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Kemi B just suggested about Southport....

214 replies

Noangelbuthavingfun · 26/01/2025 10:21

...murders.... that the reason these things happen is because people / immigrants are not being helped to integrate in our society and feel alienated. On Laura K show. Dear lord I'm sorry but that's ludicrous ... if I've misunderstood please help me out. Its really angered me !

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BoldRed · 26/01/2025 12:25

He was violent towards his father. I wouldn’t be surprised if his parents were scared of him. His brother is doing well at a very good university despite being disabled. The baying for their blood/calling for their deportation makes me sick.

infertilitychallenges · 26/01/2025 12:25

SunshinDay · 26/01/2025 12:19

@infertilitychallenges perhaps but his hyper focus was on violence wasn't it and that could have been prompted by his knowledge of his family history and being bullied.

From what I’ve read he apparently called childline a few years ago to ask for help as he wanted to kill people, it’s shocking that even when he asked for help himself it wasn’t there. His parents asked
for help multiple times as well and to no avail. I think it’s wrong to link this to ASD though as it’s clearly a failing on the part of many professionals. Much like in the case of Sara Sharif blame was put on home education when in fact there were a series of failings made by professionals.

Porkyporkchop · 26/01/2025 12:28

PotaytoPotahhto · 26/01/2025 11:16

Ok, let’s blame integration for Southport, even though he was born here and there is nothing to suggest he hated white people, etc.

What’s Kyle Clifford’s excuse?

What about Jon Venebles and Robert Thompson’s reason?

The Southport Killer was clearly extremely mentally disturbed. People like him have existed all throughout time, and on this occasion, immigration and race has nothing to do with it.

He did have a lot of white hate material that he sourced online.

itsnotabouthepasta · 26/01/2025 12:28

Mayflyoff · 26/01/2025 11:07

Whatever the failings were, the most striking thing is that they almost all will have happened over the previous years of Tory government. Most likely as a result of spending cuts and austerity. I almost feel sorry for the current opposition as that must be the case for everything they talk about.

This. This. This.

it happened when Starmer had been PM for what? A week?

anything that happened due to systemic failures were ABSOLUTELY the Tory’s fault. They had been in power since this monster was 3 years old, he spent his entire life under Tory governance,

BoldRed · 26/01/2025 12:30

Porkyporkchop · 26/01/2025 12:28

He did have a lot of white hate material that he sourced online.

Evidence for this claim?

SunshinDay · 26/01/2025 12:31

@itsnotabouthepasta you could go back further actually and look at how services in many areas were wiped out by the needs of people who came here under the Blair government in 2006. Then the credit crunch hit then austerity and here we are.

Mrsbloggz · 26/01/2025 12:34

Generally speaking our deepest instincts/impulses will be to stick with what we know, to stick with the people with whom we have the most in common and who most closely resemble us.
It takes work effort and planning to counteract this, which means that British people also have took overcome their impulses to stick with what they know. In a sense we are all hard wired to reject foreigners to not trust the unfamiliar.
It is better if we can find common ground of course!

Hotflushesandchilblains · 26/01/2025 12:41

SunshinDay · 26/01/2025 12:31

@itsnotabouthepasta you could go back further actually and look at how services in many areas were wiped out by the needs of people who came here under the Blair government in 2006. Then the credit crunch hit then austerity and here we are.

Ok, @SunshinDay - so your thesis is that there was an influx of people who immigrated, who overwhelmed services, under the Labour government of Blair, and that this is the main problem? Not the austerity ideology, which Cameron himself admitted was driven mainly by philosophy? And that 14 years of right wing, small state focus is less the problem in this case than the failings of professionals? I am trying to understand where you are coming from?

How do you explain that most immigrants are productive, helpful, respectful and valuable members of society? That the NHS and other services would collapse without them?

SunshinDay · 26/01/2025 12:41

@BoldRed his dad called police because he fought with him and damaged his car.

maverickfox · 26/01/2025 12:46

SunshinDay · 26/01/2025 11:14

I only agree with her immigration point in so far as we have proved that inspite of cahns, ehcp, police, specialist units and 3 prevent referrals we were unable to reach and stop this boy /man.

So how on earth can we as a society have any hope to track trace help any of the young men coming in on boats by their 1000s from difficult backgrounds?

What are you talking about? He was born here.

Nanny0gg · 26/01/2025 12:46

SunshinDay · 26/01/2025 11:45

@rewilded I thought she was referring to his family though. We don't know or have any evidence to suggest they don't love the UK?
Their other son is fine.
I don't know why or how axel himself was supposed to feel about the UK when he didn't know any difference.
However one does wonder whether autism and bullying helped to shape his future and what in school are we doing about bullying right from reception?

Bugger all ime

SunshinDay · 26/01/2025 12:46

@Hotflushesandchilblains "thesis"?

Where are we? A chat forum or university?

If you're interested there have been desperate calls from charities way back in Blair a day saying they used to have, say 10 people a week needing their services and suddenly there are 30 / 40 and they can't cope.

I'm responding to the poster who soley wants to blame the tories.

Under Blair charities and organisations in many parts of the UK were literally inundated with new cases they couldn't support. Swiftly followed by the global credit crisis, austerity

SunshinDay · 26/01/2025 12:47

@maverickfox I know 🙄

username299 · 26/01/2025 12:49

SunshinDay · 26/01/2025 12:46

@Hotflushesandchilblains "thesis"?

Where are we? A chat forum or university?

If you're interested there have been desperate calls from charities way back in Blair a day saying they used to have, say 10 people a week needing their services and suddenly there are 30 / 40 and they can't cope.

I'm responding to the poster who soley wants to blame the tories.

Under Blair charities and organisations in many parts of the UK were literally inundated with new cases they couldn't support. Swiftly followed by the global credit crisis, austerity

I was working in the third sector when the Tories got in. They almost immediately cut funding by a third.

verycloakanddaggers · 26/01/2025 12:55

SunshinDay · 26/01/2025 11:41

@Hotflushesandchilblains.. But he had access to many agencies.
How could more funding helped?
He was referred to prevent but at that time didn't meet their criteria and when he did apparently his case was closed.
he had access to cahms but both prevent and cahm rely on his interaction.. The police saw him with a knife and took him home when they could have arrested him, his parents reported him.
Nothing.

Are you seriously asking 'how could more funding have helped?' Are you unaware of what has happened to services in the UK since 2010?

More funding for all the vital harm prevention services - social work police, youth services, CAMHS etc. - would allow greater intervention at an earlier stage. The general public is at higher risk due to all the cuts.

SunshinDay · 26/01/2025 12:55

I kmow bold I was referring to his dad and mum being scared of him so mentioned the occasion where he called the police when he fought with him and he's damaged the car.

Namechange1892 · 26/01/2025 12:56

Asvoria · 26/01/2025 11:20

I was born here, but I'm not integrated at all because I'm autistic. I live my life on the margins and have absolutely nothing in common with about 95% of the population, plus I can't even communicate effectively with them. I follow all laws though and don't go around murdering people. My children have similar challenges, but they just have to get on with it too.

People who were born here can't access help for themselves or their children. Why do migrants deserve it more than we do? They get enough as far as I can tell. The country now has to cope with thousands of unknowns entering our communities. Who are these people and what are their backgrounds?

I’m not surprised you’re “not integrated” with your community or with 95% of the population when you lack so much empathy. “They get enough as far as I can tell” — are you from a different planet?

SunshinDay · 26/01/2025 12:57

@verycloakanddaggers perhaps you have not read my posts before diving in..
I said I know all agencies need far more funding but he had access to all these agencies didn't he.
He wasn't denied any access because of a lack of funding but it's clear that each agency was utterly useless in this case?

BoldRed · 26/01/2025 12:58

@SunshinDay yes, and he kicked him too. He also had frightening meltdowns when they tried to limit his internet use. I imagine living with him was extremely difficult

maverickfox · 26/01/2025 13:00

SunshinDay · 26/01/2025 12:57

@verycloakanddaggers perhaps you have not read my posts before diving in..
I said I know all agencies need far more funding but he had access to all these agencies didn't he.
He wasn't denied any access because of a lack of funding but it's clear that each agency was utterly useless in this case?

Maybe if they had more funding they would have had more options for him, more staff and so on. It is clearly a funding issue.

verycloakanddaggers · 26/01/2025 13:00

SunshinDay · 26/01/2025 12:57

@verycloakanddaggers perhaps you have not read my posts before diving in..
I said I know all agencies need far more funding but he had access to all these agencies didn't he.
He wasn't denied any access because of a lack of funding but it's clear that each agency was utterly useless in this case?

I don't think you understand how the harm prevention services work.

If they are short of money, they have to 'prioritise' - and this is where it gets dangerous for the public.

He did not have access - why are you saying that? What do you even mean by the word 'access'?

SunshinDay · 26/01/2025 13:00

His mum called 999 when he went missing and they found him when a bus driver called 999 and they found a knife. They told the family to protect their knives.

SunshinDay · 26/01/2025 13:02

Cloak he had an ehcp, cahms, police, prevent and the last service from the special school for excluded children who were scared of him and gently trying to help him think about the victims of his hero's.

verycloakanddaggers · 26/01/2025 13:02

SunshinDay · 26/01/2025 13:00

His mum called 999 when he went missing and they found him when a bus driver called 999 and they found a knife. They told the family to protect their knives.

This is exactly the sort of non-response that results from a chronic lack of funding in the harm prevention services.