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To feel threatened by OW

304 replies

Preear · 25/02/2025 10:01

I have lost all of my confidence since ex left me for somebody else. We have 2 kids who are 4 and 7 and they have just been on holiday with them and my son is now crying because he kisses dad (he is 4) my daughter however said it didn’t feel right being on holiday without me. I am so worried that this woman is going to my place. I can’t afford to take them on holiday etc and I don’t want another man right now (it’s only been 5 months since we split) somebody tell me to get a grip

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RedHelenB · 04/03/2025 07:23

Dont wait for karma, it's not a thing . Its best for your dc if they do get along with them. But you're their mum, a lot of my dc memories and special moments don't involve money, they're really quite mundane. They love you.

Pussycat22 · 05/03/2025 08:39

Preear · 02/03/2025 14:53

Ex collected the kids this morning and asked if I could tell him a cream to get for a spot on his face (I work in HC) I just walked away

Tell him to get something with hydrochloric acid in it ! 😊

Preear · 05/03/2025 11:34

Pussycat22 · 05/03/2025 08:39

Tell him to get something with hydrochloric acid in it ! 😊

He then had the audacity to call me and say we no longer speak about anything but the kids? I said hang on a minute you came to me for healthcare advice and I really don’t care! Something tells me he is embarrassed about the Herpes

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ColourBlueColourPurple · 05/03/2025 13:34

LilacPeer · 03/03/2025 13:37

The last thing this person has been is gracious, thyeve been obtuse from the outset.

Exactly. If that's what she thinks is gracious, then I despair.

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