Outrageous comments from best friend:s DP

[Lucelady]

I'm shocked and don't know what to say.
My friend of thirty plus years moved in with a new partner last year.
She had few options due to three divorces and very few savings.
I've met the chap once, he seemed OK but over handy for my liking. Both her adult daughters have said they don't like him. I thought it was an age and class thing (he's 27 years younger).
It turns out he is an admirer of Hitler and Trump.
I said to my friend well he won't be invited to dinner here. He apparently made the statements at a family party last week. The daughters quite rightly walked out. I'm disabled, my husband not white. My uncles POW. I can't believe she's with him. She was very lonely. Aibu to be shocked or none of my business?

What?!

My uncles POW

Prince of Wales? Prisoner of War?

It turns out he is an admirer of Hitler and Trump

Is he aye?

If she's been divorced three times she has form for not making great relationship choices. It sounds like this is the latest mistake.

I'm now getting these adverts 😂

@StMarie4me sadly no. She's to inherit a lot of money. The daughters are worried about that too. She lives on an allowance from her family.
I did remind her about the golddiger long game. She'd lose half immediately if she got married again.

He’s a Postman on Wednesdays x

Dog

Interesting
This same gif appeared for no reason on another thread when, I think, Mrs Bennett’snerves posted something. Have you both been hacked.
Id ask MNHQ
Iv3 only been on a few threads today and this image has appeared on both, so something is wrong

Could the daughters go to the person who’s leaving the money and ask if they could safeguard some in case the mum makes poor choices…. There was a sad post about a 93 year old lady who was with a second husband and her relatives are likely to not inherit anything because the lady didn’t protect it.

Oh that’s weird. Especially after the recent dodgy images appearing on here.

You need to be ready when he expresses politics, religion opinions … whether you agree or disagree.
Chsnge the subject - have it the topic ready. For example: I read that they are making Woolly Mammoth mice and are going to re-create mammoths …
Something completely inane
Ive noticed the candy bars have dhrunk
Buy 3 get one free - there’s never 3 left!
etc
etc

Just shut him down. If he pushes back - that’s right, we don’t want to talk politics/ opinions.

https://tenor.com/bSJQ6ZHkwkP.gif

Gutting.

I was so hoping OP's uncle was the Prince of Wales - would have been such a plot twist in this story.

Dog jokes aside, I couldn't be mates with someone thick enough to be in a relationship with someone who 'likes Hitler'.

It was the first GIF that came up for me when I hit the “add GIF” button so pretty easy to do by accident. Maybe it’s the GIF of the day!

Here’s another one because it cheered me up

Give over with the dogs!

We live the dog.

You're worried about his political views when he's hooked up with your friend 27 years his senior who is set to inherit a pile of money?

Can I vote YABU because there’s just not enough dogs on this thread? 🤣

In all seriousness though, it sounds like he’s a controlling gold digger and she needs her eyes opening to that. Can you make an effort to try and meet up with her alone, will
she listen if you voice concerns?

Why cant she be single?

What were the actual outrageous comments? Did he just say, "by the way I like Hitler"? And then later on, he was like, "That Trump's a good 'un."?

Need a bit more detail please OP.

Why are you not believing this? You need to meet my mum's husband. There are more of them around than you think.

@GeorgiesCat she's very sex driven. He's the Don apparently.

She met him on a website.

What about the cats?