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‘Adult baby’ dumping their soiled nappies at nurseries

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Peony1897 · 15/04/2025 15:17

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14609809/Adult-baby-diaper-lover-dumping-soiled-nappies-nurseries.html?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR4isT17l9DRFfhCfuCOID-LPbqIS-vsae81UTcA9SxXomJlcyVrfS1ZVg-lVQ_aem_ijbhBrMir7K5T02tpTJNPA#

And guess what..

Is this individual safe to be in public and around children ever again? Willing to bet this comes from the same mental place as paedophilia?! Any psychologists here who can comment? It’s one of the sickest and most bizarre things I’ve ever read!

'Adult baby diaper lover' admits dumping soiled nappies at nurseries

An 'adult diaper lover' terrorised nurseries in Newcastle by dumping soiled nappies outside the gates. Abbi Taylor, 46, also known as Martin Tarling, identities as a woman and sleeps in bins for comfort.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14609809/Adult-baby-diaper-lover-dumping-soiled-nappies-nurseries.html?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR4isT17l9DRFfhCfuCOID-LPbqIS-vsae81UTcA9SxXomJlcyVrfS1ZVg-lVQ_aem_ijbhBrMir7K5T02tpTJNPA#

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TallulahBetty · 15/04/2025 16:03

viques · 15/04/2025 15:59

His gender isn’t the issue, he can call himself whatever gender he wants, but his sex is male, always has been, always will be, and from the look of him he doesn’t make much of an effort to even pretend that he is a woman.

You knew what I meant. Man thinks he is woman.

BassesAreBest · 15/04/2025 16:03

Hwi · 15/04/2025 15:45

I wonder if it started with 'exploring' and 'pushing boundaries' with no subsequent six of the best?

Surely that would have just taken his fetish in a different direction?

Hwi · 15/04/2025 16:05

BassesAreBest · 15/04/2025 16:03

Surely that would have just taken his fetish in a different direction?

Oops, you are right. Very clever! I did not think of that, apologies!

myplace · 15/04/2025 16:06

This has been constant for years. This happened in May23, in April23 he was given some kind of sanction by a Nottingham magistrate court. There were incidents being back to 2019.

He isn’t going to stop, is he? Just find alternative outlets.
I’m concerned about the woman he’s helping to ‘live independently’.

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 15/04/2025 16:06

viques · 15/04/2025 15:59

His gender isn’t the issue, he can call himself whatever gender he wants, but his sex is male, always has been, always will be, and from the look of him he doesn’t make much of an effort to even pretend that he is a woman.

Someone will be along soon to accuse you of being a big anti-trans bigot and to get back to FWR for having such an abhorrent view, aka, stating the obvious.

Hwi · 15/04/2025 16:06

TallulahBetty · 15/04/2025 16:03

You knew what I meant. Man thinks he is woman.

Come on, he does not THINK he is a woman, he is, like all of them, taking the piss.

Peony1897 · 15/04/2025 16:07

myplace · 15/04/2025 16:06

This has been constant for years. This happened in May23, in April23 he was given some kind of sanction by a Nottingham magistrate court. There were incidents being back to 2019.

He isn’t going to stop, is he? Just find alternative outlets.
I’m concerned about the woman he’s helping to ‘live independently’.

I wonder if that’s where he got the nappies? Acting in some kind of caring role?

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nomoremsniceperson · 15/04/2025 16:08

This is the sort of story that makes you realise that things like shame and taboos and boundaries and limits are quite good actually

Dramatic · 15/04/2025 16:09

myplace · 15/04/2025 15:59

@Dramatic As I understand it, when it gets in the way of more typical functioning, or involves other people without consent.

So being a boob man, or a leg man, doesn’t get in the way of having a healthy consensual relationship. Only having sex with breastfeeding women, not so much.
Involving someone without their consent, or stealing their underwear, or needing them to wear particular clothes before you can function, not so much.

Thanks, makes sense. There's some weirdos out there.

CoffeeCantata · 15/04/2025 16:10

scorpiogirly · 15/04/2025 15:22

This is what happens when society becomes accepting of everything. People push and push the boundaries until nothing becomes unacceptable.

I agree.

Healthy societies have boundaries!

Tolerance - yes. Understanding, yes...but 'absolutely anything goes?' No.

heathspeedwell · 15/04/2025 16:12

I think these men are often porn addled and that makes it far more likely that one paraphilia will overlap with lots of others. There's an 'artist' who calls himself Sophie Labelle who has made cartoons which illustrate the cross over between cross-dressing, nappy wearing, being a 'minor attracted person' and enjoying 'mucky play' - part of which involves these men filling the nappies they are wearing next to unsuspecting victims who are forced to smell the results.

Fury as transgender cartoonist who claims to have fetish for nappy art is set to speak to children | Daily Mail Online

Transgender cartoonist with nappy art fetish set to speak to children

A transgender cartoonist who makes fetish art of furry creatures in nappies has sparked controversy after being booked by a library in Sheffield to give a talk to children.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-11779731/Fury-transgender-cartoonist-claims-fetish-nappy-art-set-speak-children.html

dogsandcatsandhorses · 15/04/2025 16:13

Peony1897 · 15/04/2025 16:07

I wonder if that’s where he got the nappies? Acting in some kind of caring role?

Or the reverse. He did that type of job because he gets off on changing adult nappies.

gotmyknickersinatwist · 15/04/2025 16:15

TallulahBetty · 15/04/2025 16:03

You knew what I meant. Man thinks he is woman.

Man who claims he is or claims to feel he is a woman. I don't reckon he actually thinks he is a woman at all.

myplace · 15/04/2025 16:16

Bring back boundaries!?! How very regressive!

I was watching a drama based on a long fantasy saga recently. All the characters were apparently bisexual. So many, that it devalued the set ups where same sex relationships were an intrinsic part of a particular society. It had been an interesting element of that society’s culture, but is just portrayed as one of many choices across the board in the current televising of it. Lots of throuples too.

alcoholnightmare · 15/04/2025 16:17

I’d have been ready with a pressure washer

scorpiogirly · 15/04/2025 16:19

heathspeedwell · 15/04/2025 16:12

I think these men are often porn addled and that makes it far more likely that one paraphilia will overlap with lots of others. There's an 'artist' who calls himself Sophie Labelle who has made cartoons which illustrate the cross over between cross-dressing, nappy wearing, being a 'minor attracted person' and enjoying 'mucky play' - part of which involves these men filling the nappies they are wearing next to unsuspecting victims who are forced to smell the results.

Fury as transgender cartoonist who claims to have fetish for nappy art is set to speak to children | Daily Mail Online

Oh my God! Wtf is this? The sad thing is, a load of drippy parents will be taking their kids along. Gross.

Goody2ShoesAndTheFilthyBeast · 15/04/2025 16:20

Forcing people to be part of your sick fetish against their will is disgusting. Nothing will convince me he isn't targeting nurseries because he gets off on involving children in his fetish.

And now we've got another one seeking out children in order to share this same fetish with them.

This world is getting more and more fucked up daily.

Shitmonger · 15/04/2025 16:23

Peony1897 · 15/04/2025 15:55

Why does this not surprise me. I would also be intrigued as to the most common ‘common’ paraphilia, sadly I think I already know.

As I recall, statistically speaking the most common paraphilia for men is hurting women. Sadly not surprising to anyone, I suspect.

viques · 15/04/2025 16:23

TallulahBetty · 15/04/2025 16:03

You knew what I meant. Man thinks he is woman.

Yes I knew what you meant. But a lot of people get very confused about the difference between gender and sex. Not least because certain groups like to confuse the issue because it suits their agenda to make what is something actually very simple, and fixed, appear not to be.

Gender is a social construct, you can call yourself any gender or gender variant you want, but it doesn’t change your sex.

Sex is biological, fixed at conception, we are mammals so for us ( like the overwhelming majority of life forms on our planet) sex is binary, you are either male or female. Ask Professor Lord Robert Winston, he is very clear about this!

So I think it is important to be very clear what is meant when the words gender and sex are used descriptively, they are not interchangeable.

( The nonsense about “intersex” needs mentioning too, when people with indeterminate external genitalia (DSD) are examined on a cellular level they are found to have XX or XY chromosomes. If there is a Y in the mix then however much you might not want to be , you are biologically male. There are a whole heap of chromosomal differences, many of which are extremely rare, but by and large this is the way it works. )

MinnieCauldwell · 15/04/2025 16:24

Goody2ShoesAndTheFilthyBeast · 15/04/2025 16:20

Forcing people to be part of your sick fetish against their will is disgusting. Nothing will convince me he isn't targeting nurseries because he gets off on involving children in his fetish.

And now we've got another one seeking out children in order to share this same fetish with them.

This world is getting more and more fucked up daily.

It's not the world getting fucked up though. It's men, they just seem to be behind every fucking thing that is wrong with this world currently.

viques · 15/04/2025 16:28

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 15/04/2025 16:06

Someone will be along soon to accuse you of being a big anti-trans bigot and to get back to FWR for having such an abhorrent view, aka, stating the obvious.

🙂

UrsulasHerbBag · 15/04/2025 16:28

What really shocks me is that I’m not shocked anymore.

Iwannakeepondancing · 15/04/2025 16:34

WTF have I read. He needs shooting.

lifeonmars100 · 15/04/2025 16:45

FeedTheRoses · 15/04/2025 15:52

This is what secure psychiatric wards were invented for .

No they are not. I used to work on one and they are for people who are severely mentally unwell and in crisis. It could happen to any of us and who would want to have to share space with this pervert? He will have some sort of personality disorder as well as god only knows what fetishes. Highly anti-social and more than likely a risk to others but not someone who appears to be currently psychotic.

Helleborer · 15/04/2025 16:51

I guessed it before even clicking on the thread.

Stunning and brave.