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To be annoyed when people say ....

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Newmumburnout · 12/02/2025 14:22

low key ? For example someone says " does this top not low key go with these jeans" it seems to be used all the time now. Maybe annoyed is not the right word but it's irritating 🤣 . Light-hearted post really. Are there any sayings that seem to be "trending" that annoys you ?

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Noranydroptodrink · 12/02/2025 18:22

Newmumburnout · 12/02/2025 14:51

This is one of mine too! Do you usually lie but this is the exception ? 🧐

I think it's just new, but it's a really common way of phrasing things.

"Honestly, I really wished I'd stayed at home..."
"To tell you the truth, I don't really like..."
"Truth be told, I'd rather..."
"In all honesty, I think..."
"Not gonna lie, I wish I'd..."

MissDeborah · 12/02/2025 18:23

Madamecholetsbonnet · 12/02/2025 14:44

Sorry, I should have clarified, I work in a Sixth Form College, so am surrounded by Gen Z speak but not hearing this in Susssx.

Agree it’s annoying.

I hate it on shows like The Masked Singer when Davina shouts “YES!” At people. I don’t get it.

The Masked Singer makes me cringe myself inside out
It's creepy and then they start the chanting " take it off 🤮

Oioisavaloy27 · 12/02/2025 18:24

The word slay!!! Wtf is that all about???

AnotherBritInTheUSA · 12/02/2025 18:24

Wavescrashingonthebeach · 12/02/2025 14:41

It's youth/ youtuber / Internet speak. Probably American but not 100% but definitely hear it alot on American youtube videos

Definitely an American thing, They’ve been saying it here for ages. I don’t mind it but the one that annoys me is saying “a minute” to describe a long time. “I haven’t seen her for a minute” apparently means I haven’t seen her for ages. Drives me mad.

AnotherBritInTheUSA · 12/02/2025 18:27

Georgyporky · 12/02/2025 17:20

My SIL often said "to tell you the truth".
I butted in & said "Why, do you usually lie to me ?"
It worked !

Yes! Same as “If I’m honest ….” Sorry? Was being dishonest an option you were considering?

Wavescrashingonthebeach · 12/02/2025 18:28

AnotherBritInTheUSA · 12/02/2025 18:24

Definitely an American thing, They’ve been saying it here for ages. I don’t mind it but the one that annoys me is saying “a minute” to describe a long time. “I haven’t seen her for a minute” apparently means I haven’t seen her for ages. Drives me mad.

The other American one is "could care less" when they mean "couldn't care less".
Or "I forgot it at home" to mean they left something at home.

WhatterySquash · 12/02/2025 18:29

MissDeborah · 12/02/2025 18:23

The Masked Singer makes me cringe myself inside out
It's creepy and then they start the chanting " take it off 🤮

With the Masked Singer I'm similar to when I saw Naked Attraction - just sitting there with a puzzled look on my face going "Is this actually real? Am I having a dream? This can't be actual telly..."

romatheroamer · 12/02/2025 18:30

I agree about so... which came in a few years ago eg often in radio interviews. So introduces a result or a conclusion not an answer to a question as in "How many people are on that side?" So there are ten people.....

lowlight · 12/02/2025 18:32

Yes - I hear this used by my 17 old daughter regularly.

Also - 'serving' ....as in what do you think of this dress?
is it serving low key glam?

Recently heard this and was really shocked ..........
she was really really serving cunt!!!

Oioisavaloy27 · 12/02/2025 18:33

MissDeborah · 12/02/2025 18:23

The Masked Singer makes me cringe myself inside out
It's creepy and then they start the chanting " take it off 🤮

Absolutely cannot stand that program,I really don't know how people can get hyped up about it!

Brenzett · 12/02/2025 18:34

Blah blah blah blah klaxon

Ireallycantthinkofagoodone · 12/02/2025 18:34

McT123 · 12/02/2025 17:58

Oh dear...

  1. "Less" is not a singular word, nor is "fewer" a plural version. The distinction is between countable and non-countable nouns.
  2. This is an entirely arbitrary "rule" used largely to sneer at people who fail to follow it; there are very few occasions when using the "wrong" one makes a difference to the meaning of the phrase in which either is used.
  3. If it is so important, what is the equivalent partner to "more"?

It seems I have used incorrect terminology here - it’s how I was taught at school (many many years ago).
However, the meaning behind it is the same, eg., less money (not countable) but fewer coins (countable). ‘Money’ is a single noun, and ‘coins’ is quite obviously plural.
It may not make any difference to the meaning, but why wouldn’t people use the correct term?
It appears you sneered at my post.

Girasole02 · 12/02/2025 18:47

'Come with'

'You know what' eg 'and I thought, you know what, ....'

Ponoka7 · 12/02/2025 19:04

Nothatgingerpirate · 12/02/2025 15:08

Yes, absolutely!
Thanks for reminding me of this one.
My husband uses it, I could never understand what the point of turning around was.
I'm not British by origin, but that phrase definitely makes me see red.
Also, noone else has ever used it 😳

The original meaning of that was to turn it back on the person being overly direct/rude/judgemental. Or you turned the direction of the conversation. It then became overused.

admirible · 12/02/2025 19:10

When people say “ no problem” I know it’s not a problem, it’s just your job, so just do it,

AnotherBritInTheUSA · 12/02/2025 19:19

admirible · 12/02/2025 19:10

When people say “ no problem” I know it’s not a problem, it’s just your job, so just do it,

Totally agree and the Australian “No worries”. Why would there be any worries?

admirible · 12/02/2025 19:20

AnotherBritInTheUSA · 12/02/2025 19:19

Totally agree and the Australian “No worries”. Why would there be any worries?

Exactly, it’s like they are trying to offer you a new problem or worry, like you haven’t already got enough.

AnotherBritInTheUSA · 12/02/2025 19:22

admirible · 12/02/2025 19:20

Exactly, it’s like they are trying to offer you a new problem or worry, like you haven’t already got enough.

That’s exactly it

ElleneAsanto · 12/02/2025 19:24

In the UK…
pissed = drunk
pissed off = angry/frustrated about

This is the hill I will die on 😉

VictoriaEra2 · 12/02/2025 19:35

Opening up. Suchabody opens up about their divorce. Tells - speaks about - discusses - anything better than opens up!!

lifeonmars100 · 12/02/2025 19:52

VictoriaEra2 · 12/02/2025 19:35

Opening up. Suchabody opens up about their divorce. Tells - speaks about - discusses - anything better than opens up!!

Along with "breaks cover", "breaks silence" and "issues three word warning" all beloved phrases of the tabloid websites.

lifeonmars100 · 12/02/2025 19:55

Oioisavaloy27 · 12/02/2025 18:33

Absolutely cannot stand that program,I really don't know how people can get hyped up about it!

It has horror film overtones for me. all a bit Wicker Man, come to think of it there's an idea for a costume "set it alight, set it alight"

ErrolTheDragon · 12/02/2025 20:02

admirible · 12/02/2025 19:10

When people say “ no problem” I know it’s not a problem, it’s just your job, so just do it,

Hotel and restaurant staff are moving on from that to 'perfect'.

ElleneAsanto · 12/02/2025 20:03

VictoriaEra2 · 12/02/2025 19:35

Opening up. Suchabody opens up about their divorce. Tells - speaks about - discusses - anything better than opens up!!

I think « opening up » can add nuance that the speaker is now discussing something they were previously reluctant to talk about. I’m all in favour of nuance.

WhatterySquash · 12/02/2025 22:37

Yes "breaks silence"! It should be used for when someone would be expected to say something but has maintained an unexpectedly long silence.

But now it basically means someone said something, at any point. Annoying!

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