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CousinBob · 07/03/2025 22:59

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steff13 · 07/03/2025 23:02

Yikes. He emailed the other teachers to apologize before he did it?! Horrible.

WilmaTitsDrop · 07/03/2025 23:02

Blimey that's absolutely shocking OP.

Those poor kids too who witnessed it.

sprigatito · 07/03/2025 23:02

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Why does she need to be trying to "help anyone?" Confused It happened at her child's school, maybe she is feeling unsettled about it and fancied a chat? That is what MN is for. The case is in the public domain, it's not a secret.

WilmaTitsDrop · 07/03/2025 23:03

Why are some people being weird?

Why shouldn't the OP post about it? 😳

nocoolnamesleft · 07/03/2025 23:03

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Katemax82 · 07/03/2025 23:05

At 2 of my kids primary schools their were senior teachers (a headteacher in kne and deputy in the other) sacked for having indecent images of children on their computers..then in my sons special independent asd school a p.e teacher got fired for being a paedophile..they are bloody everywhere these awful people

Bluh · 07/03/2025 23:06

Katemax82 · 07/03/2025 23:05

At 2 of my kids primary schools their were senior teachers (a headteacher in kne and deputy in the other) sacked for having indecent images of children on their computers..then in my sons special independent asd school a p.e teacher got fired for being a paedophile..they are bloody everywhere these awful people

People or men?

Chuchoter · 07/03/2025 23:06

How awful for his own children to not only lose their father whilst he is jailed but also to learn he was cheating on their mother and involved with a woman from work who was also involved with another man at work!

What a sordid mess of his own making and I hope he gets a lengthy prison sentence.

Katemax82 · 07/03/2025 23:08

Bluh · 07/03/2025 23:06

People or men?

Men..I mean there's people who do awful things everywhere it seems..I just hope it doesn't happen in my daughters secondary school

chocmalt · 07/03/2025 23:11

Well, I find it interesting, so I guess it's 'helped' me. 🙄I suppose we're supposed to keep these things hush-hush, so as not to harm his future prospects.

Bluh · 07/03/2025 23:14

@chocmalt he's going away for a long time. I’m not sure he has future prospects. Op just wanted the ‘thrill’ of being connected to some drama.

or maybe she’s his wife.

ilovesooty · 07/03/2025 23:20

sprigatito · 07/03/2025 23:02

Why does she need to be trying to "help anyone?" Confused It happened at her child's school, maybe she is feeling unsettled about it and fancied a chat? That is what MN is for. The case is in the public domain, it's not a secret.

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The article also says that it's hoped that investigations can continue without speculation. Putting it on a discussion board will surely encourage speculation.

Saphire123 · 07/03/2025 23:21

Sarnpark · 07/03/2025 22:57

This was at my child's school. I am so shocked that a headteacher would do this in front of students

Apologies for the Dailyfail link: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14472907/headteacher-admits-attacking-deputy-spanner-pupils.html

It's very shocking.
I hope your child, and the other pupils can talk to someone about this if they are disturbed by what they saw.

ilovesooty · 07/03/2025 23:21

Katemax82 · 07/03/2025 23:05

At 2 of my kids primary schools their were senior teachers (a headteacher in kne and deputy in the other) sacked for having indecent images of children on their computers..then in my sons special independent asd school a p.e teacher got fired for being a paedophile..they are bloody everywhere these awful people

There's no suggestion that this man is a paedophile.

sprigatito · 07/03/2025 23:25

The judge didn't impose reporting restrictions and the case is in the national press @ilovesooty, so avoiding speculation is clearly a vain hope 🤷🏻‍♀️

People have the right to discuss current affairs, news stories and events that touch their own lives. We even have discussion forums designed to facilitate that very thing.

ilovesooty · 07/03/2025 23:27

avoiding speculation is clearly a vain hope

Evidently.

healthybychristmas · 07/03/2025 23:37

The female teacher is going to find it very difficult to keep her job isn't she??

RightOnTheEdge · 08/03/2025 00:04

News articles are discussed on MN all the time. There are no reporting restrictions and he's pleaded guilty.
Why are people being so weird about this?
Why does the OP have to be helping anyone? It's a shocking thing that happened at her kids' school. It's natural to want to discuss it, surely.

keyboardtypo · 08/03/2025 00:21

And this is why teachers get a bad rap!

In all seriousness though OP how awful for the kids.

keyboardtypo · 08/03/2025 00:22

How will you posting this help anyone?

are you part of the love triangle

Happyinarcon · 08/03/2025 00:26

My friend is a teacher and was assaulted by a deputy head. I don’t think there were students around though. Our schools are going batshit crazy, students are bullying students and teachers are scapegoating and bullying each other. Homeschool all the way

OneAquaFatball · 08/03/2025 00:29

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Emphasising shock at one part of a situation doesn't mean the shock wouldn't exist without it