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Why the fuck would you do this to yourself

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mommyfinger · 24/02/2025 20:20

Just why?
She was so pretty

I've attached pics for those who don't want to open the link

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Cosmosforbreakfast · 24/02/2025 20:39

Poor girl, she's obviously very mentally ill. She must have gone through some terrible trauma to want to look like this.

TheLightSideOfTheMoon · 24/02/2025 20:40

StepAwayFromGoogling · 24/02/2025 20:38

Than having half your nose removed and horns put in your head?!?!

Yes.

I think fillers look far worse. Much worse.

And I like the horns…

LilyFox · 24/02/2025 20:42

She looks like the female version of Skeletor.

Why the fuck would you do this to yourself
OrangeYaGlad · 24/02/2025 20:42

TheLightSideOfTheMoon · 24/02/2025 20:40

Yes.

I think fillers look far worse. Much worse.

And I like the horns…

Are you quite well?

mommyfinger · 24/02/2025 20:43

Tattoos aren't that shocking I agree as I have them myself as do lots of others, it's more the nose and eyes, looks scary. I really was shocked at her before picture it was only 2019

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TheLightSideOfTheMoon · 24/02/2025 20:44

Body modifications are far more common now.

Look at the people having their teeth shaved down to stumps and thick white plastic chunks screwed in.

They look ghastly, but it’s their choice.

TheLightSideOfTheMoon · 24/02/2025 20:45

OrangeYaGlad · 24/02/2025 20:42

Are you quite well?

Yes, I’m fine.

I’m not the one ripping apart a woman’s appearance.

Also, I really like the horns mods.

JustTalkToThem · 24/02/2025 20:45

She had body mods in the first picture too - lip fillers, probably tanning bed, straightened and dyed hair, lashes. Just you think that looked "pretty"

anonymoususer9876 · 24/02/2025 20:46

Why do any of us choose anything that changes how we look? Usually because we like the look of it. I have piercings because I like them. I had them done for me. They make me feel good when I look in the mirror.

As what she has done is permanent, then I guess she likes how she looks. It doesn't need to be any more than that, it can be reason enough.

RubyBirdy · 24/02/2025 20:46

Look up the ‘black alien project’….

CarWatcher · 24/02/2025 20:48

Her nose is surely going to bring her some serious health problems in later life or maybe even now (I do tend to look through the lens of a menopausal woman).

I have questions:

Does she remove bogies so people cant see or leave them on view?

If she runs do flies go in there? It looks a bit unavoidable and I’ve dealt with a fly up the nose when running.

Is her sense of smell better or worse?

What does having a heavy cold look like?

MistressoftheDarkSide · 24/02/2025 20:49

I do disagree with the immediate jump to mentally ill though. It's a bit of a patronising thing and extreme body mods are part of a culture and lifestyle. You can't get these things done in the UK since a big case a few years ago when a chap was sent to prison because he didn't have the correct licenses ie in surgical procedures.

Anyone with capacity has the right to make unwise decisions, even to harm themselves, otherwise there would be no addicts or alcoholics. Unwise decisions are subjective to cultural norms and fashions.

Just because someone chooses to do something you wouldn't contemplate, it doesn't necessarily make them mentally ill.

alwaysdeleteyourcookies · 24/02/2025 20:51

Just because someone chooses to do something you wouldn't contemplate, it doesn't necessarily make them mentally ill

This take needs to be normalised.

KhakiOrca · 24/02/2025 20:52

I wish I didn't click on that link and see her black split tongue! Gross

Clarice99 · 24/02/2025 20:54

Removal of her nose leaving 2 'front facing holes' and fillers don't even come close.

Fillers can be dissolved and/or wear off. Her nose isn't going to grow back. The surgeon should be struck off for mutilating her face.

Thingymajigii · 24/02/2025 20:55

Looks like the work of Dr Shakamoto

Lulu1919 · 24/02/2025 20:57

Who would do that surgery ?
How can it be moral ?

AndThereSheGoes · 24/02/2025 20:58

I don't really think there's much difference to getting a nose removed as there is cutting off a penis or breasts. It's about the look which for whatever reason someone prefers.

I don't think it will catch on mind..

greengreyblue · 24/02/2025 20:59

Wouldn’t want to be near her when she has a cold.

hoarahloux · 24/02/2025 21:01

Her body, her choice. It's affecting no one but herself, it's only cosmetic, and she can live her life how she chooses. It clearly works for her. I don't care what she looked like previously tbh. If she'd been ugly beforehand, would her body modifications be less offensive?

MistressoftheDarkSide · 24/02/2025 21:03

Maybe she got fed up of the assumptions made about her when she was a "pretty blonde". Maybe this is her way of sticking two fingers up to misogyny.

MoonWoman69 · 24/02/2025 21:05

I'm sorry to say it, even if it is her body, her choice, it's absolutely hideous. It's to be hoped she's still going to love it in another 30 years.
And morals aside, anyone offered the money will do the work. Whether that's right or wrong, like everything, it all boils down to money.

AndThereSheGoes · 24/02/2025 21:05

Eyeball tattoos! I'm more worried by the people that came up with that concept then someone actually having them

ScholesPanda · 24/02/2025 21:05

She clearly thinks it looks good and enjoys the attention.

Scissor · 24/02/2025 21:05

Is that actually 3 stages of photos? I'm confused by the one where her cleavage and lips look black?

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