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Captain Toms daughter

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sourgrapes45 · 07/03/2025 08:22

Is currently getting her arse handed to her by Judge Rinder on Good Morning Britain...

She is not coming across well.

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TorroFerney · 07/03/2025 09:43

LadyKenya · 07/03/2025 09:40

Why should she? When she is just adding more money to her rather well stuffed nest.

Exactly this, she’s making loads of money that’s all she is bothered about . We are thinking she feels shame like we do, she’s convinced herself she’s owed it.

oakleaffy · 07/03/2025 09:46

Mightymoog · 07/03/2025 08:56

I was pissing myself when people were going along with that family of grifters.
People lost their minds in covid.

I remember the first early nights of covid, when an old boy was ''walking for the NHS''...He had raised a few thousands at that point, and I sent a £10 thinking he was a Veteran and doing good-
I had NO IDEA about his grifting daughter, otherwise I'd have given the £10 to JR Whippet Rescue!

TizerorFizz · 07/03/2025 09:47

He didn't set up the charity though. She and her DH did. That places them in a different position. He obviously co operated. It was a decent enough idea if properly run but he should never have been a Sir. Hardly given his life to charitable work,

oakleaffy · 07/03/2025 09:51

BrownPapery · 07/03/2025 09:40

I think a lot of people projected a lot of feelings onto him- about our own elderly relatives in particular (at a time when we couldn’t see them) but also about our nostalgic view of the past. He was just a bloke, slightly dodgy (as lots of people are), happy to benefit from the grey area between what was being donated to the charity and what was going into his own metaphorical pocket. His daughter’s the same but you face a bit more scrutiny when you’re not 100 years old and benefiting from the whole country’s projected feelings about their own grandparents.

Absolutely this, @BrownPapery . We {like most people in UK} have had old Veterans in our families, WW1, WW2 that were of that generation.
I didn't realise that he himself was ''slightly dodgy'' but looking back , the parading with zimmer and a suit and medals was part of the act- he wasn't walking in his casual clothes, it was done for show.

Coffeeishot · 07/03/2025 09:51

The knighthood was absolutely bonkers the worst thing though was his song with Michael Ball it was just awful, i just think Tom just got swept along in it i don't think he was a "grifter" like his Dd and son in law.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 07/03/2025 09:52

@MrsBennetsPoorNerves No way!! Who would want to read the autobiography of this nobody.

Chapter 1: Forced dad to do laps round the lawn to get him out from under my feet.
Chapter 2: Raised lots of money.
Chapter 3 Pocketed lots of money.
Chapter 4: Waved at the lesser mortals at Wimbledon like the Queen of Sheba.
Chapter 5: Got my arse handed to me and it's not fair. Everyone's so mean.

Hazeby · 07/03/2025 09:55

ItShouldntHappenToMeYet · 07/03/2025 09:01

Lordy, I hadn't realised so many copies were sold!

Fastest selling non-fiction book.

You don’t have to like someone to be curious about their life experiences, it’s not mutually exclusive.

Viviennemary · 07/03/2025 09:56

sourgrapes45 · 07/03/2025 08:25

Rob Rinder is barely containing his contempt for her.

On one hand I do feel a bit sorry for her, her reputation is in tatters and she looks very meek and uncomfortable. But she obviously is a dodgy character.

I only saw a clip. What she did was dreadful and will put folk off from giving to that kind of fund raising.

headstone · 07/03/2025 10:00

It was obvious to me it was all a grift during their carribean freebee holiday when covid cases were starting to rise again. To be fair to Tom he looked very uncomfortable in his suit and mendals during the posed holiday photos. Sending a 100 year old man on a long haul flight because the daughter wanted a free holiday seemed really cruel to me.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 07/03/2025 10:00

God I'd forgotten how much they rang him dry with the merch. Including this random. I mean did CT even drink gin, did he like it? Who cares get his image on a bottle and get it flogged for £100!

Captain Toms daughter
Serpentstooth · 07/03/2025 10:04

Autobiography? Er, Mrs Tom, people will have to want to buy it. I think you may have missed the bus.

REP22 · 07/03/2025 10:06

I have no sympathy for her. I also wonder about Captain Tom's other daughter, never seen. It's a common theme with elderly parents (see the MN Cockroach Cafe threads) that there is a goldenballs sibling who dominates and isolates an elderly/vulnerable parent in order to control the wealth and access, to the detriment of other siblings. I hope that's not what happened here, but it fits the pattern.

Even if that's not the case, I do feel sorry for the other sister, having her dad's name tarnished and exploited by her own sister and brother-in-law, and seeing them rehashing it all yet again.

NebulousDogBollocking · 07/03/2025 10:11

You don’t have to like someone to be curious about their life experiences, it’s not mutually exclusive.

Indeed. We're not all tuning in to this thread to share our heart warming thoughts on dear, kind Hannah Ingram Moore, are we.

Having said that, it doesn't sit comfortably with me that she is getting all the hate. As PPs have mentioned, her father was not all sweetness and light either and there will be others who have benefited from the money donated in good faith so it's worth remembering she was not acting alone.

Boodahh · 07/03/2025 10:11

Haven't seen Rob Rinder having a go, but I read the article about her yesterday. Her defense seemed to be a regret that she'd set up the charity in her father's name, in other words if she'd called it something else it would have all been ok,😒.
And repeating that her father wanted the family to benefit from the book.
Didn't come across at all that she was apologetic for her and her husband's actions.

Mightymoog · 07/03/2025 10:13

BrownPapery · 07/03/2025 09:40

I think a lot of people projected a lot of feelings onto him- about our own elderly relatives in particular (at a time when we couldn’t see them) but also about our nostalgic view of the past. He was just a bloke, slightly dodgy (as lots of people are), happy to benefit from the grey area between what was being donated to the charity and what was going into his own metaphorical pocket. His daughter’s the same but you face a bit more scrutiny when you’re not 100 years old and benefiting from the whole country’s projected feelings about their own grandparents.

If people were relating to him as they couldn't see their own family then more fool them both for falling for it and being daft enough not to see their own family

JudgeJ · 07/03/2025 10:14

sourgrapes45 · 07/03/2025 08:25

Rob Rinder is barely containing his contempt for her.

On one hand I do feel a bit sorry for her, her reputation is in tatters and she looks very meek and uncomfortable. But she obviously is a dodgy character.

Why do you feel sorry for her? Her reputation is in tatters through her own actions, looking meek and uncomfortable are the skills of any petty actress.

JudgeJ · 07/03/2025 10:16

NebulousDogBollocking · 07/03/2025 10:11

You don’t have to like someone to be curious about their life experiences, it’s not mutually exclusive.

Indeed. We're not all tuning in to this thread to share our heart warming thoughts on dear, kind Hannah Ingram Moore, are we.

Having said that, it doesn't sit comfortably with me that she is getting all the hate. As PPs have mentioned, her father was not all sweetness and light either and there will be others who have benefited from the money donated in good faith so it's worth remembering she was not acting alone.

Loving all the sympathy for her, I wonder if it would have been the same had he had a son who cheated like she has, or is it the usual MN standpoint that a woman can't be wrong?

TheignT · 07/03/2025 10:20

AreYouTheFarmer2025 · 07/03/2025 09:05

Throwing her late dad under the bus.😱

Did you see the side eye Rob gave Hannah when Kate thanked her for coming on. He hates her lol.

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That isn't very professional though is it. I think he's very pompous.

SonoPazziQuestiRomani · 07/03/2025 10:21

oakleaffy · 07/03/2025 09:51

Absolutely this, @BrownPapery . We {like most people in UK} have had old Veterans in our families, WW1, WW2 that were of that generation.
I didn't realise that he himself was ''slightly dodgy'' but looking back , the parading with zimmer and a suit and medals was part of the act- he wasn't walking in his casual clothes, it was done for show.

The whole "Captain Tom" thing was the DD's idea apparently - it taps in to the nation's nostalgia for the war (particularly as we'd just had the 75th anniversary of VE Day in 2020). The public loves a little old man in a suit and medals. Yes, the bloke was a veteran but so was pretty much everyone else's grandad if they were that generation! He left the army after the war so it's not even though he spent a whole career in the military...

Boodahh · 07/03/2025 10:25

kellygoeswest · 07/03/2025 09:15

I still can't believe she went to Barbados with him in December 2020 (while most people were still in some form of lockdown) only for him to pass away from covid less than 6 weeks after returning. The whole thing was opportunistic and she deserves the backlash. I just don't know why she's still going.

Absolutely. My grandad made it to a similar age, but the thought of dragging him on a long haul flight at all, nevermind during covid would have been absolutely ludicrous.

AreYouTheFarmer2025 · 07/03/2025 10:25

TheignT · 07/03/2025 10:20

That isn't very professional though is it. I think he's very pompous.

I think he's great. Glad someone says it as it is and stopped pussyfooting around the issues. Can imagine if it was Kate just there doing the interview. She'd be declaring her undying love for her 🤮😬🙄

BustingBaoBun · 07/03/2025 10:27

It’s a shame that this is what people remember of the CTF and not how it lifted people’s spirits during a very difficult time,

It didn't lift my spirits in the slightest. Me and my adult DCs quietly voiced between us that there was something wrong with all of this. We had to keep that to ourselves though. And I massively blame the BBC for giving the whole thing so much airtime, every bloody morning, there they were.
There were plenty of other people doing some wonderful fundraising for the NHS , they didn't get a look in because of this family.

She's got a nerve doubling down. Yes, why doesn't she donate the £££££££ she made from the book for the 'mistake' of her father saying it was his chance to raise more money in the foreward.

TootingLido · 07/03/2025 10:27

BrownPapery · 07/03/2025 09:16

The whole thing was a bit of a grift from the start and I include Captain Tom. The fact that the nation collectively lost its mind over some bloke walking up and down was just an effect of lockdown. From then on it was really just a freebie jamboree, including the free holiday that ended up killing him.

Now the collective delusion is that he was a saint and she’s a devil. But the truth is that both of them were on the make. Much easier to pin it all on her than accept we fell for it.

Honestly, people are just plain stupid for the most part. They’ll lap up any old media frenzy with barely one critical thought in their tiny minds. Perhaps 10% of the population - maybe less - have a functioning brain lol

TheignT · 07/03/2025 10:29

AreYouTheFarmer2025 · 07/03/2025 10:25

I think he's great. Glad someone says it as it is and stopped pussyfooting around the issues. Can imagine if it was Kate just there doing the interview. She'd be declaring her undying love for her 🤮😬🙄

I think that is very unfair, I'm not particularly a fan of Kate but but she's too professional to show her personal feelings like he did.

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