Being naked in front of DP/DH

[SnowflakeSmasher86]

Are you comfortable being visibly naked in front of your partner? Would you be ok with the lights on/daylight etc and walk around with nothing on?

Or would you have a towel/underwear/a sheet over you?

i’m not bothered about my wobbly bits on a daily basis, and felt just the same way when I was several stone lighter, so I don’t see it as a body image thing as such, I juat wouldn’t walk around naked in front of him. He thinks this says something fundamental about our relationship.

YABU - I think its normal to feel 100% at ease walking about naked in front of my DP/DH

YANBU - I’d rather keep some things undercover and feel self conscious naked standing up and walking about the bedroom/house.

Just thought I'd say that this is lovely

We’re totally at ease with it, sleep together naked, walk around naked to from the bathroom for eg. Even in front of the kids sometimes gosh, shock!
Sometimes we even have sex naked with the lights on!

I'm not, but that's because of the time I ran downstairs in my bra and knickers (thankfully at least had those on), and Amazon had let them self in the backgarden and shouted: "It's alright love, I'll just leave it on the step!" 😮

I don't mind, but also I don't see my body primarily through the lense of male pleasure and sexual attraction, even my own DP's. I'm happy that he likes my body, but I don't walk this earth to please him, so whether or not I would be attractive doesn't factor into my decision when getting changed.

no problem walking around naked in front of DP. we both do, constantly. Clothes don't hide what we look like and i thinks it important to love ourselves and each other completely including our wobbly bits.

Would hate for him to think he had to cover himself up from me and I actively make sure to affirm parts that he might be moaning about that week especially!

I don't think my body is perfect and I can definitely be over critical but its mine and sometimes you have to fake it until you make it.

I actually think clothes can hide a multitude of sins 😂

I struggle with my body image a bit and like a lot of you, hate my stomach. However I feel comfortable walking around naked in front of my DP and my two DD's (15 and 11), I hope that brushes off on my DD!s as I would like them to be comfortable in their own skin. They are certainly comfortable being in my presence when I'm naked (chatting to me while I'm in the shower for example)

I don't mind walking around naked for a reason e.g. from the bathroom to bedroom. Or him seeing me get dressed, lights on during sex. But I'm not a walk around naked sort of person anyway regardless of who's around. I hate bits stuck to bits and I'm always cold.

I've never minded with more weight or less weight

How I feel about myself is not tied to my perfectly normal healthy body. I'm just grateful I'm not unwell or dead (like some of my contemporaries)

100% comfortable, we sleep naked, often walk round the house naked, when the kids aren't in. I'm about 3 stone heavier than when we 1st met, but he's never commented on it or made me feel anything other than totally desired to the point I often get a surprise when I see the fat woman in the mirror 🤣

I do walk around naked, go downstairs to make tea in the morning, come out the shower and stay naked whilst my HRT dries on my thighs, lights on for sex however, I can see why others may not be comfortable. Especially if there has been a derogatory comment previously from their DP.

You know what I'm fine with my stomach lying flat on my back, or standing upright with underwear on, it's bending down naked when I get embarrassed of the lower part. I'm really slim and it's flat, but looks awful post kids when I bend down. I need to tone it up, to see if this helps. Bodies are always worse when you bend down naked I think, unless you're young with no kids!

Yabu - unless it's too cold!

Oh dear.
Those of us who don't walk around naked when alone then? Do we not trust ourselves?

Significant other

Naked, it doesn't bother me.

Light dimmed when making love, only because I don't want to feel like I am being interrogated when overhead light is on and he is on top.

He checked my stitches after giving birth, I tended to a boil on his arse....all in a days work when you are married as long as us.😎

Totally happy to be naked.

I cover up if there is any risk of DSs appearing in our room though!

DH has always been tall and slim and I am not slim. I was skinny when we met but two kids and in my mid 40s I am not overweight but I am not fit and toned either.
DH has literally never ever said anything negative about my body. Ever. And always says very nice things even if I don’t always believe him. And yes I am frequently naked in front of him/change in front of him and vice versa.

We used to play knockdown ginger as kids and targeted the same houses frequently. One guy got so fed up and obviously saw us coming and answered the door before we knocked, in just his pants. I can still picture it now, tiny little y front’s. Still makes me laugh to this day.

I don't walk around naked because I get cold easily. But I sleep naked when I've got company and happily walk from the bedroom to the bathroom naked to shower. It's no big deal for me - he's seen me naked when we're having sex, in much less flattering positions than standing up!

He's never seen your stomach? Bloody hell.

Current DP 100% yes. We both walk around naked but he’s German - different upbringing. But a tshirt (preferably one of his) and knickers turns him on more!

Previous DP (English) wouldn’t like me being outside of the bedroom without a bra or without pyjama bottoms.
I feel so much more liberated at 50 and don’t care about my body anymore and am quite happy going naked in the sauna.

I don't make a habit of being naked but if I am, I don't care about DH seeing it.

Will probably end our days wandering naked round a care home after losing our marbles anyway.

It’s not a problem in the slightest.

I have to be careful though because DS (11) is no longer comfortable with seeing me naked.

FGS! Perhaps stop guilting women for how they feel and putting words in to their mouths 🙄😒