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Newmumburnout · 12/02/2025 14:22

low key ? For example someone says " does this top not low key go with these jeans" it seems to be used all the time now. Maybe annoyed is not the right word but it's irritating 🤣 . Light-hearted post really. Are there any sayings that seem to be "trending" that annoys you ?

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YoungGunsHavingSomeFunCrazyLadiesKeepEmOnTheRun · 12/02/2025 14:23

I low key agree with you.

HelenaWaiting · 12/02/2025 14:27

Allyship. Drives me up the wall. The word is allegiance.

Icanflyhigh · 12/02/2025 14:29

Gaaaaah!

My DD says this ALL THE TIME! It drives me nuts!
Low key this and low key that......

It'll be replaced with something equally annoying soon enough I guess!😂

Madamecholetsbonnet · 12/02/2025 14:31

Is this a northern thing? Not heard it here in my little corner of SE.

ItWasntMyFault · 12/02/2025 14:33

Madamecholetsbonnet · 12/02/2025 14:31

Is this a northern thing? Not heard it here in my little corner of SE.

I was just thinking the same, I've never heard this (also in SE).

sparrowflewdown · 12/02/2025 14:34

No, never heard of it used it that way.

Zimunya · 12/02/2025 14:34

Madamecholetsbonnet · 12/02/2025 14:31

Is this a northern thing? Not heard it here in my little corner of SE.

I think it's a younger generation thing. DD who was at school in the SE until last year used it a lot, despite me pointing out that it made no sense :)

jollygoose · 12/02/2025 14:36

On a game show when the compere wants to invite applause they say Give it up for .. . It really gives me the ick.

Newmumburnout · 12/02/2025 14:38

Madamecholetsbonnet · 12/02/2025 14:31

Is this a northern thing? Not heard it here in my little corner of SE.

It might well be..I am in the north. I hear it all the time, I am not even sure people use it correctly🤣

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User543211 · 12/02/2025 14:40

Yes it's absolutely everywhere.
My sis uses it loads:
I'm low key thinking of going blonde again.
I low key love that show.
I'm low key annoyed at my boss today
Etc etc
She's 34!

Wavescrashingonthebeach · 12/02/2025 14:41

Madamecholetsbonnet · 12/02/2025 14:31

Is this a northern thing? Not heard it here in my little corner of SE.

It's youth/ youtuber / Internet speak. Probably American but not 100% but definitely hear it alot on American youtube videos

Madamecholetsbonnet · 12/02/2025 14:44

Zimunya · 12/02/2025 14:34

I think it's a younger generation thing. DD who was at school in the SE until last year used it a lot, despite me pointing out that it made no sense :)

Sorry, I should have clarified, I work in a Sixth Form College, so am surrounded by Gen Z speak but not hearing this in Susssx.

Agree it’s annoying.

I hate it on shows like The Masked Singer when Davina shouts “YES!” At people. I don’t get it.

PointsSouth · 12/02/2025 14:45

Phrases that irritate...there are so many...

"I'm not gonna lie..."

Well, I should bloody hope not. However, it does rather suggest that you considered lying and, on this occasion, decided against. I shall bear that in mind in future, and work on the principle that whenever you tell me anything, it's always a toss-up as to whether or not you're telling the truth.

HideousKinky · 12/02/2025 14:48

I have never heard low key used in this way
What does it mean?

WhatATimeToBeAlive · 12/02/2025 14:48

Never heard of low key, if I heard it I'd probably think of the name Loki.

"Feds" for the police always makes me laugh - it's pathetic.

Davros · 12/02/2025 14:50

I've never heard of it used this way. Presumably it's the yoof and not old gimmers like me

Newmumburnout · 12/02/2025 14:51

PointsSouth · 12/02/2025 14:45

Phrases that irritate...there are so many...

"I'm not gonna lie..."

Well, I should bloody hope not. However, it does rather suggest that you considered lying and, on this occasion, decided against. I shall bear that in mind in future, and work on the principle that whenever you tell me anything, it's always a toss-up as to whether or not you're telling the truth.

Edited

This is one of mine too! Do you usually lie but this is the exception ? 🧐

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SoNiceToComeHomeTo · 12/02/2025 14:52

HideousKinky · 12/02/2025 14:48

I have never heard low key used in this way
What does it mean?

Yes what does it mean? I've never heard it used like this.

Elliania · 12/02/2025 14:52

People online say "n then" instead of "and then" and other similar uses of "n" instead of "and". IT'S TWO EXTRA LETTERS FOR THE SAKE OF FUCK.

TheyAreNotAngelsTheyDontCareAtAll · 12/02/2025 14:53

It doesn't even make sense!

Newmumburnout · 12/02/2025 14:53

It's real definition is something simple, not drawing attention. People tend you use it in weird ways though

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RockStarMartini · 12/02/2025 14:54

‘Hard no’ seems to be cropping up everywhere and I find that very irritating 😡

Liz1tummypain · 12/02/2025 14:56

YANBU.

For me, my top 2 that make me want to scream are -

"It is what it is" - pointless. A waste of words.

Also when people talk about someone' " bandwidth ". What do they mean? Scope to take on work? Just use a normal expression for Gods sake. Don't use poncey management-speak.

ThejoyofNC · 12/02/2025 14:56

Oh I hate it, along with majority of 'internet speak'.

Verv · 12/02/2025 14:59

SoNiceToComeHomeTo · 12/02/2025 14:52

Yes what does it mean? I've never heard it used like this.

subtly / quite / quietly / sort of / not in a way that you regularly reference.

Its an annoying and nebulous phrase.

and as a previous poster added hard no, im adding hard agree - drives me nuts.

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