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Outrageous comments from best friend:s DP

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Lucelady · 06/03/2025 18:49

I'm shocked and don't know what to say.
My friend of thirty plus years moved in with a new partner last year.
She had few options due to three divorces and very few savings.
I've met the chap once, he seemed OK but over handy for my liking. Both her adult daughters have said they don't like him. I thought it was an age and class thing (he's 27 years younger).
It turns out he is an admirer of Hitler and Trump.
I said to my friend well he won't be invited to dinner here. He apparently made the statements at a family party last week. The daughters quite rightly walked out. I'm disabled, my husband not white. My uncles POW. I can't believe she's with him. She was very lonely. Aibu to be shocked or none of my business?

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Lavender14 · 06/03/2025 22:07

Also really appreciating the dogs! The canine derailment of this thread greatly amused me at the end of a long day.

Op I think the men are a symptom of her own loneliness. It's a really difficult thing to live with so I'd probably be a bit concerned for her absolutely.

Cherrysoup · 06/03/2025 22:08

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? Because they’re virtually indistinguishable?!

JD Vance is alleged to have called Trump the Hitler of America before his re-election.

RIPVPROG · 06/03/2025 22:09

Anyone remember this guy

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NancyBellaDonna · 06/03/2025 22:13

Don't forget Lassie!

Nanny0gg · 06/03/2025 22:14

Horriblevirusagain · 06/03/2025 20:43

Hitler and Zelensky are Dictators.
Trump is a leader who wants peace and what's best for his people.

Trump wants what's best for Trump

HelpMeGetThrough · 06/03/2025 22:14

It turns out he is an admirer of Hitler and Trump.

But won't admit to knocking one out over Putin.

Mylittlepea · 06/03/2025 22:16
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Loving this thread. I think all these dogs (and cats & hamsters😂) would make a better president than the current one 😵‍💫

Anonycat · 06/03/2025 22:18

Up to you but I couldn’t remain friends with someone who didn’t mind her partner admiring Hitler. Even if she binned him now, I coukd never feel the same about her.

AllTheTreesOfTheField · 06/03/2025 22:18
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His wet dream

graceinspace999 · 06/03/2025 22:19

You should invite them to dinner. I believe hemlock pie, chips and mushies would go
down very well.

FozzieWozzieWasABear · 06/03/2025 22:23

BlueBatsAndOranges · 06/03/2025 20:49

I demand more dogs!!!

Your wish is my command!

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PixieTales · 06/03/2025 22:25

I am enjoying the mix of discussion and dogs. I think more threads need this!

Shakey2022 · 06/03/2025 22:34

Gymnopedie · 06/03/2025 18:57

Sorry, I have NO idea where the dog came from, and if I go into 'edit' it's not there so I can't remove it.

Not the impression I was trying to create.

😂😂

Lark1ane · 06/03/2025 22:34
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Invite him for dinner and lay a trap.

ThisFluentBiscuit · 06/03/2025 22:39

Are you absolutely sure he wasn't joking? I cannot imagine anyone being a fan of Hitler. Yes, I know Trump's awful, but he hasn't tortured and killed six million people for their religion. (I personally don't like the Trump/Hitler comparisons. Hitler's in a class of evil all of his own.)

Either he was joking or this isn't real, because I cannot imagine the Hitler thing. Even if true and even if he was a Hitler fan, it seems most unlikely that he would say it out loud.

Gymnopedie · 06/03/2025 22:40
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The dogs are all my fault...

JorgyPorgy · 06/03/2025 22:40

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Why you say that ?

Errors · 06/03/2025 22:48

Ima create a new government department called DOGe

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Triakne · 06/03/2025 22:51

This is the maddest thread on mn in a long while 😂

JHound · 06/03/2025 22:53

Yummydindins123 · 06/03/2025 21:52

Not really.
im not a complete lover of Trump but he has some very valid points that some people agree with, such as his opposition to woke culture, putting pressure onto NATO to increase their defence spending, his pro business policies. Yes he does say some controversial things but he speaks his mind which is poignant in this world. There is such a freedom of speech and to say someone is wrong for listening to opposing views is narrow minded.
I think we can all agree though that liking Hitler is not acceptable though.
OP unless you are best friends and there are other reasons you dislike the guy that are not politically related then I dont think you have a reasonable opinion to point out to your friend.

What is “woke culture”?

How are tariffs “pro business”?

Damnloginpopup · 06/03/2025 22:55

Gymnopedie · 06/03/2025 18:57

Sorry, I have NO idea where the dog came from, and if I go into 'edit' it's not there so I can't remove it.

Not the impression I was trying to create.

Yeah, but....

Sorry, what were you saying?

🤣

Errors · 06/03/2025 22:58

I’m hoping @mnhq will join in with the dog madness

Sunnydays25 · 06/03/2025 23:10

LavenderBlue19 · 06/03/2025 19:24

Someone's been radicalised by Twitter 🙄

Someone's on a retainer

Fgfgfg · 06/03/2025 23:13

MissFancyDay · 06/03/2025 21:46

I'm sorry, is it a thing now to minimise what Hitler did to the Jews and other ethnicities in WW2?

Trump is a very, very bad, even evil, man, but to put him on the same level as Hitler is ignorant.

Even Hitler had to start somewhere and that's why people are comparing him to Trump. Hitler passed the Law to Remedy the Distress of the People and the Reich (Enabling Act 1933) which allowed him to deviate from the constitution and essentially enabled him to become a dictator. Trump has gone on a lot about wanting a third term even though this is against the US constitution and is actively looking for ways around the constitution so he can stay in power. There are parallels between the rise of Hitler and what Trump is trying to do now and you don't even have to try hard to find them. His election has also given all the right wing Christians, racists etc the green light to pursue their demands virtually unimpeded. The attacks on abortion rights which obviously started before his election are escalating to absurd levels with some states now actively debating criminalising women for travelling across state lines for an abortion. Hitler banned abortion and restricted contraception. Texas has issued an extradition warrant against a New York doctor for sending (legal in NY) abortion medication through the post to a Texan woman.

NancyBellaDonna · 06/03/2025 23:15
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Oh Toto...