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Is this woman a genius or a damaged individual?Bonnie Blue

522 replies

Emilyisherenow · 15/01/2025 15:54

I've fallen down a bit of a rabbit hole lately reading about Bonnie Blue and her mate Lily Phillips.

Both are Only Fans 'stars'. Who've recently gone all over the internet. One for having sex with 100 men in 24 hours and more recently Bonnie Blue for claiming to have broken the world record by having sex with over 1000 men in 12 hours.

I've seen some of their leaked only fans stuff and it's all pretty tame and dull but also quite gross in my opinion. Lots of group sex with multiple masked men who call them slluts and slap their willies in the womens faces while the women pretend to be having the time of their lives.

Lily Philips imo looks particular distressed in some of the videos. Bonnie looks much more detached from it.

Bonnie is also making the news with some of her stunts and derogatory comments about women. All done for click bait I'm sure.

Anyway, onto my aibu.

Even putting aside the very obvious dangers and health risks. Bonnie Blue is now a millionaire. She could probably retire by 30 and be set for life.

I can't decide whether I think she's extremely savvy and smart to be able to do these things but ultimately scone a very rich woman or whether she's deep down very distressed and damaged and will suffer long term.

Do you think you could do any of the things this woman has done if it guaranteed you'd be a millionaire in a few years?

OP posts:
DreamW3aver · 15/01/2025 18:20

username299 · 15/01/2025 17:01

All these threads are doing is driving more traffic to their Onlyfans sites.

I'd be willing to bet that not a single person is hearing about this for the first time on this thread and then decides to sign up to her onlyfans

Tittat50 · 15/01/2025 18:20

If she has a personality type where she is able to compartmentalise and can't ever live in reality ( much like some narcissist individuals do), then she's going to be fine mentally with what she has done and to her this was a great achievement and outcome.

Most of us here are probably older and wiser and know that the sort of guy she'll end up with ( I'm sure she'll be after one at some point) is going to be questionable now. Any of her kids will be completely wrecked mentally in some way. Her health is possibly impacted even if mentally she can live in delusion. Her foof is probably going to be a mess.

For her this night all be worth it because she doesn't think or can't think like most of us. This outcome compared to poverty may for her brain be a better outcome.

What she's done for the rest of women however is so damaging I want to punch her in her half brained head. I watched one of her videos and the young disgusting guys were constantly saying things like this is what good girls should do. So it's just further setting up women for a real nightmare with the increasing number of guys who will watch this crap thinking it's how it should be.

username299 · 15/01/2025 18:23

DreamW3aver · 15/01/2025 18:20

I'd be willing to bet that not a single person is hearing about this for the first time on this thread and then decides to sign up to her onlyfans

That's silly of me. I thought other people could read threads as it's a public forum. National newspapers create content from threads. I doubt the forum has ever been used to promote anything before. You're quite right.

GooseMoose2 · 15/01/2025 18:23

Emilyisherenow · 15/01/2025 16:40

She doesn't look 25. I wondered if she was lying. But I think she'd have been outed.

No idea if it would ruin her genitals. I can't imagine it could be very good for you down there.

Her mum and stepdad are involved and support her/promote her which seems very messed up.

It's going to come back to bite her if she ever wants a normal partner/children.

OTOH I still keep thinking. She's worth 3 million and is set to make more.

When I say genius I mean in terms of she's made millions from sex work. Something most couldn't and wouldn't be able to do. Wouldn't want to do and she might be young enough to walk away from it all very rich.

I think that she could be 25, the Botox and fillers have aged her. Also I think her hair looks a bit dated.

MJconfessions · 15/01/2025 18:23

Emilyisherenow · 15/01/2025 18:14

Yeah I agree. Plus how do you define a destroyed fanny anyway? Is it one that's no longer tight for men's pleasure?

Although I think women hate her because she's really letting the side down. Women have fought for equality and stunts like this will set women back.

Bonnie has also made a lot of derogatory comments about women. She's putting a lot of people's health at risk.

I assumed the comments about destroying her vagina were around STIs - I think that’s a real risk under circumstances. Would likely be hard to contact all 1000+ involved too to get them tested/traced. Could literally be a public health issue if those people then go on to infect others etc.

RobinMcfly · 15/01/2025 18:23

where some posters presume because of what shes done, she will get an omg partner, but at the same time how many threads on here have been where the woman is very respectable etc but still ended up with an omg partner ?

SabreIsMyFave · 15/01/2025 18:24

HellsBells67 · 15/01/2025 17:16

Damaged soul in the truest sense. It reminds me of those women who go to Dubai and have some rich Arab shit in their mouths so they can carry designer handbags and look rich whilst dying inside.

😖 WTAF?! Confused Who does that? What women let Arabs shit in their mouth to get a designer handbag?!

Or are you making this up for dramatic affect?!

SabreIsMyFave · 15/01/2025 18:24

RobinMcfly · 15/01/2025 18:23

where some posters presume because of what shes done, she will get an omg partner, but at the same time how many threads on here have been where the woman is very respectable etc but still ended up with an omg partner ?

What is an omg partner?

RobinMcfly · 15/01/2025 18:25

SabreIsMyFave · 15/01/2025 18:24

What is an omg partner?

A** hole, but i prefer not to swear

AngeloMysterioso · 15/01/2025 18:25

If she's not a damaged individual now she's definitely going to be in the future.

Cattery · 15/01/2025 18:25

Yes, what’s an OMG partner???

RobinMcfly · 15/01/2025 18:26

Cattery · 15/01/2025 18:25

Yes, what’s an OMG partner???

Edited

A** hole, but i prefer not to swear

SabreIsMyFave · 15/01/2025 18:26

TerracottaWorrier · 15/01/2025 18:01

My goodness, the way these women are being spoken about on this thread has made me feel quite ill.

Why?

Eyesopenwideawake · 15/01/2025 18:26

SabreIsMyFave · 15/01/2025 18:24

😖 WTAF?! Confused Who does that? What women let Arabs shit in their mouth to get a designer handbag?!

Or are you making this up for dramatic affect?!

It's true. Do NOT look for evidence, trust me - it's out there.

SabreIsMyFave · 15/01/2025 18:26

RobinMcfly · 15/01/2025 18:26

A** hole, but i prefer not to swear

Oh I haven't heard this before.

MeltingSky · 15/01/2025 18:26

SabreIsMyFave · 15/01/2025 18:24

😖 WTAF?! Confused Who does that? What women let Arabs shit in their mouth to get a designer handbag?!

Or are you making this up for dramatic affect?!

It is very real, I assure you

SabreIsMyFave · 15/01/2025 18:27

Eyesopenwideawake · 15/01/2025 18:26

It's true. Do NOT look for evidence, trust me - it's out there.

Ewwwwwwwwwww........ 😖

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MJconfessions · 15/01/2025 18:28

SabreIsMyFave · 15/01/2025 18:24

😖 WTAF?! Confused Who does that? What women let Arabs shit in their mouth to get a designer handbag?!

Or are you making this up for dramatic affect?!

I want to know where this has come from too.

I don’t think OP is making it up personally, as every year people on X post this story, about a woman who went to Dubai and had this and more shocking things happen to her like being gang abused and then thrown into the sea. It gets reposted and repeated every year and goes viral but idk if it’s true.

I feel like Dubai has a reputation of extreme sex work but I don’t know if that is rumour or true either.

ohyesido · 15/01/2025 18:28

Sold their souls. Lily is already showing signs of emotional distress, Bonnie has a harder exterior but she's lying about the 12 hours. I wouldn't call brief penetration every 40 seconds having sex.

SabreIsMyFave · 15/01/2025 18:28

MeltingSky · 15/01/2025 18:26

It is very real, I assure you

Ewwwwwwwwwwwww again! 😖 Shock

SabreIsMyFave · 15/01/2025 18:29

MJconfessions · 15/01/2025 18:28

I want to know where this has come from too.

I don’t think OP is making it up personally, as every year people on X post this story, about a woman who went to Dubai and had this and more shocking things happen to her like being gang abused and then thrown into the sea. It gets reposted and repeated every year and goes viral but idk if it’s true.

I feel like Dubai has a reputation of extreme sex work but I don’t know if that is rumour or true either.

Yeah, part of me is thinking it's an urban myth (I HOPE SO!)

But I don't know for sure of course.

Cattery · 15/01/2025 18:29

MeltingSky · 15/01/2025 18:26

It is very real, I assure you

For a handbag? Jeez. Not a big house? 🤣

SabreIsMyFave · 15/01/2025 18:30

Cattery · 15/01/2025 18:29

For a handbag? Jeez. Not a big house? 🤣

Yeah, at least get something decent out of it! 😆

Jk987 · 15/01/2025 18:30

DecayingRelic · 15/01/2025 15:57

prostitute with no shame

Should she be cowering in shame?

I think that's the job of the men .

tolerable · 15/01/2025 18:33

consider Maadame Pelicote,subjected to massive amounts of men ,(who denied raping her) opt for stndrd victim blme, ver hours in court,in real life and she may never ever have knew....bravely facing her abusers and the world with dignity,strength and all the right reasons...particularly even further shite "trauma informed courtroom twisted knife in further permiting the pelicot mans poem be read-so still had a voice...
thats abuse, almost beyond belief...
CHOICE is very relevant. ..
maybe talk about her not bonnie n the other one..i wont remeber their names