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Is this woman a genius or a damaged individual?Bonnie Blue

522 replies

Emilyisherenow · 15/01/2025 15:54

I've fallen down a bit of a rabbit hole lately reading about Bonnie Blue and her mate Lily Phillips.

Both are Only Fans 'stars'. Who've recently gone all over the internet. One for having sex with 100 men in 24 hours and more recently Bonnie Blue for claiming to have broken the world record by having sex with over 1000 men in 12 hours.

I've seen some of their leaked only fans stuff and it's all pretty tame and dull but also quite gross in my opinion. Lots of group sex with multiple masked men who call them slluts and slap their willies in the womens faces while the women pretend to be having the time of their lives.

Lily Philips imo looks particular distressed in some of the videos. Bonnie looks much more detached from it.

Bonnie is also making the news with some of her stunts and derogatory comments about women. All done for click bait I'm sure.

Anyway, onto my aibu.

Even putting aside the very obvious dangers and health risks. Bonnie Blue is now a millionaire. She could probably retire by 30 and be set for life.

I can't decide whether I think she's extremely savvy and smart to be able to do these things but ultimately scone a very rich woman or whether she's deep down very distressed and damaged and will suffer long term.

Do you think you could do any of the things this woman has done if it guaranteed you'd be a millionaire in a few years?

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wriggleigglepiggle · 15/01/2025 18:00

Hwi · 15/01/2025 17:52

Why are you even bothered by this filth?

Because of the horrific effect she could have on young girls who think this sort of thing is acceptable

NoSoupForU · 15/01/2025 18:01

I think she's rancid. An absolute stain on society. Any man saying he wants barely legals to fuck would rightly be called a creep.

TerracottaWorrier · 15/01/2025 18:01

My goodness, the way these women are being spoken about on this thread has made me feel quite ill.

Emilyisherenow · 15/01/2025 18:01

HowToSaveAWife · 15/01/2025 17:56

I'll be very, very surprised if in a year or more down the line it doesn't come out that she's experiencing some sort of mania. She looks too detached from the whole thing, even accepting degradation on the street but doesn't even seem to register this fully? Something's off.

If I'm wrong though and she's totally 100 per cent then... I hope she's thought it through. I try not to shame sex workers, but no one comes out of this looking well. The 1000+ men queuing up for hours just makes me feel a bit ill.

Yes, I wonder whether she has been abused.

Simply put I think sometimes trauma can make you detach completely from sex. Making money from it can also be a at of feeling if taking back control.

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Maia77 · 15/01/2025 18:02

Damaged individual or if not damaged yet this will definitely damage her.

Finetoday · 15/01/2025 18:03

The maths don’t work unless it’s literally in, thrust, withdraw, next.
And Mr Next would have to be right there next to them ughh.
Surely there would be limp Willy hold-ups (no pun), and ones who peaked too soon.
The place must have stank of bums- grim.

Ghostofallnightmares · 15/01/2025 18:04

It's impossible to answer how they will reflect on their actions or the impact it may have on their lives - if any.
It's entirely possible they will be absolutely fine about their choice. You can't project morality or possible regret onto someone. It's too individual.

Saschka · 15/01/2025 18:06

wriggleigglepiggle · 15/01/2025 17:48

The 'mum' is also supposedly another adult actress and not her real mum ????? Not sure if that's true but quite a few people saying it

Well that’s better than her real mum and stepdad pimping her out, which seems really exploitative.

DaDaDoDaiDa · 15/01/2025 18:07

I would struggle to find 10 men who'd want sex with me, let alone 100 or 1000😁

SideEyeSally · 15/01/2025 18:09

Dominoeffecter · 15/01/2025 17:03

Not really how ‘Fanny’s’ work

Repetitive over penetration can cause massive damage to vaginas. Many of the so called comfort women abused by Japanese soldiers in WW2 lost their fertility from purely mechanical damage of being repeatedly raped.

SinisterBumFacedCat · 15/01/2025 18:10

I try to get my head round the mechanics of it, ok so I am coming at this from the angle of a middle aged peri woman, but even in my 20’s with a Teflon vagina, long sex sessions made me sore (and bored!) I can’t see how a vagina could take a day of constant sex without resulting in the mother of all UTI’s.

Theres also and undercurrent of misogyny from the pair of them, the competitiveness and gloating about having sex with other women’s husbands. Like they majorly resent women who don’t act like they do.

tolerable · 15/01/2025 18:11

batshitaboutcatshit · 15/01/2025 17:05

Lily Philips defo not a genius - she said she didn't use protection because she didn't realise you could catch HIV through sex

she be worried in case she has a 100 babies then too

WhoisRebecca · 15/01/2025 18:11

I really wish posters would stop making derogatory comments about another woman’s genitalia. I don’t agree with what she’s doing but the comments about her ‘fanny’ being destroyed are just internalised misogyny. Let’s not be culpable in our own oppression. We are made to give birth so I doubt these men have caused any real damage about from the obvious and more worrying STI risks.

Emilyisherenow · 15/01/2025 18:11

DaDaDoDaiDa · 15/01/2025 18:07

I would struggle to find 10 men who'd want sex with me, let alone 100 or 1000😁

You'd be surprised.

However, the other woman Lily Philips who is actually very attractive said she struggled to find 100. She said loads dropped out on the day and they had to pull in men off the street.

So Bonnie did well to find 1000. If it happened of course.

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User32459 · 15/01/2025 18:11

TerracottaWorrier · 15/01/2025 18:01

My goodness, the way these women are being spoken about on this thread has made me feel quite ill.

It might not be nice but anything goes liberalism has created this society. There's no shame left in society.

Saschka · 15/01/2025 18:11

Finetoday · 15/01/2025 18:03

The maths don’t work unless it’s literally in, thrust, withdraw, next.
And Mr Next would have to be right there next to them ughh.
Surely there would be limp Willy hold-ups (no pun), and ones who peaked too soon.
The place must have stank of bums- grim.

There was some mention of her doing 5 men at once, so presumably not all 1057 men actually had PIV sex with her. That would give her 3-4 minutes per group, which seems more feasible (though also more grim).

User32459 · 15/01/2025 18:12

DaDaDoDaiDa · 15/01/2025 18:07

I would struggle to find 10 men who'd want sex with me, let alone 100 or 1000😁

No, you'd have thousands willing for sure.

Never overestimate male standards.

IWasBornIn1989 · 15/01/2025 18:13

There’s a grim documentary, YouTube I think, about the other girl Lily. She slept with 100 strangers in one day, I think in an Airbnb. Quote “there was proof in the room too, with used condoms and wrappers left all over the floor. When the documentary crew walked in, the camera operator can be seen gagging from the smell.”

I don’t know what drives them to do it. Infamy, money, self harm. God knows. It’s utterly, utterly grim and a horrible reminder than a lot of men have absolutely no boundaries 🤢

FrippEnos · 15/01/2025 18:13

Yet these women have found men to take part in their stunts. A lot of the men will have wives and girlfriends and they are risking their partners sexual health.

Although some of these men will have wives and girlfriends. Isn't this the woman that had to take to university campuses to get the numbers up, and still couldn't get enough men so had to resort to other means to get the numbers?

Emilyisherenow · 15/01/2025 18:14

WhoisRebecca · 15/01/2025 18:11

I really wish posters would stop making derogatory comments about another woman’s genitalia. I don’t agree with what she’s doing but the comments about her ‘fanny’ being destroyed are just internalised misogyny. Let’s not be culpable in our own oppression. We are made to give birth so I doubt these men have caused any real damage about from the obvious and more worrying STI risks.

Yeah I agree. Plus how do you define a destroyed fanny anyway? Is it one that's no longer tight for men's pleasure?

Although I think women hate her because she's really letting the side down. Women have fought for equality and stunts like this will set women back.

Bonnie has also made a lot of derogatory comments about women. She's putting a lot of people's health at risk.

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RobinMcfly · 15/01/2025 18:15

From a medical standpoint:

The vagina naturally stretches during activities such as intercourse or childbirth but retains its elasticity.

Moonshinebaby · 15/01/2025 18:18

I can't tell if they are geniuses or broken people.

I think there's a real danger though to glamorise sex work to young girls

Jl2014 · 15/01/2025 18:18

All this tells me is that for every stupid women there’s 1000 stupid men

Cattery · 15/01/2025 18:19

Dominoeffecter · 15/01/2025 17:06

How is that relevant 😑

I think it’s relevant because it shows some men will shag anything if it’s on offer

MJconfessions · 15/01/2025 18:19

IWasBornIn1989 · 15/01/2025 18:13

There’s a grim documentary, YouTube I think, about the other girl Lily. She slept with 100 strangers in one day, I think in an Airbnb. Quote “there was proof in the room too, with used condoms and wrappers left all over the floor. When the documentary crew walked in, the camera operator can be seen gagging from the smell.”

I don’t know what drives them to do it. Infamy, money, self harm. God knows. It’s utterly, utterly grim and a horrible reminder than a lot of men have absolutely no boundaries 🤢

ew I can’t imagine the smell if it’s causing immediate gagging