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SunnyDayInFeb · 17/02/2025 08:58

So Russia and the US are meeting in Saudia Arabia to carve up Ukraine.

And Ukraine, whose people have been fighting and dying since their country was invaded, haven't even been invited to the table.

It's like we are back in the 19th century with the European colonial powers drawing lines on a map to divide Africa between them.

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bombastix · 17/02/2025 14:04

@TheNoonBell - Victor Orban is Putin's lickspittle and he would like others in the Ukraine, Poland, Romania and others countries of "influence".

If he is being excluded then all to the good. The EU cannot exclude him but other organisations can. He can chum up with Belarus and then go with his hand to the EU as he usually does.

You educate yourself on the savagery of the Russian war machine and how they operate. I reckon you know and approve of it already

LifeExperience · 17/02/2025 14:05

ladsladzladse · 17/02/2025 10:14

Trump's a lawbreaking arsehole, but these negotiations are pointless; Ukraine will not recognize the resulting decision if Ukraine is not included. That's pretty standard. The potential dealbreaker here would/will be the US withdrawing funding for weapons for Ukraine.

Also, the not joining NATO stuff is a red herring; NATO's charter says it will consider any country that fits its relatively simple criteria for membership and neither NATO itself nor any member country including the USA can bypass that. That's why there's been so much pressure for Ukraine itself to promise that they won't join NATO (and, in some cases, the EU). The previous overtures from Russia were NOT believed to be in good faith, and demanded other unacceptable concessions - but the NATO/EU stuff on its own is something which Zelensky has previously said that Ukraine would consider. But if Ukraine's not there, it can't be guaranteed. (Or to put it in Trumpian terms, no deal.)

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Article 10 of the NATO charter requires the consent of ALL NATO members in order to add a new member. The US will not consent.

EasternStandard · 17/02/2025 14:06

It's got a whiff of Putin appeasement to pretend people are missing it

Yes I get you and others are willing to fight. Or for others to for you? Probably easier to go for it on a screen

Less so when the reality is people's dcs

twinklystar23 · 17/02/2025 14:08

Im sure starmer will not be doing this without engaging the whole of europe. Equally there are other western nations such as canada, australia. Putin needs to be hammered hard, especially whilst his resources are low. Poland and the other forner eastern european countries i doubt are hand-wringing. Take back crimea whilst were at it. Dont give the fucker a chance to rebuild.

StandFirm · 17/02/2025 14:10

Genevieva · 17/02/2025 09:34

The things I have read about each of these are:

  1. The US sees its strategic role in NATO as a naval power protecting the Arctic. It sees mainland European powers as responsible for land defence and expects them to fund that properly.
  2. Interestingly, Arabs in the Middle East are not wholly against what Trump said about Gaza. Now this goes slightly over my head, so forgive me if my vocabulary is not wholly precise, but my understanding is that what the US has done is stake a claim to Gaza. This diluted the Israeli claim and gives the US certain obligations towards Gazan residents. It seems Qatar and the UAE will fund the rebuilding of Gaza for Gazans with the aim of making it a new Dubai economic miracle. How realistic that is I don’t know, but it’s certainly interesting and not at all what BBC radio were saying.

On Gaza, Trump backtracked on the subject of Gazans returning to their homeland. Call me cynical but he's not going to invest billions into developing a land (if that ever materialises) unless he sees return on investment. Let's face it, that 'economic miracle' isn't going to profit the Gazans. If Trump was so big on international development he wouldn't have brutally shuttered the very agency that was set up for that very purpose.

bemoresloth · 17/02/2025 14:11

EasternStandard · 17/02/2025 14:06

It's got a whiff of Putin appeasement to pretend people are missing it

Yes I get you and others are willing to fight. Or for others to for you? Probably easier to go for it on a screen

Less so when the reality is people's dcs

No, I don't think you get it.

LifeExperience · 17/02/2025 14:12

whatawonderfultime · 17/02/2025 10:24

America is massively benefiting from this war going on as long as possible. They want as many Russian (and N Korean) troops off to be slaughtered as they can get. Plus Russia's money going into local war and not the space race or long range weapons to use against the US. Throwing money at it from a distance without having to get physically involved or sending troops is more than worth it to them. A massively weakened Russia is beneficial to them in every way, and all they have to do is walk in the end as the heroes and pat them on a shoulder and be diplomatic.

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Russia is a threat to Europe, not the US. Prolonging the war in Ukraine isn't helping us, and it's costing us money we don't have.

Trump is trying to get 3 party talks going with Russia and China to reduce tensions and defense expenditures.

StandFirm · 17/02/2025 14:13

itsrainingonmywashing · 17/02/2025 12:47

I find it worrying that if Trump ends the war [would be great if it happened]. But he would then be the hero of the hour, and it would give him a free pass for anything he wants to do because he is now a 'hero'. People will soon forget what complete moronic wankers he and Musk really are.

I'm sorry but I don't think there's much of a risk of that happening. Yes, his base will celebrate him as a hero - but they do that anyway regardless of what he says or does! The rest of the US and people in Europe can see that Trump is just giving Putin what he wants. That's not ending the war, it's capitulating and betraying their allies.

StandFirm · 17/02/2025 14:15

Who wants to bet Trump will be invited by Putin to the Russian celebrations in May commemorating the end of WWII (it is a huge thing in Russia, even more so this year as it'll be the 80th anniversary)? And that he will go?

EasternStandard · 17/02/2025 14:16

@bemoresloth you are keen, if not it's 'Putin appeasement' accusation

How depressing. I take it you don't have boys in that age range

AlternativeView · 17/02/2025 14:17

At last an extremely interesting thread with all different facets of this awful situation looked at.
I've really missed this in the past few weeks.

I think Ukraine membership of Nato is a red herring.

Why is Ukraine desperate to be a part of nato? Because it offers massive security and protection against aggressors.

If the war is stopped soon, Ukraine can be shored up and offered protection just not under a nato banner.
It will behove Europe to enact this swiftly if the war is stopped.

Re trump appeaseing putin and giving into putin I don't see it why did putin invade Ukraine? Because he wants Ukraine.

Will putin get Ukraine? Absolutely not so the majority of the country can feel secure in that it's still Ukraine and not part of Russia
That's not putin winning is it?

Unfortunately I think this situation has left the eu looking naked.
It has little political or military clout.
It's ironic that we are providing that clout.

bemoresloth · 17/02/2025 14:18

EasternStandard · 17/02/2025 14:16

@bemoresloth you are keen, if not it's 'Putin appeasement' accusation

How depressing. I take it you don't have boys in that age range

Are you talking about conscription?

If so, why?

OrangePeel2 · 17/02/2025 14:24

StandFirm · 17/02/2025 14:15

Who wants to bet Trump will be invited by Putin to the Russian celebrations in May commemorating the end of WWII (it is a huge thing in Russia, even more so this year as it'll be the 80th anniversary)? And that he will go?

It sounds very plausible. If already planned, what would be the desired outcome from it, I wonder, what's the next thing after that?

SunnyDayInFeb · 17/02/2025 14:25

Puzzledandpissedoff · 17/02/2025 13:04

Very obviously Zelensky will have to be part of ongoing talks if anything comes of the Trump/Putin meeting, and rightly so

However if he's indulging in "nerr-nerr" because he's not involved on this particular occasion then he'll be out of luck, because like it or not - and despite the posing - he's simply not one of the big players who Putin's likely to listen to

Why is he posing wanting to be involved in discussions about the future of his own country?

I find this language and vilification of Zelensky and the Ukrainians very disturbing.

It is a colonial mindset. Lasting peace does not come from ignoring the people whose future is at stake.

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JoyousGreyOrca · 17/02/2025 14:27

Trump is a colonialist. It is about taking over other countries and their resources. In Ukraines case he does not want to run the country, simply extract their rare minerals for free so he can make billions and billions of pounds. He said he wants 50% of their rare minerals as part of the peace deal.

AlternativeView · 17/02/2025 14:32

I don't doubt at all that zelensky will be part of the negotiations, he's spoken to trump many times.
He's understandably extremely angry and emotional and putin is a cold hard calculating bastard.
I don't think that's a good recipe for success. The USA knows what zelensky wants and will obviously not give into Russia.
Putin will be loving zelensky exclusion but that doesn't mean Ukraine will miss out.
They will lay the ground work and see how serious Russia is wanting peace.
Putin has felt that they are at war with the USA anyway.

SunnyDayInFeb · 17/02/2025 14:33

It would be completely different if the US had sat down with Ukraine and thrashed out a plan and gone off to use their diplomatic muscle and super power status to negotiate with Putin on their behalf.

That is not what is happening.

People seem almost gleeful that Ukraine is getting what it deserves. Their only crime seems to be that they are not the biggest, nastiest bully in the room.

I can understand an argument from pragmatism, though I might not agree. But why the desire to demonise the Ukrainians? Is it because people have to justify their betrayal by pretending they have done something to deserve it?

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AlternativeView · 17/02/2025 14:33

Then, Ukraine can be included.

bombastix · 17/02/2025 14:34

JoyousGreyOrca · 17/02/2025 14:27

Trump is a colonialist. It is about taking over other countries and their resources. In Ukraines case he does not want to run the country, simply extract their rare minerals for free so he can make billions and billions of pounds. He said he wants 50% of their rare minerals as part of the peace deal.

He will want to develop techonologies to refine these, for the making of chips in the USA. He wants no dependencies or to extend any security guarantees to other countries.

Once he has minerals, on shore manufacturing and refinement capability how long do you think Taiwan will have its security guarantees?

Not long.

LifeExperience · 17/02/2025 14:36

JoyousGreyOrca · 17/02/2025 12:49

Trump has been open that he wants 50% of the rare minerals in Ukraine. It is the same reason he is interested in Greenland and Canada. This is old fashioned colonialism. Rich powerful country extracts resources from poorer and less powerful country either for free or for peanuts.
Trump is not hiding this agenda. He has already told Zelensky this is what he wants.

Rich, powerful country is going to spend billions rebuilding Ukraine, so rare earth minerals are the least they can do to pay us back. They have nothing else to compensate us with, and the American people are in absolutely no mood to put out any more $ without compensation. Our wallet is closed.

Why do you think Trump won when he's an orange buffoon? Because he taps into the zeitgeist of current-day America. We're over paying for everybody's everything, and Trump is our weapon to accomplish that.

Motomum23 · 17/02/2025 14:40

SunnyDayInFeb · 17/02/2025 09:32

There wasn't any persecution of the Russian minority. This is typical Russian propaganda to justify their invasion.

And what a horrible way to talk about Ukrainian refugees.

Well I've seen the horrendous videos of Russian minorities being held in a burning building by Ukrainian forces some 10 years ago.

The fact of the matter is Russia is perfectly at liberty to refuse the idea of NATO weapons on their doorstep... its no different to the USA objecting to Russian nukes in Cuba.
The war is funded mostly by America- stopcyhe funding and the war stops. Simples.

bombastix · 17/02/2025 14:41

Tbh Trump is just open about the motivation behind US and European support. It was already the case that critical minerals is the reason the war is waged at all. Russia wants them too. So too did Europe.

It's just that this was not the open reason for all the support.

twinklystar23 · 17/02/2025 14:44

Though America does do quite well financially. Didnt we only just finish paying them back after WW11 in 2015? Britain was on its own for 1 year against the nazis. Though food was sent to the UK by america and promptly decinated by the nazis.. Though we were then assisted by the US once we were pretty much on our knees, and it is unlikely we would have outlasted the nazis by that point.

twinklystar23 · 17/02/2025 14:48

Motomum23 · 17/02/2025 14:40

Well I've seen the horrendous videos of Russian minorities being held in a burning building by Ukrainian forces some 10 years ago.

The fact of the matter is Russia is perfectly at liberty to refuse the idea of NATO weapons on their doorstep... its no different to the USA objecting to Russian nukes in Cuba.
The war is funded mostly by America- stopcyhe funding and the war stops. Simples.

One of putins reasons for the war was he didnt want ukraine to beco.e a part of NATO. At that point i could sort of understand that, even if i didnt agree with it. Then he invaded anyway......

Clearly not one who can be trusted at all.

Locutus2000 · 17/02/2025 14:49

EasternStandard · 17/02/2025 14:06

It's got a whiff of Putin appeasement to pretend people are missing it

Yes I get you and others are willing to fight. Or for others to for you? Probably easier to go for it on a screen

Less so when the reality is people's dcs

Well, people's DCs who have chosen to join the military.

We aren't talking conscription.

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