Email from my ex husband...

[Arlanymor]

Dear Arlanymor, sincerely hope you are well. I need to know the date of our wedding because I have to fill in an X form. Are you able to remember please? Best regards, Ex Wanker.

Sent to my WORK email. Which means he had to look it up online.

I divorced him for adultery nearly two decades ago now. Also the clue is in 'our wedding' isn't it? You were there on the day dickhead. We haven't been in contact since 2019 when he kept coming up as having looked at my profile on LinkedIn and I got in touch via their messenger to ask him not to.

This has got me so angry. "Oh Arlanymor - do me a favour please? Even though I am a cheating arsehole and should be able to fill in forms without bothering/the assistance of my ex-wife." The date is on the decree absolute you absolute toilet goblin.

FUMING. FUMING. FUMING.

I’d respond with.

‘I have absolutely no idea! It’s a day I’ve deliberately forgotten!!’

I see you’ve replied. Well done.

OP, like some others I cannot understand so many nasty posts when it is patently obvious he's a CF trying to use you as a PA and many would just be irritated by being reminded the prick is still breathing!
You were very gracious not telling him to simply Fxxk off.

Good grief. He can't remember the date that he got married? Sounds like you are well shot of him!

I thought of your thread when my ex husband contact me today asking me for my address. I still lived in the same house that we build together and where he lived for 18 years and where he comes every second weekend to pick and drop the children. What a plonker. How can you forget where you lived for most of your adult live!!!

Delete, ignore, repeat if necessary.

If he needs the information with any urgency he will magically find a way to obtain it without involving you.

It’s actually quite creepy when you think of the effort he’s gone to find you.

And yet, people still think you owe him a response.

You're right, the prick is big and ugly enough to sort his own life out, im assuming he was at the wedding too? If he can't remember thats his problem, either give him wrong date, say sorry I don't remember or just delete! 😁