Was my new boyfriend disrespectful or misplaced humour - incident during sex

[Amz98]

A bit grossed out by something my BF of about 4 months did last night. We have a really jokey relationship but I think he crossed the line.

We were being intimate and he let out a really exaggerated fart then burst out laughing. He obviously meant to do it and thought I’d find it funny. I stopped what we were doing as the mood was gone and it stunk. He said sorry after but I feel like even with a jokey relationship, that’s going too far?

I would have found it funny and done vomiting sounds but only because we are together 3.5 years. For the first year he would jump out of bed and go in the corner to fart or in another room. Now if we were doing 69 I would just laugh but it would spoil the moment a bit but I wouldn’t be angry.

I been with my husband for 7 years, I would not find it funny if he farted in my face during sex...

Every lid has a pot I suppose...

OP, maybe his ex girlfriend found it funny and they would fart and make puking noises together during sex?

Throw this one back OP. Level of disrespect is huge.

It ‘s just a fart. Childish but that’s about it.

Oh that changes it. I read it as you just laying in bed and he let one out. That’s gross and crude and massively disrespectful. It would put me off him.

Is he 12.

So he deliberately forced his nasty poo gasses into your face?! That’s fucking disgusting and not at all funny. Does he often demean you as a joke?

On purpose though - seriously? Yuk

Farts are funny but that's too far. I'd be put off for life.

Hope not or else that is a WHOLE other thread ...

Disrespectful and disgusting. I’d be so angry and revolted.

No man has ever felt relaxed enough around me to let out a fart!

So he did it on purpose? That is vile.

PP saying that real sex isn't TV sex... Sure. Accidents happen.

But to be so disgusting on purpose and think it's funny is juvenile, gross and awkward.

Good lord OP, you really need to ask.
That is so grim and disgusting.

😂

id be really grossed out by that. Im practical about farting, in that i understand everyone does it, and I dont care if dh farts in front of me by accident, but I dont find it funny either.
I would find it extremely disrespectful to do what he did during sex

actually just read that it was during 69.

Id dump him. Would never ever want to do anything with him sexually or romantically again. No coming back from that. What a pig

Nope, that’s absolutely vile. I wouldn’t put up with someone farting in my presence (take yourself to the bathroom ffs) and I certainly would never again slew with someone who farted purposefully in my face. He’s an absolute pig.

Me either! I definitely give off no farting allowed vibes.

You need a higher bar. Ick indeed.

That's SO minging and disrespectful! What a mood killer.

She's got a "higher bar"....that's why she was put off and posted about it!

He did it on purpose while you were in that position!!!! foul, not funny at all

Fucking grim, and this is only 4 months in.

Vile. I would never be able to look at someone the same way again.