just reading the article I felt my blood pressure go up. I think it’s the feeling of powerlessness - that we as decent people/women are forced to live alongside these depraved sickos whether we like it or not, with the court probably issuing some kind of arbitrary punishment which deals with the individual (sort of) but ultimately nothing is ever done about the issue as a whole

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Flopsy145 · 15/04/2025 17:23

Such a waste of air and resources, literally brings no benefit to this earth. Depraved perve

Hwi · 15/04/2025 17:24

TallulahBetty · 15/04/2025 16:03

You knew what I meant. Man thinks he is woman.

I often wonder, if all those who think that they are women, let us imagine for a second, were asked 'are you a woman' in the following scenario. Say, they are admitted to A&E in an instance of some new, lethal disease and there are two distinct ways to save them - a male portion of a new drug and a female portion of a new drug and the doctor says 'you have to tell me if you are a man or a woman and I shall administer the right portion, but if you tell me the wrong information, it will kill you, the wrong portion will kill you'. I wonder how many would say 'give me a woman's portion'.

myplace · 15/04/2025 17:25

I’m trying to imagine the sad history the judge is referring to. I imagine it involves severe neglect in childhood and perhaps abuse. Many severely neglected children gain comfort from the familiarity of the smell of urine.

However as an adult you have to take responsibility for your adult choices. Whatever you may find comforting, you do not get to involve other people in it. You do not get to commit crimes, to make yourself feel better.

Overtheatlantic · 15/04/2025 17:25

What the hell happens to some people to make them like this?

DuesToTheDirt · 15/04/2025 17:33

alloutofcareunits · 15/04/2025 15:49

I posted about this on the feminist board yesterday, it happened really close to where I live. Sentencing will be interesting as apparently they’re too ‘vulnerable’ to be in a male prison 🙄

Yeah, bollocks to that! Vulnerable, indeed. Hmm

moto748e · 15/04/2025 17:33

consistentlyinconsistent · 15/04/2025 17:16

You can't actually take Daily Mail stories seriously can you?

Are you saying that posters here are a bunch of naive saps who are prepared to believe any old pack of lies printed by the Daily Mail?

DaphneduMaureen · 15/04/2025 17:34

scorpiogirly · 15/04/2025 15:22

This is what happens when society becomes accepting of everything. People push and push the boundaries until nothing becomes unacceptable.

Can you give an example where that is true?

ShockedandStunnedRepeatedly · 15/04/2025 17:36

DaphneduMaureen · 15/04/2025 17:34

Can you give an example where that is true?

The person above going to speak to children ? The rapists and sex offenders in women’s prisons simply because they claim to be women? The list goes on.

Peony1897 · 15/04/2025 17:36

I don’t read the DM but saw this in my news feed on FB so clicked on it. It’s reported elsewhere. I think some of the lefter leaning papers are under pressure not to ‘draw too much attention’ to these cases.

I’m willing bet this is a far bigger problem than only the individuals reported on. They’re reported on as they’re actively engaging in the behaviour but I’m willing to bet there is a seedy underworld where many men enjoy videos etc of these behaviours because they’re not at the stage of dipping their own toes in.

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