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To be annoyed when people say ....

236 replies

Newmumburnout · 12/02/2025 14:22

low key ? For example someone says " does this top not low key go with these jeans" it seems to be used all the time now. Maybe annoyed is not the right word but it's irritating 🤣 . Light-hearted post really. Are there any sayings that seem to be "trending" that annoys you ?

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WhatterySquash · 12/02/2025 15:50

I like "wheelhouse" though. Fab word.

Tetchypants · 12/02/2025 15:51

Reaching out.

The only reaching out I’ll be doing is to punch you if you say it again,

NotSorry · 12/02/2025 15:51

curating

curating a dress collection, a book collection, a playlist etc.

JUST STOP IT!!!

ISpyNoPlumPie · 12/02/2025 15:53

I hate that hits/doesn’t hit/hits hard. I don’t know why I think it sounds so, so incredibly stupid, but I just find it awful.

I like low key though 😆 embarrassingly, I say quite a few of the listed annoying phrases. But only to be cringe and annoying for my children.

ANameForOscar · 12/02/2025 15:53

My brain 'translates' lol So when people add extra letters for emphasis I find it really odd!

Loooool (laugh out out out out out loud)
Lololol (laugh out loud out loud out loud)

HelpMeUnpickThis · 12/02/2025 15:53

I really can’t get on board with the annoyance.

I still remember my teens and we had stupid words that make no sense.

I am grateful that my children are able to come to me and say these extremely random, senseless (to me) words and phrases.

Making fun of these words/phrases in private is fine but I am very grateful that my children still even engage me on conversations.

Confused30somethings · 12/02/2025 15:57

denhaag · 12/02/2025 15:19

If I wanted to describe that I was talking as I was turning then I would say "as I was turning around I said" - turned is the past tense of turn ie. I turned and then I spoke.
Turning is active - happening at the time.

Its been explained....several times, I'm not doing it again

strongswan · 12/02/2025 15:57

Low key doesn't bother me. I'm another who loathes hearing 'it's giving' though!

Insidethelargeapple · 12/02/2025 15:57

'Think' in articles e.g. 'blue is in (think sunny days)'.

'Shout out to' various hotel staff and waiters in reviews, it drives me mad.

Bbq1 · 12/02/2025 16:01

"With the greatest respect" - always said before the speaker says something quite insulting disrespectful.

AnnoyedAsAllHeck · 12/02/2025 16:01

I'd be tempted to say, "I off-key agree with you." It makes as much sense as their "low-key". But then, I tend to be annoying to those who annoy me.

Newmumburnout · 12/02/2025 16:01

strongswan · 12/02/2025 15:57

Low key doesn't bother me. I'm another who loathes hearing 'it's giving' though!

Yes me aswell, "it's giving holiday vibes" 🙈

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Girasole02 · 12/02/2025 16:03

'If that makes sense' at the end of a sentence.

MoonWoman69 · 12/02/2025 16:03

I know someone who says "know what I mean" literally after every sentence if she's telling me a long story or making a comment on something. Even when I've interjected that I do, it doesn't stop! I thought this had gone out of fashion years ago! It used to annoy me back then!
I live in the North and have never heard low key used like this! I've heard people say "it was a low key affair" as in a small event they've been to. But in the context you've given an example of, it sounds ridiculous and would annoy me instantly!

denhaag · 12/02/2025 16:03

HelpMeUnpickThis · 12/02/2025 15:53

I really can’t get on board with the annoyance.

I still remember my teens and we had stupid words that make no sense.

I am grateful that my children are able to come to me and say these extremely random, senseless (to me) words and phrases.

Making fun of these words/phrases in private is fine but I am very grateful that my children still even engage me on conversations.

Anonymous forum = not private, but I'm pretty sure none of our teenagers are going to find out we've been joking about their language, and even if they did they probably wouldn't care because we can't possibly understand the modern world.

Me getting it off my chest here is more private than DS overhearing me on the phone.
Not that I've thrown any of his phrases in the bag, I think he tends not to use them with me lest I try and get down with the kidz and start using new words with his mates.

FartyAnimal · 12/02/2025 16:06

"I don't want to cause offence, but ..."

Well - you obviously are so just shut the fuck up.

Bbq1 · 12/02/2025 16:07

I absolutely detest it when posters on here say, "My vagina has just clamped/slammed shut". It's a horrible image and makes me wince. I also cannot stand, "That comment made my teeth itch". What does itchy teeth even mean? These phrases are only heard on mn not irl.

Wendolino · 12/02/2025 16:07

ThatEllie · 12/02/2025 15:05

Lowkey annoyed with the posters that didn’t bother to read the OP and are posting random phrases that annoy them. 😂

Even though OP asked "Are there any sayings that seem to be "trending" that annoys you ?"

Bbq1 · 12/02/2025 16:10

RedRobyn2021 · 12/02/2025 15:50

I live in the north and say this, not in that context though

I'll say in reference to plans

"Feel like doing something low key this weekend"

That is the true meaning of low key. I don't even understand how anyone could say "I low key like these jeans". I would understand i don't like these jeans all that much.

DemonicCaveMaggot · 12/02/2025 16:11

'Reaching out' - You are not one of the Four Tops
'Unpicking and unpacking' absolutely everything
Curating - how to tell me you spend too much of your time following influencers without actually telling me

Why is it that most British people can't complete a sentence without the words 'proper' and/or vulnerable'?

DressOrSkirt · 12/02/2025 16:11

It doesn't really make sense how your daughter has used it and I haven't heard it like that.

But for example "I low-key love this song" means I love this song but I'm not going to scream every time it comes on the radio. So low-key doesn't bother me in that sense.

JudgeJ · 12/02/2025 16:13

tobee · 12/02/2025 15:30

Slightly different maybe, but have you noticed that everyone is "welcoming a baby" or they "welcomed their first baby in 2021" etc in news articles? Does anyone say that in real life? Why can't they just say "had a baby"? It isn’t offensive, is it?

Seems to have replaced the overused term in the msm when everyone was a "national treasure". Although now though everything is "iconic". 🙄

Edited

It seems that these days people go round to 'meet' a new baby, to me, if I meet someone, there is an element of a 2-way interaction, what the visitor is doing is seeing the new baby, who really couldn't care less.

Kingsleadhat · 12/02/2025 16:13

butterpuffed · 12/02/2025 15:27

People saying something gives them them the ick.

Posters ending a sentence with , no?

I really hate ending a sentence 'no?' For some reason it sounds condescending

QuinionsRainbow · 12/02/2025 16:13

My pet hate, still round after all these years, is LIKE, as in:

I, like, have to, like, say that I, like, don't like it, like!

Newmumburnout · 12/02/2025 16:16

QuinionsRainbow · 12/02/2025 16:13

My pet hate, still round after all these years, is LIKE, as in:

I, like, have to, like, say that I, like, don't like it, like!

I very nearly typed like in one of my posts and deleted it 🤣

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