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To be annoyed when people say ....

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Newmumburnout · 12/02/2025 14:22

low key ? For example someone says " does this top not low key go with these jeans" it seems to be used all the time now. Maybe annoyed is not the right word but it's irritating 🤣 . Light-hearted post really. Are there any sayings that seem to be "trending" that annoys you ?

OP posts:
Hazylazydays · 12/02/2025 16:17

From the get go 😖

it weird, why not just say from the start or the beginning!

Bumcake · 12/02/2025 16:18

DressOrSkirt · 12/02/2025 16:11

It doesn't really make sense how your daughter has used it and I haven't heard it like that.

But for example "I low-key love this song" means I love this song but I'm not going to scream every time it comes on the radio. So low-key doesn't bother me in that sense.

I would take “low key love” to mean “like”. Which is shorter and clearer to say, so why bother?

Wishboneswishes · 12/02/2025 16:19

Never heard low key in this context at all.

My pet hate is ‘I swear down’

🙄

DressOrSkirt · 12/02/2025 16:21

Bumcake · 12/02/2025 16:18

I would take “low key love” to mean “like”. Which is shorter and clearer to say, so why bother?

Because I don't think it's the same. You can love something in a low key manner.

beasmithwentworth · 12/02/2025 16:23

Yes 2 teens and every other word is low key at the moment. I find it quite amusing (but obviously don't let them know that. It's just nice to have a conversation with them!)

I did use it in response to one of them last night and got a look of horror however!

beasmithwentworth · 12/02/2025 16:24

'I low key think I'm gonna dye my hair darker next time like coz I literally low key hated it how it went last time' etc

HRHTheQueenMuffinTop · 12/02/2025 16:28

beasmithwentworth · 12/02/2025 16:23

Yes 2 teens and every other word is low key at the moment. I find it quite amusing (but obviously don't let them know that. It's just nice to have a conversation with them!)

I did use it in response to one of them last night and got a look of horror however!

I totally put my teens off using 'Slay' by adopting it.

Pity. I low key liked 'Slay'.

DemonicCaveMaggot · 12/02/2025 16:29

Everyone who uses 'signpost' as a verb can just fuck right off too.

notacooldad · 12/02/2025 16:30

Is this a northern thing? Not heard it here in my little corner of SE.
I was just thinking the same, I've never heard this (also in SE)

I've not heard it being used within my northern boundary!

notacooldad · 12/02/2025 16:32

My pet hate is ‘I swear down’
🙄
I use this!
It started as a way of winding ds2 up when he was a teen but it stuck. I work with teens and I pick their lingo up, use it at home without thinking and drive Dh and ds mad!

EternalSunshine19 · 12/02/2025 16:34

JollyHolly30 · 12/02/2025 15:01

I can't stand 'it's giving..'

ie "this skirt is giving 70's glam" or
"it's giving 'obsessed with your ex' "

😡

I completely agree!!

Also hate when people say "vibes" to describe something, when it's not a descriptive word:
"its such a vibe"
"its giving vibes"
"omg vibes"

Babycote · 12/02/2025 16:35

My pet peeve is when people say 'bits' when they mean 'things'

Like "I popped out for some bits"

Doggymummar · 12/02/2025 16:35

Oh, never heard this. Low key. I thought it meant casual. Pop over for dinner, but we're keeping it low key, couple of Tesco pizzas

HazelBite · 12/02/2025 16:37

"Like" every other word ie I was like, it was really like, It seems to have replaced pauses in conversations,
We were on the Eurostar recently, and there was a twenty something chap sitting behind us, he said the word "like" 34 times in about 5 minutes!

Babycote · 12/02/2025 16:37

DemonicCaveMaggot · 12/02/2025 16:29

Everyone who uses 'signpost' as a verb can just fuck right off too.

It's quite useful though? "Can we signpost to some helpful resources on this page" is something I literally said this morning in my job.

Instead of
"Can we put some kind of indication or suggestion of some helpful resources, but with a clear way to access them so it's not just the names but actually the way to get to them as well... On this page"

Newmumburnout · 12/02/2025 16:40

Babycote · 12/02/2025 16:37

It's quite useful though? "Can we signpost to some helpful resources on this page" is something I literally said this morning in my job.

Instead of
"Can we put some kind of indication or suggestion of some helpful resources, but with a clear way to access them so it's not just the names but actually the way to get to them as well... On this page"

Maybe you both work in the same team 🤣

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thenightsky · 12/02/2025 16:40

Using 'Look' or 'Now look' at the start of a sentence. It sounds rude and bossy.

There's a BBC sounds podcast and one of the two presenters starts nearly every one of his sentences with it. I can no longer listen to them. I think its called 'When it Hits the Fan'.

Babycote · 12/02/2025 16:40

"low key" in the jeans example is a bit like:

"I low key love those jeans" = "just quietly, I love those jeans" = "don't freak out but I love those jeans"

Babycote · 12/02/2025 16:41

Newmumburnout · 12/02/2025 16:40

Maybe you both work in the same team 🤣

Haha that is actually possible. I work in big open plan office

Bringbackspring · 12/02/2025 16:42

I've never heard it said. It sounds annoying though so I'm glad I don't speak to very many people!

Adelstrop · 12/02/2025 16:44

‘I was today years old when I realised (x)’ which I see on social media threads. I believe it means ‘I realised x today, at the age of y’, but it is actually illiterate gobbledegook.

Rinkytoo · 12/02/2025 16:44

I DESPISE “trending” terminology, especially when used by peers who are in their late thirties/early fourties and really need to grow up!
”Its the for me” ie. it’s the hair flick for me, or its the side eye for me. Shut up.
Thats the only one I can think of at the moment, but there are loads more.

OlivePeer · 12/02/2025 16:49

"Go [place]"

At first it mostly seemed to be used for "go gym", but recently I've seen "go uni" and "go Tesco".

tobee · 12/02/2025 16:49

Yes @WhatterySquash!! I'd forgotten about "share" 😩

LaMarschallin · 12/02/2025 16:50

ANameForOscar · 12/02/2025 15:53

My brain 'translates' lol So when people add extra letters for emphasis I find it really odd!

Loooool (laugh out out out out out loud)
Lololol (laugh out loud out loud out loud)

Yes, I definitely get that.

I also find something similar happening when people stress or stretch a word by repeating the last letter.
So, instead of "reeeeeeally" they write "reallyyyyyy" which I "hear" as "really yi yi yi yi".

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