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Is it really that wrong to want for your country what Trump stands for?

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Anniedash · 20/01/2025 06:51

I know that there are plenty of threads on Trump at the moment, but most of them are designed to rubbish the guy. That’s been done to death in the last 10 years.

He has still won two presidential elections so perhaps it’s time to move the discussion on a bit.Let’s put aside Trump’s personality, bluster, and whether he will deliver or not, for a second.

Is it really so wrong and bad to want to go for what his core message is? Why is the far right label used so liberally and will we ever see a government in this country which can tackle this madness -

A stop to or huge reduction in illegal immigration

Putting your own country first ahead of internationalism. It’s not a novel idea and certainly not a byword for automatically wanting war. In fact Trump’s argument is that war is bad

Saying no the climate hysteria. Climate change is real but climate emergency seems to be a made up concept to simply tax people to death to re distribute taxes to government lobbyists. Why should people accept being poorer in the name of this dangerous ideology

Putting a stop to woke madness. When did it become ok for state sponsored mutilation of children? Men pretending to be women in prison and hospitals getting access to women’s spaces. People being sanctioned do not using the correct pronouns

Driving the economy forward and putting a stop to endless freebies for those who have no intention of contributing to the system and refuse to work because they are sad.

The fact that someone as eccentric as Trump has to fly the flag for common sense ideas shows you just how batshit the political discourse has become.

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Dynamo101 · 20/01/2025 07:47

Ok I’ll bite:

A stop to or huge reduction in illegal immigration

  • It’s a problem because he does this by stirring up racial hatred, eg calling Mexican immigrants rapists and saying Hatians will eat your pets. If he engaged in non-hateful rhetoric it wouldn’t be such a problem.

Putting your own country first ahead of internationalism. It’s not a novel idea and certainly not a byword for automatically wanting war. In fact Trump’s argument is that war is bad.

  • It depends on how much you care about humanity and shared Western values such as freedom from persecution, democracy, etc. Trump’s position is valid, but lots of people have a social conscience the extends beyond the borders of their country. There’s also the fact that WMD have the capacity to destroy the world, not only the countries they’re used in, so we all de facto have an interest in preventing foreign conflict.

Saying no the climate hysteria. Climate change is real but climate emergency seems to be a made up concept to simply tax people to death to re distribute taxes to government lobbyists. Why should people accept being poorer in the name of this dangerous ideology.

  • Because the climate emergency is real. Trump here is doing what is popular instead of what is right. He would rather screw the entire world and generations to come than sacrifice his own popularity. It’s despicable and history will damn him for his lack of action on this.

Putting a stop to woke madness. When did it become ok for state sponsored mutilation of children? Men pretending to be women in prison and hospitals getting access to women’s spaces. People being sanctioned do not using the correct pronouns.

  • It’s an issue, but again, Trump uses hatred here to gain favour with his voter base. This is a complex issue that he is taking complete advantage of.

Driving the economy forward and putting a stop to endless freebies for those who have no intention of contributing to the system and refuse to work because they are sad.

  • Not really sure what you’re on about here because I don’t live in America. I wasn't aware that people are given freebies because they are sad. It sounds like you mean state benefits? I’d guess that tackling the issue at source and addressing the reasons why people are ‘sad’ might be a good starting point, maybe Trump is doing that, IDK?

The fact that someone as eccentric as Trump has to fly the flag for common sense ideas shows you just how batshit the political discourse has become.

  • Nah it’s the other way around. The political discourse became batshit. All the crazies found each other online. Trump’s just taking advantage of this.
AIBot · 20/01/2025 07:51

Saying no the climate hysteria.

I didn’t get past this part. Science denial.

NotSayingImBatman · 20/01/2025 07:51

hamstersarse · 20/01/2025 07:43

His cronies have removed the right of a 12 year old girl to abort her rapist’s baby. He’s a sex offender himself. In certain states, it may soon become law that if a woman does ANYTHING that the court deems contributed to her miscarriage, she will be sentenced as if she took the life of an actual person

How do you not know that Trump has stated a hundred times that he’s leaving the abortion laws up to the states? You even say it in your post that “in some states” yet somehow that is orange Hitler’s fault still?

That’s restricted access to abortion and he’s in favour of it, no matter which way you slice it.

ChicLilacSeal · 20/01/2025 07:53

BooToYouHalloween · 20/01/2025 06:57

Curious about those who voted YABU. Everything you’ve written seems perfectly sensible to me. I am so bored of Trump alarmism at this point. It’s like people forget we were all sentient between 2016-2020 and can remember the world didn’t collapse into fascism and anarchy.

I voted YABU because of the OP's insane statement that there's no climate emergency. Also:

Illegal immigrants are the engine of the economy. We need them in America. They do the jobs no one else wants to do, they work really hard, and they pay taxes. For those who don't know, there's a system whereby you can pay taxes even if you're here illegally. America is a massive country with an insane amount of room, and it's built on immigrants. I'm one of them (but not illegal). Perhaps America should make it easier for people who want to work hard to come here. They often come from countries where life is unbearable. I don't blame them. If I lived in one of those countries and I could come here illegally if there wasn't a legal option, I would do the same. I know that illegal immigration is wrong, but they're mostly OK, and it's not something I get that het up about. I know some of them and they're great.

OP's statement about state-sponsored mutilation of children is deeply offensive. I don't agree with under-18s having gender treatment either, but these are usually older teens who have gone through psychological testing and are insisting that this is what they want. This doesn't make it right, but OP has no right to make it sound as if the US government is doing something akin to countries that practise FGM. Those children have no choice, unlike the children who get gender treatment in the US because they are strongly insisting, over a long period of time, on having it.

As for her statement about people who refuse to work because they are sad....absolute typical right-wing misunderstanding of serious mental-health issues, and this, together with the astoundingly ignorant statement that there's no climate emergency, just sums up a typical not-very-bright Trump voter. No compassion for what might drive people to come here illegally, no faith in the science of climate change, hysteria over gender treatment. Also, as to her point about the US putting itself first, wouldn't that be nice, but the trouble is that the size and power and strength of the US makes its role as the world's policeman a hugely stabilizing force in the world order, and if we ignore all the unrest in the world, things will implode and the US will bear the consequences anyway.

OP, what is it that makes you think there's no climate emergency? Is it the wildfires sweeping through California? The unprecedented rains in Europe? The droughts? The severe storms?

GutsyShark · 20/01/2025 07:53

Blue278 · 20/01/2025 07:24

Anyone can promise people things. Appeal to base instincts. You can’t ’put aside’ whether or not he’ll deliver them or even try to.

I also keep thinking of Hitler. He wasn’t good for Germany or anyone else in the end was he?

US politics is scary. Where are the smart people? Why can’t they get a go?

I need to phrase this VERY carefully, but although Hitler was in charge there were lots of other people around him who enacted/helped enact the worst policies of the Nazi party. And many more people who stood by and watched it happen.

The Nazis created an environment which encouraged people’s darkest sides. Which is very dangerous.

Although Hitler’s name is the one that is remembered and quoted most often, I think the people we really needed to fear were the people around him.

EveryDayisFriday · 20/01/2025 07:54

He's a rich orange white man who despises women. He does not give a fuck about the general population other than what he can get from them (power/ adoration/ money) and certainly does not want to improve their lives. People of colour are even further down that list.

He's been put into power by wealthy corporations. I'm astounded that people aren't seeing the comparisons with 1933 Germany. The hate, derision, misinformation, lies, propaganda, lack of education. There's no excuse for it.

showmethegin · 20/01/2025 07:56

hamstersarse · 20/01/2025 07:40

When you realise that pretty much everything you’ve heard about Trump is twisted and a lie, it’s quite something.

lots of the lies appearing on this thread already: Charlottesville, convicted sex offender, only out for rich people.

Op, I agree with you fully, but Trump Derangement Syndrome is a real thing. All they see is orange Hitler, there’s no budging this view despite, as you say, him literally being the president for 4 years and already getting a ceasefire in Israel/palestine through,

Sorry what about Charlottesville was a lie?

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 20/01/2025 07:57

Moonlightstars · 20/01/2025 07:08

He can't. Unless of course you are a very rich person, then you're likely to become even richer.

This. This is what it boils down to and this is why he's in power. And somehow he managed to convince a lot of non rich people that he'll make them so too if the voted for him.

The poor, the environment, medical services, wanting your kid to be able to go to school without getting a bullet in them? Oh screw those. Money talks.

NetZeroZealot · 20/01/2025 07:57

Climate hysteria?
I suppose the LA fires were overdone …

SallyWD · 20/01/2025 07:57

EveryDayisFriday · 20/01/2025 07:54

He's a rich orange white man who despises women. He does not give a fuck about the general population other than what he can get from them (power/ adoration/ money) and certainly does not want to improve their lives. People of colour are even further down that list.

He's been put into power by wealthy corporations. I'm astounded that people aren't seeing the comparisons with 1933 Germany. The hate, derision, misinformation, lies, propaganda, lack of education. There's no excuse for it.

I think a lot of people are seeing the comparison with 1930s Germany. We see the comparisons here too - with the race riots that took place in the summer. It's why so many people label this rhetoric as far right but we get shouted down and told that these people are just "patriots" who've "had enough". I find it scary.

Jjjiiii · 20/01/2025 07:59

Agree, the “liberal gullibles” have wrecked Britain. Any opposition or even questioning has been silenced by the blob, and more recently the Courts.

All we can do is hope for some kind of renewal with emerging political leaders.

DancefloorAcrobatics · 20/01/2025 08:00

It's all the hatred and shit stirring that's wrong with his policies.

It's the deterioration of women's rights, ostraciseing of anyone that isn't white & straight and the glorification of violence.

That's what stands behind these policies.

ChicLilacSeal · 20/01/2025 08:01

EveryDayisFriday · 20/01/2025 07:54

He's a rich orange white man who despises women. He does not give a fuck about the general population other than what he can get from them (power/ adoration/ money) and certainly does not want to improve their lives. People of colour are even further down that list.

He's been put into power by wealthy corporations. I'm astounded that people aren't seeing the comparisons with 1933 Germany. The hate, derision, misinformation, lies, propaganda, lack of education. There's no excuse for it.

I don't agree with the comparison with Nazi Germany, because Trump is not rounding people up for their religion, smashing their businesses, making them wear special badges, restricting their abilities to go where they want and do what they want, making them live in ghettos, and sending them to camps. I think it's very disrespectful to Jewish people to make those comparisons.

ChicLilacSeal · 20/01/2025 08:02

SallyWD · 20/01/2025 07:57

I think a lot of people are seeing the comparison with 1930s Germany. We see the comparisons here too - with the race riots that took place in the summer. It's why so many people label this rhetoric as far right but we get shouted down and told that these people are just "patriots" who've "had enough". I find it scary.

Where's "here"? Which country are you in?

RabbitsRock · 20/01/2025 08:03

Trump was on tv yesterday - I was only half watching but think it was some sort of rally. I had to switch off because it was just bonkers! It boggles the mind that a man like Donald Trump could even get close to running the most powerful country in the world once but he gets to do it for a 2nd time! The term “Orange Hitler” is hilarious & terrifying in equal measure.

GutsyShark · 20/01/2025 08:04

ChicLilacSeal · 20/01/2025 08:01

I don't agree with the comparison with Nazi Germany, because Trump is not rounding people up for their religion, smashing their businesses, making them wear special badges, restricting their abilities to go where they want and do what they want, making them live in ghettos, and sending them to camps. I think it's very disrespectful to Jewish people to make those comparisons.

The Nazis didn’t say they were going to do all of that when they got elected tho. They got elected then refuse to give up power. Which trump tried to do in 2020.

That’s the truly frightening thing about the Nazis, Stalin and Mao killed far more people but they didn’t get elected. The Nazis were elected. People didn’t expect things to get as bad as they did when they voted for them.

SallyWD · 20/01/2025 08:04

ChicLilacSeal · 20/01/2025 08:01

I don't agree with the comparison with Nazi Germany, because Trump is not rounding people up for their religion, smashing their businesses, making them wear special badges, restricting their abilities to go where they want and do what they want, making them live in ghettos, and sending them to camps. I think it's very disrespectful to Jewish people to make those comparisons.

All that came later on. It start with scapegoating, with an "us and them", othering mentality. His language is absolutely far right at times.

SallyWD · 20/01/2025 08:06

ChicLilacSeal · 20/01/2025 08:02

Where's "here"? Which country are you in?

UK which is why I mentioned the riots that happened last summer.

timetodecide2345 · 20/01/2025 08:06

Do you remember when Trump made fun of the reporter with a disability

Yeah that's also part of his core message!

oatmilk4breakfast · 20/01/2025 08:07

He deliberately devised and followed a policy of maximum harm to children and families crossing the border from Mexico. That tells me most of what I need to know about him.

MissyB1 · 20/01/2025 08:07

PokerFriedDips · 20/01/2025 07:12

Putting aside Trump's personality and bluster is a mistake. They are an intrinsic part of the package designed to filter out the attention of anyone with intelligence and insight as a deliberate strategy.

It's like the obvious mistakes in spelling and grammar in a scam email that is trying to dupe you into financial ruin. They are there deliberately because that means the scammers know that anyone who engages with the too-good-to-be-true offer of a rich reward will by definition be a bit thick.

In the same way, Trump's message is obscured within a package that will be so offputting to genuinely intelligent people that they won't engage with the offer in the same way as they would in the context of intelligent debate. Sadly in the USA there's enough people who fall for the bluster.

Trump's policies are not common sense and will not achieve good outcomes. Good policies are based on evidence and rational thought and when those are rejected in favour of hyperbole and populism it's unrealistic to call that "common sense"

Yes exactly the same was true of Boris, the silly fake bluster, messy hair etc.. all part of his strategy.

Newbutoldfather · 20/01/2025 08:08

I think Trump is a necessary reaction to a move too far to what is called the left these days.

Globalisation and unfettered immigration has benefited the wealthy far more than Trump ever will. The liberal left has pretended that it is about being nice, educated and compassionate whereas a lot of the reality of globalisation has been holding inflation down by importing cheap labour to displace the domestic working classes, the one disadvantaged class they really don’t care about.

Also, the idea that all cultures are equal is quite a dangerous one. Multiculturalism has been a disaster. Accepting people who don’t accept you and your basic values is only going to lead to trouble.

So a swing back in the pendulum was long overdue, but some of Trump’s rhetoric is truly scary. He does seem to have racist tendencies and is probably a misogynist. It is good to move a little away from globalism and back towards patriotism, as long as that doesn’t swing to jingoism and aggressive nationalism.

The proof of the pudding will be in the eating. It will certainly be interesting !

rewilded · 20/01/2025 08:09

Are most people using chgpt to start or answer posts now? I can't understand how people have the time to formulate such well argued/informed posts alt atm.

Kindling1970 · 20/01/2025 08:09

He is terrible because he has done what farage did here. He encouraged disadvantaged people to turn on even more disadvantaged people so they wouldn’t turn on the rich and powerful who are the real reason they are disadvantaged. Watch them fight those that can’t fight back while making sure your wealth and power grows. Farage was an ex banker not a rucking man of the people.

SallyWD · 20/01/2025 08:09

oatmilk4breakfast · 20/01/2025 08:07

He deliberately devised and followed a policy of maximum harm to children and families crossing the border from Mexico. That tells me most of what I need to know about him.

Way before he president he bullied and harassed a Scottish person who didn't want to give up their land for his golf course in Scotland. That told me all I needed to know about him. I had no idea he'd become president, but I knew he was a loathsome person. Since then, he's done and said hundreds of different things that confirm how loathsome he is.

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