So I work in a large secondary school. We have kids who have beaten the shit out of other kids (think jumping on heads) but they still remain in school.
the school has had bikes stolen (from the kids who go here, on cctv, nothing happened). The school was broken into and classrooms smashed up. We know who they are. They are still in school.
there are no consequences. Detentions, isolations, they don’t turn up. We had a separate area for the really violent kids but that’s gone now, they are in mainstream and it’s because of ofsted.
the absolute state of some parents, and yes, this is judgy. Parents that absolutely shouldn’t be having kids (not another 7 anyway), they are drug addicts, in domestic violent relationships, sexual abuse is a lot higher than you think, neglect, etc.
you do feel for these kids. There are so many lost souls, very angry with the world. But we still have a duty of care to all the other children.
we definitely have kids that carry. We have kids who are involved in county lines.
my kids both go to this ‘top’ secondary school. It’s only working in it that you see what really goes on. You wouldn’t know otherwise.