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To be jealous of everyone getting slim in weight loss jabs while I get fatter !

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Sundayslump · 02/03/2025 08:18

Okay - lighthearted ? Maybe.

I’ve been lucky to grow up and be a size 10 . Had a baby at 27. Lost all the weight but my body changed. Baby 2 , again gained 4 stone but I’ve always kept the last stone. I am now 12/14 uk.

I work full time and have two children . I eat healthy for the most part and walk and exercise. When I am super strict which feels so much harder at 40 I am a size 12 but unlike in my 30s it seems so much harder to lose weight now . I feel crap in my clothes and I wish and dream of being a size 10. Call me pathetic !

My brother and his wife , twos sisters and their husbands , work colleagues and a few of my good friends who were never obese but had a few stone to lose are all taking weight loss jabs. They have all lost around 2/3/4 stone and are all now looking fab . All the women are now in size 8 jeans and I am jealous. I sound pathetic . None of these ladies were any bigger than a 14/16 to start with.

I totally understand these jabs are so life changing for so many people who need them but it seems in my life everyone has taken them and gone from a 14/16 to a size 8/6 size Uk and I can’t help but feel like if I just bloody jump on the bandwagon I will feel good, feel happy and be slim.

Now everyone around me is so slim I feel ever more aware of my size .

I want to state I exercise and do eat a healthy diet . I have just found after two babies and getting older unless I basically stick to 1200 calories a day I can’t maintain a size 12.
Ahhhhhh. Sorry for sounding so so so vain.

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I8toys · 02/03/2025 18:44

SilenceInside · 02/03/2025 18:40

@I8toys those who aren't obese (or > 27 BMI with a weigh related health condition) don't qualify to get a prescription and shouldn't be taking WLI. If they do, then that's a poor decision they've made that may well backfire.

The risks of pancreatitis is small and what you're totally ignoring is that being obese or morbidly obese increases your risk of pancreatitis greatly already. Taking WLI reduces your risk of pancreatitis overall as you lose weight.

You don't starve yourself or feel no hunger on WLI. Perhaps each time you move up a dose it can have that effect for a couple of days but it's not the intended effect and it wears off as the medication wears off. You still need to eat your calorie allowance, on average, across the week, I don't know anyone on the WLI support threads that wants to starve themselves or expects that to happen.

I do wonder of those that take it - how many have a prescription?

Glorybox2025 · 02/03/2025 18:45

I8toys · 02/03/2025 18:32

On most diets you don't lose your appetite and effectively starve yourself through feeling no desire to eat. WW and SW - you have a limited calorie intake but still feel hunger. Yes you have phases where you come off and go back on it but the rapidity of the weight loss, the fear of pancreatitis - we just have no clue what it will do to us in the future especially those who are not obese/type 2 diabetics.

That's not how WLI work!! That kind of appetite suppression, IF it happens, is short term and it's by no means universal!

Iamthemoom · 02/03/2025 18:47

Biased as I'm on them and they've changed my life and made me do much healthier and happier. But just wanted to correct a couple if posts that mentioned not needing them at a size 14 or not being obese if you only have a few stone to lose. I was size 14, and 12st11 which was roughly about 4 stone over my perfect pre baby weight of 8 st10 but that made me clinically obese with a very high bmi. You don't need to be a size 20 to be obese. Granted I'm short at 5'3 but even at 11 stone 7 I was in the obese band.

You can only do what's right for you and based on medical advice but if you can afford them and you dr agrees it would be more benefit than risk then go for it. I've never been happier.

Twiglets1 · 02/03/2025 18:47

Glorybox2025 · 02/03/2025 18:45

That's not how WLI work!! That kind of appetite suppression, IF it happens, is short term and it's by no means universal!

If the appetite suppression is short term how will it work for the people who intend to take it for life on low maintenance doses?

Boohoo76 · 02/03/2025 18:47

I8toys · 02/03/2025 18:32

On most diets you don't lose your appetite and effectively starve yourself through feeling no desire to eat. WW and SW - you have a limited calorie intake but still feel hunger. Yes you have phases where you come off and go back on it but the rapidity of the weight loss, the fear of pancreatitis - we just have no clue what it will do to us in the future especially those who are not obese/type 2 diabetics.

I’m not starving myself. I’m eating 1200 calories a day. WW and SW are both shit as you can still eat bad food as long as you stay within your prescribed limits. On Mounjaro I have no desire to eat bad food. I have had one cookie and one piece of cake in six weeks - to be polite as they were put on my desk by colleagues celebrating birthdays! I didn’t finish the cake and put it in the bin when no one was looking!

I don’t have rapid weight loss. I have lost 11 pounds in 6 weeks, so completely within the realms of a healthy weight loss. The difference for me is that last year is took me SIX MONTHS to lose 7 pounds. You have no idea how demoralising that is until you have experienced it yourself.

My actual diet hasn’t changed drastically. I have been on a low fat diet for 14 years since I had my gallbladder out as high fat foods give me nausea and diarrhoea. I rarely eat bread as it irritates my IBS. Since starting Mounjaro my bowel habits are much improved and I have had no IBS symptoms.

JenniferBooth · 02/03/2025 18:48

LyingWitchInTheWardrobe · 02/03/2025 14:34

It's an 'Insta' problem. Vapid and vacuous. It makes me angry that this is what our daughters are now being pulled into.

Strong and fit is the message that I'm drumming home. I weight lift, swim and box, those are my exercises that I enjoy and I'm heavily encouraging my children to find ones that they will like and carry on doing.

When i was a kid there used to be diet pills advertised in the back pages of colour supplements that came with the Sunday papers. Ive often wondered that if social media and Instagram had existed back then that these pills would have been as widely used as the weight loss injections are now.

SilenceInside · 02/03/2025 18:50

@I8toys "I do wonder of those that take it - how many have a prescription?" Do you mean the people on the WLI support threads? All of them, I'd say.

Boohoo76 · 02/03/2025 18:50

I8toys · 02/03/2025 18:44

I do wonder of those that take it - how many have a prescription?

Everyone that buys it from a regulated pharmacy has a prescription. Some people may be buying it on the black market like any other drug but they will be in the minority.

Glorybox2025 · 02/03/2025 18:50

Twiglets1 · 02/03/2025 18:47

If the appetite suppression is short term how will it work for the people who intend to take it for life on low maintenance doses?

No, that kind of EXTREME appetite suppression, the kind pp is referring to that makes people unable to eat properly, is very short term and doesn't happen to most people. Obviously the drugs reduce your appetite. But personally today I've eaten a piece of sourdough toast with marmite for breakfast, stir fried tofu and mushrooms with rice noodles for lunch and a big salad for dinner with a corn on the cob, half an avocado and a stuffed vine leaf for dinner. 3 healthy meals, well within my calorie allowance which is 1600, and no snacks or sweet food. This is normal for me and most people who take WLI. If people can't eat that's wrong and not how the drug is supposed to work.

Jins · 02/03/2025 18:53

I8toys · 02/03/2025 18:44

I do wonder of those that take it - how many have a prescription?

Everyone that is buying from a reputable pharmacy will have a prescription. My prescription is on my NHS app and the letter to my GP is on file. The questionnaire is read, the evidence is examined, further questions or video calls if necessary then the prescription is issued and sent if the prescriber approved.

The only people who are taking it without a prescription are not getting it through a reputable source. The people who lie to get it will have a prescription.

CerealPosterHere · 02/03/2025 18:54

Wantitalltogoaway · 02/03/2025 18:30

You could just not buy them…

Wow, youve solved the obesity crisis, congratulations. You could write a diet book….”Don’t buy the Biscuits”. If only all the fatties had thought of that! 😆

Arraminta · 02/03/2025 18:55

I8toys · 02/03/2025 18:32

On most diets you don't lose your appetite and effectively starve yourself through feeling no desire to eat. WW and SW - you have a limited calorie intake but still feel hunger. Yes you have phases where you come off and go back on it but the rapidity of the weight loss, the fear of pancreatitis - we just have no clue what it will do to us in the future especially those who are not obese/type 2 diabetics.

You don't totally lose your appetite or starve yourself on Mounjaro. Why would you think that? You might get appetite suppression or you might not (plenty of people don't). You definitely still feel hunger at times.

What it does do is partially mute 'food noise' and 'food cravings' so you then can make sensible, measured decisions over what you eat and how much.

I'm afraid it really is that mundane.

Caplin · 02/03/2025 19:08

I use them and they have changed my life. I had a BMI of 36 which crept up after kids and various traumatic and stressful life events. I’d wrestled with diets for years, I would struggle to lose a stone, fall off the wagon, put on two etc etc.

For all the people on here saying ‘just don’t buy the biscuits’, ‘exercise self control’, I can now. I know how it feels now to have a skinny person mindset. I still fancy a biscuit now and then, sometimes I have one (just one), other times I can resist. I don’t mindlessly graze anymore. Oprah Winfrey said something similar in an interview recently.

I’m not tempted by crappy processed or fatty food, I have cut back on booze substantially as I just don’t fancy it. I prioritise protein and strength work outs. I still eat out, I’m just healthier.

My painful joints are better, my skin is better, my puffy ankles have gone. I’ve lost 3 stone and have just over 3 stone to go. I’m still obese right now, but the lightest I’ve been in 8 years. My dad died of heart failure due to being massively overweight, he was in a state for years, massively bloated from water retention, ulcerated legs, unable to clean himself, I don’t want that, it was a horrible way to go.

However, I think all the skinny people who use the drugs as an extra help isn’t great because it leads to people being really anti the jabs, when in reality they are changing the lives of people like me. For people with disordered eating who are already this then it can lead to weakened bones etc. But I’m not trying to drop a pesky stone, I need to drop over 6!

JenniferBooth · 02/03/2025 19:09

Wantitalltogoaway · 02/03/2025 18:34

It takes 30 mins to cook a healthy meal.

Depends what time ppl get home. Not everyone works next door to where they live. Poster said to eat by 8pm remember? Supermarkets round here dont close till 8/9pm

You know who i mostly see coming out with the eat earlier rhetoric
CELEBS!!!! who would then moan like fuck if their minions pissed off home early to follow that advice.

HeavyHeidi · 02/03/2025 19:09

Glorybox2025 · 02/03/2025 18:44

Fuck sake it doesn't have to be biscuits! There's always something to eat in the house. I don't eat biscuits or any of that snack crap but if there's bread or frozen burgers or rice or pasta or a tin of beans I'll be munching them if I'm on a hunger rampage. You don't get it at all.

This. People who are not food obsessed really don't get it. All the 'advice' on this thread, how the fatties should eat less cake and take a brisk walk instead of this horrible, unknown substance, so helpful.

Arraminta · 02/03/2025 19:10

I8toys · 02/03/2025 18:44

I do wonder of those that take it - how many have a prescription?

Everyone obtaining Mounjaro from online pharmacies must firstly be prescribed it, so they will all have a prescription.

My GP is now aware that I'm on MJ, as is my Advanced Nurse Practioner, as is my Oncologist, as is my Breast Surgeon, as is my Breast Cancer Nurse and even my lovely Botox lady (who is also a fully qualified GP). They all know.

Not one of these very highly qualified medical professionals have expressed any concerns, whatsoever, over my using Mounjaro. Not one. In fact, I've only had positive feedback from them.

So, the fact that 'Wendy' on the Internet (who in all likelihood didn't even pass GCSE Biology) has 'concerns' really doesn't carry a lot of weight......

SwingTheMonkey · 02/03/2025 19:12

BurgundyZero · 02/03/2025 09:42

A colleague has track marks and has lost a lot of weight very quickly (size 16 to size 6/8).

I genuinely have no idea if it's these jabs or good old-fashioned heroin.

I would be very concerned about muscle and bone loss with any quick weight-loss method.

Track marks?! Ffs 🤦🏻‍♀️ 😂

You can’t drop from an 18 to a 6 that quickly, even on the jab. I’ve gone from 17st ish to 12st 2 (dress size 16/18 to a largish 12) in 5 months and that’s considered very fast. I’m way off hitting a size 6/8.

Twiglets1 · 02/03/2025 19:15

Arraminta · 02/03/2025 19:10

Everyone obtaining Mounjaro from online pharmacies must firstly be prescribed it, so they will all have a prescription.

My GP is now aware that I'm on MJ, as is my Advanced Nurse Practioner, as is my Oncologist, as is my Breast Surgeon, as is my Breast Cancer Nurse and even my lovely Botox lady (who is also a fully qualified GP). They all know.

Not one of these very highly qualified medical professionals have expressed any concerns, whatsoever, over my using Mounjaro. Not one. In fact, I've only had positive feedback from them.

So, the fact that 'Wendy' on the Internet (who in all likelihood didn't even pass GCSE Biology) has 'concerns' really doesn't carry a lot of weight......

Yawn - resorting to insults again rather than just making your points politely as nearly everyone else on this thread has managed to do.

stealthsquirrelnutkin · 02/03/2025 19:16

EmeraldShamrock000 · 02/03/2025 17:50

Food noise is when you have a packet of biscuits in the cupboard and you can hear the fuckers calling your name every time you walk past the cupboard and when you are lying in bed at night.
Stop buying them, put them in the bin, take back self control, you don't need to eat them, set up a routine and distract yourself or prep healthy filling snacks.
My Dsis lost close to 4 stone in SW, she kept it off, she still enjoys her meals but does not feel intensw hunger anymore. Carbohydrates and boredom cause food noise.

Nah, since the diabetes clinic was able to prescribe mounjaro last September I've become deaf to their seductive cries.

notanormalday · 02/03/2025 19:25

@Weepixie thanks for that makes me feel better. I've not come across anyone else who is also slowly losing. It's so annoying and disheartening watching videos of people who have only been on it a couple of weeks a lost loads!

I try to avoid it now. But I also like punishing myself and watching videos of other people on them lol.

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Wantitalltogoaway · 02/03/2025 19:33

Glorybox2025 · 02/03/2025 18:44

Fuck sake it doesn't have to be biscuits! There's always something to eat in the house. I don't eat biscuits or any of that snack crap but if there's bread or frozen burgers or rice or pasta or a tin of beans I'll be munching them if I'm on a hunger rampage. You don't get it at all.

You’d defrost a burger or cook some rice to satisfy a craving?

No, sorry, I don’t understand that.

If you’re that hungry between meals then maybe you need to look at what you’re eating and how it might be spiking your blood sugar.

Titasaducksarse · 02/03/2025 19:41

Wantitalltogoaway · 02/03/2025 19:33

You’d defrost a burger or cook some rice to satisfy a craving?

No, sorry, I don’t understand that.

If you’re that hungry between meals then maybe you need to look at what you’re eating and how it might be spiking your blood sugar.

No, you really don't understand........

That's OK, you're lucky.

Arraminta · 02/03/2025 19:43

Twiglets1 · 02/03/2025 19:15

Yawn - resorting to insults again rather than just making your points politely as nearly everyone else on this thread has managed to do.

Why is it insulting to state that I heed the opinions of well qualified medical professionals over the opinion of someone with no medical/science qualifications whatsoever? Surely, that's just common sense?

SunnyDayInFeb · 02/03/2025 19:47

Wantitalltogoaway · 02/03/2025 19:33

You’d defrost a burger or cook some rice to satisfy a craving?

No, sorry, I don’t understand that.

If you’re that hungry between meals then maybe you need to look at what you’re eating and how it might be spiking your blood sugar.

Well a lot of people who are obese are going to be pre diabetic and their blood sugar will be all over the place regardless of what they eat.

One of the first things mounjaro (which is also a diabetes medication) is going to do for them is to even out their blood sugar levels, causing them to feel less ravenous and they will then lose weight decreasing their risk of diabetes.....

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