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WTF has happened to Facebook?

163 replies

DoComeToMeKitty · 24/02/2025 18:36

Well I know Facebook has pretty much had it's day anyway. But lately, my feed is full of the most disgusting, racist hate videos and also videos of dogs apparently on their last day before being put down. It's sick

I keep clicking 'not interested' but it just keeps on coming. Why the hell are those stupid videos on Facebook anyway??? It seems to be completely impossible to get rid of them.

Whenever I report anything, nothing is done about it. Now it appears to have taken over as a propaganda platform for the far right.

AIBU to think if Facebook need to get a grip on this?

I think it needs to he shut down, all be it temporarily until they can get a handle on all the crap.

Not to mention the stupid videos of women cleaning their kitchens! What is the actual point?

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lljkk · 24/02/2025 21:03

I like my My FBk feed a lot. There are useless ads but there's more good than annoying content. You do have to actively curate.

PassingStranger · 24/02/2025 21:11

Funny, I was going to post about similar today.

It's the reels. I keep hiding them, but they keep coming. I'm.not interested in seeing these reels.

PassingStranger · 24/02/2025 21:12

Funny, I was going to post about similar today.

It's the reels. I keep hiding them, but they keep coming. I'm.not interested in seeing these reels.

PassingStranger · 24/02/2025 21:18

WingingItSince1973 · 24/02/2025 19:51

I'm not seeing any of this stuff. My feed is mainly homes, crafts, art and friends and family. If there's an ad I don't like I just click on the option to not see anymore of those types of ads.

I think we all do, but then they send another reel.

MyCatNamedCookingFat · 24/02/2025 21:20

I honestly don't get that kind of stuff but the interface is shockingly bad for such a megalith of social media. It just looks old fashioned, very hard to navigate.

I only use it for my groups.

I'd like an alternative but what?

Funnywonder · 24/02/2025 21:20

I get a load of old crap, but nothing nasty or sinister. I honestly wouldn't bother with Facebook at all, but my youngest son has two very challenging illnesses and I'm on support groups for both. They have been absolute lifelines for me. Oh and knitting and crochet groups😁

Panterusblackish · 24/02/2025 21:22

So glad you posted this, I wondered if I was getting over sensitive in my old age!

PlumpHobbit · 24/02/2025 21:22

I keep getting horse related videos even though I have no interest in horses any more, bog off. I click not interested and hide the page in question but still they come

Also various pages starting "dull mens"

Just fuck OFF!

spoodlesee · 24/02/2025 21:23

do people still use it?

LemonFish · 24/02/2025 21:25

ChanelBoucle · 24/02/2025 19:29

I downloaded all my information and deleted my account permanently over six years ago. I was a big user of it at one point too but started to find it deeply tedious and shouty. My life has been all the better for leaving it.

Edited

I was 5 or 6 years ago as well. I forgot it's up and running still!

cardibach · 24/02/2025 21:27

PassingStranger · 24/02/2025 21:11

Funny, I was going to post about similar today.

It's the reels. I keep hiding them, but they keep coming. I'm.not interested in seeing these reels.

What reels? I don’t see any!

cardibach · 24/02/2025 21:29

spoodlesee · 24/02/2025 21:23

do people still use it?

Obviously.

WTF has happened to Facebook?
cardibach · 24/02/2025 21:30

I always think anyone having a bad time on Facebook has either a)crap friends or b)crap security settings or c) both

Lovethegreydays · 24/02/2025 21:33

spoodlesee · 24/02/2025 21:23

do people still use it?

Ridiculous comment, of course they do.

Mine doesn't have anything nasty on thankfully but boy do I get a lot of random but harmless stuff!

TwoLeggedGrooveMachine · 24/02/2025 21:35

I’m not getting much nasty stuff but I am getting 90% celebrity posts, either gossipy stuff about current slebs or nostalgia photos of old stars. I keep saying I’m not interested. I don’t follow slebs so no idea why the algorithm thinks I want to see all this crap. I have to
actively look for pages I’ve liked about things and people I’m interested in. Just about to give up with it but it has been useful for hobbies and local autism support groups.

cardibach · 24/02/2025 21:35

TwoLeggedGrooveMachine · 24/02/2025 21:35

I’m not getting much nasty stuff but I am getting 90% celebrity posts, either gossipy stuff about current slebs or nostalgia photos of old stars. I keep saying I’m not interested. I don’t follow slebs so no idea why the algorithm thinks I want to see all this crap. I have to
actively look for pages I’ve liked about things and people I’m interested in. Just about to give up with it but it has been useful for hobbies and local autism support groups.

Use your friends feed.

DdraigGoch · 24/02/2025 21:42

User32459 · 24/02/2025 19:32

Because Zuckerberg has jumped in on the Trump bandwagon.

It's been going downhill for longer than that.

Hemlocked · 24/02/2025 21:52

I absolutely hate it. I get lots of random AI stuff. Fucking celebrities all the time. And lots of misogynistic content about their appearance and how old they look. I don't watch TV, I have no interest in celebrities and never have. Also horrible brain dead jokes that probably wouldn't even impress a 15 year old boy. The whole thing is grim.

I'd LOVE to know:

  1. The easiest way to download my photos from FB onto a storage platform (which one?)
  1. If you have successfully turned off ads etc how did you do it? Whenever I go to the privacy settings it just some awful labyrinthine minefield that sends me round in loops.
CrossCountryWoosh · 24/02/2025 21:54

I never post on it. I stay on it to find out what is happening in my area.

Luckily, I've not had anything nasty or upsetting (so far?).

I get loads of AI pictures of houses, (presumably) fake history stories and so many pretend David Attenborough stuff. I also keep getting stories from "The Dull Men's Club". TBF I'm not part of the group but I do read the things that come up on my feed because they are often quite amusing.

Oh and bloody 5min craft. That's my own fault because I get suckered in. "100 things to do with a hot glue gun you say? Count me in!". 1hr later and several "crafts" that are awful at best or fetish material and still, the next day "oh. What's she doing in that screen shot of a peice of foam and a turnip?... I'll have a quick look...

spoodlesee · 24/02/2025 21:58

Ridiculous comment, of course they do.

It was a question? I don't use it anymore nor do my friends & the youngsters I know don't either.

Redpeach · 24/02/2025 22:01

DoComeToMeKitty · 24/02/2025 18:36

Well I know Facebook has pretty much had it's day anyway. But lately, my feed is full of the most disgusting, racist hate videos and also videos of dogs apparently on their last day before being put down. It's sick

I keep clicking 'not interested' but it just keeps on coming. Why the hell are those stupid videos on Facebook anyway??? It seems to be completely impossible to get rid of them.

Whenever I report anything, nothing is done about it. Now it appears to have taken over as a propaganda platform for the far right.

AIBU to think if Facebook need to get a grip on this?

I think it needs to he shut down, all be it temporarily until they can get a handle on all the crap.

Not to mention the stupid videos of women cleaning their kitchens! What is the actual point?

Never seen anything like that

spoodlesee · 24/02/2025 22:03

"What has significantly declined is the number of teens on the platform, and this is kind of remarkable. In 2014 and 2015, 71% of teenagers were using Facebook. Now it’s less than half of that at 32%."

That chimes with my experience

JuvenileGull · 24/02/2025 22:04

Only boomers use Facebook now

LennBob · 24/02/2025 22:08

JuvenileGull · 24/02/2025 22:04

Only boomers use Facebook now

Not this boomer

Fangisnotacoward · 24/02/2025 22:09

Good, it's not just me then. I've noticed the past couple of months more and more AI crap and really nasty videos coming up on my feed. I've not interacted with anything that indicates I'm interested in that.

I follow local pages for events and fan pages for tv and films for the memes.

Something came up on my feed just the other day, someone in a boat filming a seal swimming round their boat, with literally the bottom half of its body missing after being attacked by a shark. Who the fuck wants to see that? Not me.